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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have been on the site a very long time and have had a meet got verifications and pics to send in messages etc

But every time I send a message it always gets deleted or just read with no reply. I'm always polite and never just send a one liner message saying fuck me or things like that, any advice on what I can do to change this? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A slightly more humble name?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinking that, but its just the name of a song I liked at the time lol I'm nowhere near that cocky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking that, but its just the name of a song I liked at the time lol I'm nowhere near that cocky "

unfortunately people won't realise the reasons you have chosen it and will dismiss you thinking you are cocky!

Profile name is very important, its the first thing people will see, well that and your avatar photo!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh I will be changing it to but I have no idea what to!?! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we wouldn't meet anyone with a name like 'romeo' 'lothario' 'wife pleaser' 'sex god' etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No wouldn't want a cheesy name like that, was thinking maybe 'love to pleasure' but that's a bit lame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wouldn't want a cheesy name like that, was thinking maybe 'love to pleasure' but that's a bit lame "

I like that "Love to pleasure" Have to make sure that no one else is using the new name that you choose.... (Perky)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd add to the photos as well if I was you, am sure there is more to you than just a cock lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like that "Love to pleasure" Have to make sure that no one else is using the new name that you choose.... (Perky)

Thanks might actually use that, or maybe the nickname I got at my meet 'big Ben' lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh there is but I'm not that confident with putting it in public, got a body shot in my private pics though and face to send out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like that "Love to pleasure" Have to make sure that no one else is using the new name that you choose.... (Perky)

Thanks might actually use that, or maybe the nickname I got at my meet 'big Ben' lol"

Pork this time! What a LOT of people fail to do with their profiles (and that goes for single guys, single women and couples.... Oh and TV's etc etc - well EVERYBODY really!) is they don't sit back, REALLY look at their profile IN DETAIL and think how it comes over to the kind of person they are aiming it at. And it does start with your username... then it carries on into everything else that has been (and will be!) mentioned..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks pork! I will change my name and re structure my profile and see how I get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh there is but I'm not that confident with putting it in public, got a body shot in my private pics though and face to send out "

What's wrong with showing your body pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have been on the site a very long time and have had a meet got verifications and pics to send in messages etc

But every time I send a message it always gets deleted or just read with no reply. I'm always polite and never just send a one liner message saying fuck me or things like that, any advice on what I can do to change this? Thanks"

ca i say hun may help without the cock pics . alot of couples get fed up with pics like that

sorry but you did ask xx

love rose xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeh there is but I'm not that confident with putting it in public, got a body shot in my private pics though and face to send out

What's wrong with showing your body pic? "

I'm just not that confident showing my body, I'm confident about my cock so I show that but if people do want to see my body I send it to them

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