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By *sBlue OP   Woman
over a year ago

Up North

I see all the time men on here can’t get verified, can’t get meets etc etc but it’s hard as a single lady as well to find the right person. Any others with the same issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know im not a woman, but im curious as to why you find it hard? I understand you have your preferences, but im sure theres been at least a few guys who were right for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard for a couple also, as we are now hedging towards looking for a single woman to join us for mostly FF play but with a guy (me) there also…..needle in haystack time!

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By *sBlue OP   Woman
over a year ago

Up North


"I know im not a woman, but im curious as to why you find it hard? I understand you have your preferences, but im sure theres been at least a few guys who were right for you"

Well I can’t find them lol

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m with you op. It’s tricky.

I can never know if they’re suitable until I’ve met them so it often results in socials that go nowhere.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I agree op,

I don't know it's because im in a ltr, but I struggle to find men I'd want to meet here.

Then typically the ones I ever do, are miles away.

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By *sBlue OP   Woman
over a year ago

Up North


"I agree op,

I don't know it's because im in a ltr, but I struggle to find men I'd want to meet here.

Then typically the ones I ever do, are miles away.

"

I find that too. Always too far away

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Simply put if you do a search in your area with say 50miles limit for what you are looking for. Then look and see if there is attraction. You will find it limited to a handful at best.

The more rural you are the less it becomes.

So you have three options. You lower standards to have more choice or you expand you search criteria and travel more or you go to socials and clubs to meet others and perhaps click with people you would never that though about as an option or type.

That goes for anybody on FAB... basic principles..

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By *sBlue OP   Woman
over a year ago

Up North


"Simply put if you do a search in your area with say 50miles limit for what you are looking for. Then look and see if there is attraction. You will find it limited to a handful at best.

The more rural you are the less it becomes.

So you have three options. You lower standards to have more choice or you expand you search criteria and travel more or you go to socials and clubs to meet others and perhaps click with people you would never that though about as an option or type.

That goes for anybody on FAB... basic principles..

"

Oh believe me I do all that

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"I see all the time men on here can’t get verified, can’t get meets etc etc but it’s hard as a single lady as well to find the right person. Any others with the same issue. "

You were polite sexy and friendly when I met you. I’m surprised you struggle to find someone compatible. Although we don’t tend to find many guys we like in clubs. But most of the guys on here near us aren’t for us . We have so much more luck in normal night clubs and bars with finding the people we are compatible with.

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By *sBlue OP   Woman
over a year ago

Up North


"I see all the time men on here can’t get verified, can’t get meets etc etc but it’s hard as a single lady as well to find the right person. Any others with the same issue.

You were polite sexy and friendly when I met you. I’m surprised you struggle to find someone compatible. Although we don’t tend to find many guys we like in clubs. But most of the guys on here near us aren’t for us . We have so much more luck in normal night clubs and bars with finding the people we are compatible with. "

Ah thank you. It is hard but I will persevere lol

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