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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% acceptable. X

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love "

Yes it is I often go just to socialise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Only asking because I remember a guy back in 2019 saying to me - you're at a swinging club aren't you fucking?

Lol at the time, I was socialising with the owner and having a few laughs.....

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

Some often go and don't play as far as we're aware. We had 2 club nights in the summer where we've chatted to people, had a laugh and a dance, and just had a play with each other.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love "
I go often and dont play xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

13 visits out of 15, I've not played. I never expected to make a connection every time I went, but going in as a single guy, if you're not part of a click, you're pretty much invisible. Still worth a look though, as you never know what might happen

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By *f252525Couple
over a year ago

mansfield

When we’ve been, we just played with each other in a private room. Other than him sucking cock at the glory hole!

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Absolutely yes! I’ve been a few times and not played. I like to chat, and be a voyeur also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't been to any myself yet, but when I do I'd only be going to get a feel for the place and hopefully just socialise.

No one should be putting any pressure on you to take part in anything you're not comfortable with. (Though I'm sure with anything there's people that will) If they do and are persistent after making your feelings clear bringing it to a staff members attention would probably be your best bet.

Though as I said at the start, I've not been, so the idea I have in my head may be completely wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally acceptable- we love the social side as much as the play side x

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Very acceptable. I do this often

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love "

Wow, we happy not play would never compromise our fun with people or person we are not attraction to..

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think it’s perfectly ok to that. I often go to a club with only socialising in mind. I enjoy the clientele, freedom and fun that can be had. Enjoy your fun times in the club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's perfectly OK. You help make a civilised crowd, and exhibitionists need voyeurs.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Most of the times we go, we don't play.

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By *ogerBottomsMan
over a year ago

Aberdare


"13 visits out of 15, I've not played. I never expected to make a connection every time I went, but going in as a single guy, if you're not part of a click, you're pretty much invisible. Still worth a look though, as you never know what might happen "

I know plenty of single guys who aren't part of any cliques that exist, who are known to be good fun and sound. It's just a case of going, talking to people, listening, etc. The more you go, the better it is. And yes, not playing is absolutely fine. Going in with the mentality that you must play or the night is wasted sets you up for a lot of disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"13 visits out of 15, I've not played. I never expected to make a connection every time I went, but going in as a single guy, if you're not part of a click, you're pretty much invisible. Still worth a look though, as you never know what might happen "

Comments like this daunt me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love "

I used to go just too socialise tbh.

Dont think it's weird at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"13 visits out of 15, I've not played. I never expected to make a connection every time I went, but going in as a single guy, if you're not part of a click, you're pretty much invisible. Still worth a look though, as you never know what might happen "

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By *ucky78Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

I go to townhouse and sometimes just chat and watch

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Course. I've been whilst on my period before now so knew before I even left the house my body was a play free zone.

Yeah I've heard comments but I think "get a life cuntface" coz to me that says they'll shag for the sake of a shag, purely because they're there which is up to them but don't expect everyone to do the same ..... or truth of the matter, they're likely peeved that you're getting attention off someone they wanna bang when you ain't gonna bone them anyway.

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love "

It isnt weird I've found within the club community people do form actual friendships while out, seeing as no one really says anything in the real world so to speak most just enjoy the socializing side and catching up the play is just a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love

It isnt weird I've found within the club community people do form actual friendships while out, seeing as no one really says anything in the real world so to speak most just enjoy the socializing side and catching up the play is just a bonus "

I just see it as place you can be a bit more liberated and yourself. Even if you are just socialising. Obviously that may depend on the club. But I feel less anxious that if I go to a Nightclub or something.

But that just maybe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love "

Nope not wierd at all... I've gone to a club plenty of times now and not played... (to date i've been to the attic 7 times i think and not played there as of yet)....

I enjoy the social side and also as a female i prefer a night out to a swinging club then to a "vanilla" nightclub....

Twisted

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Sometimes we just go to clubs to unwind, have a drink and escape the kids. Sometimes we just go to our local Club Amigos for one of their Aberdeen Angus burgers, use the spa facilities and take it from there. We don't go with a plan or an objective. We've had some awesome flithly club times, we've also had some great times where we've just had a few drinks, laughs and socialised and sometimes some great times just making our own filth. The only plan is to have a good time however we feel and whoever we find (or don't find).

