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By *ovelybum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

From the single guys..."Why is it that we are so much of an outcast by many? Single Ladies: Why is it "I cant find the nice guy"? Couples: Why is it that we have to deal with single guys?...LoL! No matter who you are here and what you are looking for ..you are always going to find that one that erks your nerves! If you are here..its because you are a swinger and to us.. a swinger is a person that lives life opening to the many facets that the Lifestyle brings. The only advice we have for you all is to play the game right, honestly and correctly and maybe you will find watever it is you are looking for. In life as a whole you never know what is coming, but if you are open and honest maybe you will get what you expect. So dont come into this lifestyle thinking its only about sex, or getting the right partner, or having the time of your life...cum with an open mind and deal with watever happens openly. If its not your bag, well maybe you did not express yourself correctly on your profile and if its something you like, enjoy it, cause its wat it is for as long as you let it be. Live life freely and safely and maybe then you can be "HAPPY"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think anyone would be happy looking at your Arse....when God was dishing them out he blessed you my child

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By *nzo sussexMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"i think anyone would be happy looking at your Arse....when God was dishing them out he blessed you my child "
what they said....!

Good advice from o/p however.

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By *ovelybum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"i think anyone would be happy looking at your Arse....when God was dishing them out he blessed you my child "
Thanks padre

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Gotta agree..... the arse .... Is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoyed reading your post! I just love being apart of this life style, and maybe soon I will be lucky to meet my long term partner on this site.

Even though I have been on this site sinse April this year and not had a single reply from anyone. I'm not going to give up lol... One day maybe lol!

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By *ovelybum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"I enjoyed reading your post! I just love being apart of this life style, and maybe soon I will be lucky to meet my long term partner on this site.

Even though I have been on this site sinse April this year and not had a single reply from anyone. I'm not going to give up lol... One day maybe lol!"
Keep Walking

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I must admit my attitude towards the meets has changed over the time I have been on here. If I get a meet then goody, if not then there's always something else to do. If someone stands me up, I get miffed, but sitting in a pub with a pint and my kindle isn't awful.

I have noticed that some of the people posting on the forums saying they are struggling give the impression that they are desperate for a shag and their life won't be complete til they get a meet. IMO they might be more relaxed (and maybe get more meets) if they use Fab as an addition to their life, not the be all of it.

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By *ovelybum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"I must admit my attitude towards the meets has changed over the time I have been on here. If I get a meet then goody, if not then there's always something else to do. If someone stands me up, I get miffed, but sitting in a pub with a pint and my kindle isn't awful.

I have noticed that some of the people posting on the forums saying they are struggling give the impression that they are desperate for a shag and their life won't be complete til they get a meet. IMO they might be more relaxed (and maybe get more meets) if they use Fab as an addition to their life, not the be all of it."
Couldn't agree more

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton


"I enjoyed reading your post! I just love being apart of this life style, and maybe soon I will be lucky to meet my long term partner on this site.

Even though I have been on this site sinse April this year and not had a single reply from anyone. I'm not going to give up lol... One day maybe lol!"

I can't see why you've not had a meet yet. You seem nice and your profile seems attractive , well to me it does. I think the OP was saying that swinging is great if you can allow yourself to go with the flow, what ever will be, will be......what ever won't be, won't be.....

It's about expectations. My view is that if you don't have any then you can't be disappointed. Do you think you've set your bar a little high if you're hoping to find a long term partner on here? It is what it is , a sex site after all. Do you not think that you might be better off going on a dating site for what you're looking for? On there, you're more likely to meet fems with the same expectations as you? Sorry to ramble. x

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By *ovelybum OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"I enjoyed reading your post! I just love being apart of this life style, and maybe soon I will be lucky to meet my long term partner on this site.

Even though I have been on this site sinse April this year and not had a single reply from anyone. I'm not going to give up lol... One day maybe lol!

I can't see why you've not had a meet yet. You seem nice and your profile seems attractive , well to me it does. I think the OP was saying that swinging is great if you can allow yourself to go with the flow, what ever will be, will be......what ever won't be, won't be.....

It's about expectations. My view is that if you don't have any then you can't be disappointed. Do you think you've set your bar a little high if you're hoping to find a long term partner on here? It is what it is , a sex site after all. Do you not think that you might be better off going on a dating site for what you're looking for? On there, you're more likely to meet fems with the same expectations as you? Sorry to ramble. x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the single guys..."Why is it that we are so much of an outcast by many? Single Ladies: Why is it "I cant find the nice guy"? Couples: Why is it that we have to deal with single guys?...LoL! No matter who you are here and what you are looking for ..you are always going to find that one that erks your nerves! If you are here..its because you are a swinger and to us.. a swinger is a person that lives life

opening to the many facets that the Lifestyle brings. The only advice we have for you all is to play the game right, honestly and correctly and maybe you will find watever it is you are looking for. In life as a whole you never know what is coming, but if you are open and honest maybe you will get what you expect. So dont come into this lifestyle thinking its only about sex, or getting the right partner, or having the time of your life...cum with an open mind and deal with watever happens openly. If its not your bag, well maybe you did not express yourself correctly on your profile and if its something you like, enjoy it, cause its wat it is for as long as you let it be. Live life freely and safely and maybe then you can be "HAPPY"! "

Well said

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