FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong?

By *inkyDom96 OP Man
over a year ago

Yarmouth

Been on here for a good few years now and with almost 0 success only 1 meet and a party, I’m always polite and respectful when messaging people. Is it my profile? Pictures? Where am I going wrong?

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By *ftereightMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

You could do with a few more pics, ie torso and bum.

A LOT of people will be put off by you mentioning you like to be called Daddy, as Daddy-Daughter play is not for everyone. Id suggest a little humour in your profile to, its a descriptive profile, but lacks personality and humour. If your messages to people feature a dick pic, or one liner such as 'hi how are you' you're pretty much always going to get ignored on Fab. Hope that helps

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's difficult to imagine being with you from your pics, as there's little to go on. I need to know I will probably fancy someone.

If you push the dom/sub side, you will probably lower the number of people who will have interest. You're yhen left with tons of guys competing with you for a smaller group of people.

Think of it as being where you sell you to them, rather then detaining who you want

Get out and use clubs and socials too

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

A lot of females here will have kids your age. That won't help.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Your a man,that's the main thing against you. Woman on here have a lot more men to choose from than we do of them. Your chances are very slim,though not impossible. I've had one meet in 12 years,you might be the same,or never,or might get one tomorrow. It's just chance.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

"It's difficult to imagine being with you from your pics, as there's little to go on. I need to know I will probably fancy someone.

If you push the dom/sub side, you will probably lower the number of people who will have interest. You're yhen left with tons of guys competing with you for a smaller group of people.

Think of it as being where you sell you to them, rather then detaining who you want

Get out and use clubs and socials too"

Agree with this. Your profile also doesn't read as if your are a dom or into bdsm, Simply just saying those words doesn't make the grade on here. But besides all that, 1 meet in a year....another dude on here saying 1 in a decade, why still be on here when you'll have more success elsewhere. There so many threads on here with singe males asking for help, and the people commenting and giving advice are single women and couples...who they are wanting to meet but it seems single guys can't connect the dots. You need to add Sadomasochism as a thing you like, unfortunately you'll just never get to inflict just endure

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Calling yourself a dom at 25 yet looking for experiences. Sorry but we just find that hilarious. Also you can't accommodate.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

(For background, I’m a lifestyle sub and active on the kink scene.)

1. I don’t want to know what you think the most interesting thing about you is, I want space and information to figure that out for myself.

2. “Daddy” is a title you earn by trust and being a good daddy, not something you ask for. There’s nothing in your profile that suggests nurturing or protectiveness to me, though.

3. Are you looking for a sub on a swingers site, or NSA kink?

At clubs, you’ll do ok. I know a local daddy dom who is even younger than you are and doing just fine. But fab, for a lot of people, is not where we go to look for meets.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I think you've confused being in control with being a Dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you go to clubs, best way to meet people.

I seen women and couples meet guys with no profile pics and terrible profiles. See that all the time.

Clubs are the way, especially now.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

You want to meet regularly and be apart of the swinging scene.

All guys take note!!!

Good profile with character and range of photographs.

Networking through online forum posting and chat rooms.

Networking through physical social events and clubs.

You build up a network of swinging friends. You become part of the scene. You gain respect. You get invites to more personal get togethers..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You want to meet regularly and be apart of the swinging scene.

All guys take note!!!

Good profile with character and range of photographs.

Networking through online forum posting and chat rooms.

Networking through physical social events and clubs.

You build up a network of swinging friends. You become part of the scene. You gain respect. You get invites to more personal get togethers..

This

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

"You want to meet regularly and be apart of the swinging scene.

All guys take note!!!

Good profile with character and range of photographs.

Networking through online forum posting and chat rooms.

Networking through physical social events and clubs.

You build up a network of swinging friends. You become part of the scene. You gain respect. You get invites to more personal get togethers..

This

I second this too!

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