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I attend regularly and don't play. Hosted a large party last week and didn't play then either!

The guy who commented was probably either pissed that you didn't want him to bang your brains out or trying to 'guilt' you into it

But 100% go and just enjoy yourself how YOU want to - within the rules of course

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love "

Totally acceptable. Most have my club visits have been just social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yes, not playing is absolutely fine. Going in with the mentality that you must play or the night is wasted sets you up for a lot of disappointment. "

This is possibly the most sound advice for anyone going to a club.

Many times I’ve been to a club just to socialise and build a rapport with others, which can then open up more opportunities for play at a later date.

For single guys it makes perfect sense to go without an agenda rather that attempt to fill up your scorecard, otherwise you could end up being one of them desperate pests who give genuinely well behaved guys a bad name.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think of a swinging club as a social club but with benefits if you decide to take them up….

Some of my best nights at clubs have been those where I have just been chatting the shit and shooting the breeze

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By *pice-meWoman
over a year ago

Home

I want to go on a female only day just for a drink, chat and get a feel for the club. So much happier about it after these comments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some often go and don't play as far as we're aware. We had 2 club nights in the summer where we've chatted to people, had a laugh and a dance, and just had a play with each other. "

It's a great night when it happens so easily.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely yes! I’ve been a few times and not played. I like to chat, and be a voyeur also "

I only see the guys voyeuring haha

Play can sometimes be sexy enough to get me in the mood

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haven't been to any myself yet, but when I do I'd only be going to get a feel for the place and hopefully just socialise.

No one should be putting any pressure on you to take part in anything you're not comfortable with. (Though I'm sure with anything there's people that will) If they do and are persistent after making your feelings clear bringing it to a staff members attention would probably be your best bet.

Though as I said at the start, I've not been, so the idea I have in my head may be completely wrong..."

Oh I was sat in the hot tub when he tried the control trick on me again.

I just said, "Make yourself useful and rub my shoulders will ya"

Bless, he soon shut up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s perfectly ok to that. I often go to a club with only socialising in mind. I enjoy the clientele, freedom and fun that can be had. Enjoy your fun times in the club! "

Hiya lovely

Too true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's perfectly OK. You help make a civilised crowd, and exhibitionists need voyeurs."

Civilised crowd

I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally acceptable. I just treat a swingers club as a social club to get to know other people. Social side is just as important if not more than just having random sex for me anyways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Course. I've been whilst on my period before now so knew before I even left the house my body was a play free zone.

Yeah I've heard comments but I think "get a life cuntface" coz to me that says they'll shag for the sake of a shag, purely because they're there which is up to them but don't expect everyone to do the same ..... or truth of the matter, they're likely peeved that you're getting attention off someone they wanna bang when you ain't gonna bone them anyway."

Hahaha sooo funny you XXX

Love your input and that pretty much covers it! I can't even elaborate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love

It isnt weird I've found within the club community people do form actual friendships while out, seeing as no one really says anything in the real world so to speak most just enjoy the socializing side and catching up the play is just a bonus "

Hiya gorgeous

Thank you very much for that X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I attend regularly and don't play. Hosted a large party last week and didn't play then either!

The guy who commented was probably either pissed that you didn't want him to bang your brains out or trying to 'guilt' you into it

But 100% go and just enjoy yourself how YOU want to - within the rules of course "

Pinky

That's surprised me, no pinky play what's going on haha!

Hope your weekend went well lovely xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think of a swinging club as a social club but with benefits if you decide to take them up….

Some of my best nights at clubs have been those where I have just been chatting the shit and shooting the breeze "

No problem and why not, you're a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I want to go on a female only day just for a drink, chat and get a feel for the club. So much happier about it after these comments."

Female only....

Do any clubs anywhere do those?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally acceptable. I just treat a swingers club as a social club to get to know other people. Social side is just as important if not more than just having random sex for me anyways. "

Good attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

***thank you everybody***

Glad to see people do the same as me!

I've took a bag of tricks to a club before now - but after asking a couple of guys if they'd like to be my sub for a bit. I watched for the very first time, how fast men could run wearing a towel.....

