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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone hope you keep warm... i need some advice.. whitch sex toya would you recommend for a beginners me and my gf wants to spice it up but we dont know from what we should start exploring the sex toys world?

Appreciate all recommendation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wand vibrators are so good to use as they’re very versatile! But simple things like butt plus and beads are also super fun. Best thing is to look together and decide!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I agree, the ladies love a wand and you can use it during penetration so you’re cock feels it too

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Rabbit vibrator and a wand would be my recommendation.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Char's got loads, but the only ones that come out regularly are the wands.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Is it for you or her? If it's for her find out whether she wants clitoral or vaginal stimulation or both. Then choose something that fits the bill. Whatever you choose I hope you both enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it for you or her? If it's for her find out whether she wants clitoral or vaginal stimulation or both. Then choose something that fits the bill. Whatever you choose I hope you both enjoy it "

Id say for both... she loves clit simulation so i may go fof a wand

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it for you or her? If it's for her find out whether she wants clitoral or vaginal stimulation or both. Then choose something that fits the bill. Whatever you choose I hope you both enjoy it

Id say for both... she loves clit simulation so i may go fof a wand "

One word of warning about wands, they are extremely intense and can leave you desensitized for a while. They aren't for everyone. If a guy is buying for a woman of indeed give versa I'd advise checking with her first.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it for you or her? If it's for her find out whether she wants clitoral or vaginal stimulation or both. Then choose something that fits the bill. Whatever you choose I hope you both enjoy it

Id say for both... she loves clit simulation so i may go fof a wand

One word of warning about wands, they are extremely intense and can leave you desensitized for a while. They aren't for everyone. If a guy is buying for a woman of indeed give versa I'd advise checking with her first. "

Vice versa *

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it for you or her? If it's for her find out whether she wants clitoral or vaginal stimulation or both. Then choose something that fits the bill. Whatever you choose I hope you both enjoy it

Id say for both... she loves clit simulation so i may go fof a wand

One word of warning about wands, they are extremely intense and can leave you desensitized for a while. They aren't for everyone. If a guy is buying for a woman of indeed give versa I'd advise checking with her first.

Vice versa *"

Is there any intense level to regulate as im worried now it maybe too strong for her as you says it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it for you or her? If it's for her find out whether she wants clitoral or vaginal stimulation or both. Then choose something that fits the bill. Whatever you choose I hope you both enjoy it

Id say for both... she loves clit simulation so i may go fof a wand

One word of warning about wands, they are extremely intense and can leave you desensitized for a while. They aren't for everyone. If a guy is buying for a woman of indeed give versa I'd advise checking with her first.

Vice versa *

Is there any intense level to regulate as im worried now it maybe too strong for her as you says it"

Yeah, I have a couple and you can regulate speed and intensity on one and speed, intensity and vibration pattern on the other. Obviously I don't know your partner which is why I'm loathe to recommend any sort of personal item. How about buying a cheap one to try?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it for you or her? If it's for her find out whether she wants clitoral or vaginal stimulation or both. Then choose something that fits the bill. Whatever you choose I hope you both enjoy it

Id say for both... she loves clit simulation so i may go fof a wand

One word of warning about wands, they are extremely intense and can leave you desensitized for a while. They aren't for everyone. If a guy is buying for a woman of indeed give versa I'd advise checking with her first.

Vice versa *

Is there any intense level to regulate as im worried now it maybe too strong for her as you says it

Yeah, I have a couple and you can regulate speed and intensity on one and speed, intensity and vibration pattern on the other. Obviously I don't know your partner which is why I'm loathe to recommend any sort of personal item. How about buying a cheap one to try?"

Thats what we gonna do. Thank you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is it for you or her? If it's for her find out whether she wants clitoral or vaginal stimulation or both. Then choose something that fits the bill. Whatever you choose I hope you both enjoy it

Id say for both... she loves clit simulation so i may go fof a wand

One word of warning about wands, they are extremely intense and can leave you desensitized for a while. They aren't for everyone. If a guy is buying for a woman of indeed give versa I'd advise checking with her first.

Vice versa *

Is there any intense level to regulate as im worried now it maybe too strong for her as you says it

Yeah, I have a couple and you can regulate speed and intensity on one and speed, intensity and vibration pattern on the other. Obviously I don't know your partner which is why I'm loathe to recommend any sort of personal item. How about buying a cheap one to try?

Thats what we gonna do. Thank you "

Enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doxy Wand and a bullet egg that can both be used on both of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget water based lube. Use with the toys to avoid friction burn.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Vibrating dildo is a good start. Can be used on inside and outside so fairly versatile. Get one with adjustable speeds so you can find the speed u like. Mrs likes it low speed but many are often too high speed.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

in our experience girls fall into two camps clitoral and penetration whilst we realise both is an option most girls have a preference

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

her current favorite is one of these but a cheaper version

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/womanizer-x-lovehoney-pro40-rechargeable-clitoral-stimulator/a36927g74431.html

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Maybe start a couples profile on fab that might spice things up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My go to time and time again is my doxy

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

Satisfyer double joy.

Can be used as couple sex toy or single. Here's the good part it can also be controlled by app. So if your partner was horny and you was at away or work, you can control it from your phone.

I got mine from The-Amour-shack on ebay.

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By *ilent_runningMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth, Notts & Spain

Sarah's order of preference...

Lelo Lily

..my fingers and tongue!!

Satisfyer

Silicone butt plug

Lelo Sona 2

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By *ihullfunMan
over a year ago

hull

Looking at buying a new toy for my wife? What’s the best to buy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bought the "satisfyer" a couple of weeks ago and it's the first toy that's ever made me climax so Id definitely recommend that one for her :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking at buying a new toy for my wife? What’s the best to buy? "

My Little Pony...or some Lego

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Satisfyer2 every time.

However, an anal hook is perfectly formed for g-spot stimulus,

Does tend to create a little squirting though.

Something to do with the g-spot and the glands around it.

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