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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I'm not here too long and getting used to it now. I do my best to send respectable messages and get some replies but can't "get off the ground" and meet someone. I don't think my profile is that much worse than some of them. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I'm not here too long and getting used to it now. I do my best to send respectable messages and get some replies but can't "get off the ground" and meet someone. I don't think my profile is that much worse than some of them. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you"

Yeah pretty boring mate !!!

Any hobbies like roller blading or karate women seem to love that on here !!!

Basically waffle more people think I’m the 2001 street fighter gran pre champion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try getting to an organised social and see if you can get someone to verify you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, thanks I did do a lot of Charity boxing. Maybe they'd want to see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, thanks I did do a lot of Charity boxing. Maybe they'd want to see that"

Boxing always looks good mate bang that up for sure

But that couple above has some points it’s good to get stuck in pal just PM gets you no where

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I seen it look better then most mate enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try getting to an organised social and see if you can get someone to verify you "
Thank you. There was one.on.the other day near me but couldn't go unfortunately. I get some nice replies but that's about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I seen it look better then most mate enjoy "
Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Cosmo said, get to an organised social, lots coming up now or get to a club and just chill out, have a blast and don't expect anything!

If you're getting replies to messages, you're already doing well!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You've joined after the pandemic caused havoc and deterred meetings, as well as being at the end of a queue, full of others who may have been waiting over a year to meet.

It's never easy for single men, so realistic expectations helps. Having a profile that's not as bad as many people just puts you in front of them, all things being equal. You need to be the best for you, to give yourself the strongest chances. Keep learning and improving it - don't stop.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As Cosmo said, get to an organised social, lots coming up now or get to a club and just chill out, have a blast and don't expect anything!

If you're getting replies to messages, you're already doing well! "
Thanks. 'Will keep trying

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"As Cosmo said, get to an organised social, lots coming up now or get to a club and just chill out, have a blast and don't expect anything!

If you're getting replies to messages, you're already doing well! Thanks. 'Will keep trying"

Do a forum search on profiles ... your pictures sorry are boring your 45 and can't accommodate screams attached and your bio basically says you would meet and play with anyone that screams desperate I would instantly block profiles like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've joined after the pandemic caused havoc and deterred meetings, as well as being at the end of a queue, full of others who may have been waiting over a year to meet.

It's never easy for single men, so realistic expectations helps. Having a profile that's not as bad as many people just puts you in front of them, all things being equal. You need to be the best for you, to give yourself the strongest chances. Keep learning and improving it - don't stop. "
Thank you for the feedback. I was here before during the pandemic last year so it really seemed like a waste of time I have spoken with some really nice people though and still in touch.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As Cosmo said, get to an organised social, lots coming up now or get to a club and just chill out, have a blast and don't expect anything!

If you're getting replies to messages, you're already doing well! Thanks. 'Will keep trying

Do a forum search on profiles ... your pictures sorry are boring your 45 and can't accommodate screams attached and your bio basically says you would meet and play with anyone that screams desperate I would instantly block profiles like that "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As Cosmo said, get to an organised social, lots coming up now or get to a club and just chill out, have a blast and don't expect anything!

If you're getting replies to messages, you're already doing well! Thanks. 'Will keep trying

Do a forum search on profiles ... your pictures sorry are boring your 45 and can't accommodate screams attached and your bio basically says you would meet and play with anyone that screams desperate I would instantly block profiles like that "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not everyone can accomodate. I'm actually separated and live with my kids. I don't want to vring anyone home yet. I have looked at a lot of profiles. Many are worse than mine.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

It’s not exciting I’m afraid . Photos are all very similar. Boring photos tends to mean boring in person. And your one paragraph of text hasn’t given me any temptation to message you.

There may be worse profiles than yours but there are thousands that are better. And remove the i’ll try anything once line. It’s on 1 in 3 profiles and it’s lame.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

It's better than some, obviously, as a lot have no pics and no text whatsoever. So it looks like a little bit of effort has gone in. But the pictures need work and the text is nothing that we've not seen everywhere else.

It's not enough to be better than most other guys, unfortunately. We've worked out that due to the numbers of meets we do and the numbers of messages we get, it's literally 1% that will end with a meet. It's dead easy to stay out of the bottom 80% but it's damn hard to get into that 1%

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s not exciting I’m afraid . Photos are all very similar. Boring photos tends to mean boring in person. And your one paragraph of text hasn’t given me any temptation to message you.

There may be worse profiles than yours but there are thousands that are better. And remove the i’ll try anything once line. It’s on 1 in 3 profiles and it’s lame. "
Ok. Thanks for the feedback. I have sent respectable and witty messages and got a bit of a laugh. I'll try and transend it to the profile

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I quite like your profile but you not able to accommodate is a problem as lots of women can't or won't.

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