Best I just voyeur

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think I’ve only ever had sex twice in a club, I like clubs, but I’m really not into sex in clubs. Most of the people I see in clubs aren’t having sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I’ve only ever had sex twice in a club, I like clubs, but I’m really not into sex in clubs. Most of the people I see in clubs aren’t having sex "

Are you leaving early?

Haha

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Absolutely yes! I’ve been a few times and not played. I like to chat, and be a voyeur also

I only see the guys voyeuring haha

Play can sometimes be sexy enough to get me in the mood "

Yes is mostly the case but there are us women too. X

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love "

I haven’t read all the replies but as a solo woman that (used to) go to lots of club nights I rarely do much in the way of shagging. I’m a born voyeur and often a trouble maker in that I may encourage others. I love the social, the drinks, the attention, the naughty atmosphere, the decadence but only sometimes do I find something or someone that will lead me into temptation .

V x

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By *nglo-Indian-DelightCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Its entirely your choice, we prefer socialising or soft swap and maybe, see how it goes.

Just enjoy the occasion x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

Social and voyuer side I love

I haven’t read all the replies but as a solo woman that (used to) go to lots of club nights I rarely do much in the way of shagging. I’m a born voyeur and often a trouble maker in that I may encourage others. I love the social, the drinks, the attention, the naughty atmosphere, the decadence but only sometimes do I find something or someone that will lead me into temptation .

V x "

Love your naughty mindset

keep encouraging

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Yes, we’ve been and just played with each other. We’ve seen someone in the club just sat in her underwear reading a book quietly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in this scene for years now, so I've experienced quite a lot.

I was wondering if going to a club without playing, is exceptable or would those there to play look at it as weird...

(I know you're free to do as you please and all that)

I just have a niche for something different, not shagging till I drop (I have been there and done that)

I have only been to a club once. However, I know in all clubs if you do not want to play and just socialise that is your choice. You do not have to play.

Social and voyuer side I love "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only asking because I remember a guy back in 2019 saying to me - you're at a swinging club aren't you fucking?

Lol at the time, I was socialising with the owner and having a few laughs....."

He was a dickhead. Just because you are at a swingers club does not mean you have to play. If you play or who you play with is 100% your choice.

I bet you that guy wouldn't have gone to a couple and said the same.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I attend regularly and don't play. Hosted a large party last week and didn't play then either!

The guy who commented was probably either pissed that you didn't want him to bang your brains out or trying to 'guilt' you into it

But 100% go and just enjoy yourself how YOU want to - within the rules of course

Pinky

That's surprised me, no pinky play what's going on haha!

Hope your weekend went well lovely xxx"

Honestly I regularly don't play! More than happy to just have a crackin laugh with friends old n new

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We regularly go to clubs and don't play. If we don't meet anybody who takes our fancy we are not going to shag for the sake of it. Occasionally we might play on our on but quite often we will just stay in the bar chatting and then have fun when we get home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Acceptable.

I regularly go to my local club and play is probably 50/50

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really has surprised me this

It's more common than I thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a club last weekend and upset the apple cart because I wasn't ever going to play that specific night.

It was quiet and I was one of the only 'single type' of girls present until after 1am so it was expected for me to drop my clothes and be free rein.

I just like the social side, having a dance and a play should I choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we visit a club, we don't go with the intention of playing. We just enjoy being there, relaxing and having a laugh with each other and socialising.

If we do play its just an added bonus to a good evening.

Its not about how many people you can fuck, its about having a good time and enjoying what you want to do, not what you're expected to do.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I was just saying in another thread: clubs are about a lot more than just sex. A club is a place to be you. You can have conversations there that you'd never have in the outside world. And of course for a voyeur it's paradise.

You will get interest from people, and people will assume that you're there to have sex. Give them a gentle 'sorry, but no', and that should be enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was at a club last weekend and upset the apple cart because I wasn't ever going to play that specific night.

It was quiet and I was one of the only 'single type' of girls present until after 1am so it was expected for me to drop my clothes and be free rein.

I just like the social side, having a dance and a play should I choose.

"

Was that the feeling you got or was it actually said to you - because that's really uncomfortable for you and bang out of order, you are made to feel that way!

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"I was at a club last weekend and upset the apple cart because I wasn't ever going to play that specific night.

It was quiet and I was one of the only 'single type' of girls present until after 1am so it was expected for me to drop my clothes and be free rein.

I just like the social side, having a dance and a play should I choose.

Was that the feeling you got or was it actually said to you - because that's really uncomfortable for you and bang out of order, you are made to feel that way!"

At quiet events (most often daytime ones) I’ve had comments when I wasn’t playing. I’ve also found blokes using their body language to make it difficult for me - crowded room, so I literally felt like the only space available to me was on the bed. And I’ve noticed I tend to get more unwanted touches on nights when I’m not playing.

People don’t tend to use words for situations like this. They don’t need to. Body language in swinging counts a lot for invitation and welcoming, but it can go the other way too.

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By *ood Girl KatWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I really want to go to one and see and get a feel for what it's like etc. I'd be going with a friend first who's been before. I don't intend to play straight off the bat. I'd like to socialise and maybe play with my friend, who knows.

I've been looking at clubs Web pages and everyone of them has stated on there that there's no pressure to play and no means no

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’d say half the time I’m at a clubs I’m not playing with anyone. I’ve even been to gay saunas on TV days and not played. I’m often happy enough to just get dressed up and socialise with people, besides sex messes up my makeup.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"Totally acceptable- we love the social side as much as the play side x"

We agree ??

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We love the social side as much as the play side, so totally acceptable to us! I recently visited a ladies only night at a club, and didn’t play, I love to watch as it’s a huge turn on for me. Love it when you get a cheeky wink or smile from someone whilst they’re playing too! Miss pc

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By *ancs married coupleCouple
over a year ago

Silverdale

When weve been, aside from the odd bi fem snog, weve pretty much gone to socialise. Have to say some really lovely people in the scene. Weirdly we dont think its sexy at all in the play rooms. Not intimate enough for us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everybody has had something interesting to say, with their outlook and experience.

Really great to read, thank you for your input.

I'll feel less conscious not playing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just coz your in a club it doesn't mean you're up for anything with anyone.

I've not played more than I have in clubs.

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By *ood girl74Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

Im really glad u read all these messages! Its made me feel better about going to a club.

Im currently single and i dont think id go alone. Does anyone go to townhouse, liverpool so i can tag along?

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Does anyone go to townhouse, liverpool so i can tag along? "

I've been a couple of times now, and will be going again (as a couple) in a few weeks. It'll be an excellent first club for you. They have regular "newbies" nights, so maybe try one of those first.

You're going to get a lot of men offering to take you. I would not recommend going with a man that you don't know. Go with a friend, or another woman. Or if you get brave enough, go on your own - you'll be well looked after once you're there.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

From our experience with club visits.

We play around 25% of the time, for many reasons.

Still enjoy our night.

Best just ignore any of the children dressed in men's bodies who make comments previously quoted.

Do what makes you happy, not other people.

Sometimes, far more sexual chemistry at a social gathering than a party or club.

Have fun.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Im really glad u read all these messages! Its made me feel better about going to a club.

Im currently single and i dont think id go alone. Does anyone go to townhouse, liverpool so i can tag along? "

Townhouse will be fine for you to go alone, they have newbie nights and social nights.

Maybe meet up initially with any single or couple you intend to tag along, maybe just for a chat and coffee at first.

Stay safe.

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By *ood girl74Woman
over a year ago

liverpool

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By *ood girl74Woman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Im really glad u read all these messages! Its made me feel better about going to a club.

Im currently single and i dont think id go alone. Does anyone go to townhouse, liverpool so i can tag along?

Townhouse will be fine for you to go alone, they have newbie nights and social nights.

Maybe meet up initially with any single or couple you intend to tag along, maybe just for a chat and coffee at first.

Stay safe. "
thanks, i might go on my own xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's perfectly OK. You help make a civilised crowd, and *** exhibitionists need voyeurs ***."

*** Yes, this!!

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

A lot of members go to socialise as do we and watch others having fun. We have a play more often than not even if it’s just the two of us in the private room. No two nights are the same. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it is acceptable, you don't sign a contract saying you have to have sex before you go in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been going to clubs for a few years now and more often than not only play with each other. Maybe we’ve been lucky but there’s never been an expectation for us to play with others at any of the clubs we’ve visited.

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