FabSwingers.com forum: Should I delete my profile and start again?

By *ent_guy_30 OP Man
over a year ago

kent

Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need to delete it to rewrite it.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Feedback..

A decent selection of photos, it would be good to have a photo of you smiling.

Age range. Would you really meet someone in their 90s ?

Write up.. it doesn't read quite right. Something about always presented ??? Maybe alter that bit.

Overall not a bad profile though.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Why deleting and start again ?

Are you going to personify or still same person?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

What will you gain from starting again? Just update it

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?

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You have no verifications to lose so why start again!?

Just update your profile and add some appealing pics and see how it goes from there

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Op you need to start again

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Your profile is ok OP, it’s open and friendly. No negative feedback.

If you were to start again what would you like to change? If I were you I’d just stick with this profile and change anything you’d do differently next time.

Your communication style is key really. How you’re approaching people and how you chat is the key to success here. We can’t see any of that from your profile, but if you’re struggling then maybe that’s the issue.

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By *ent_guy_30 OP Man
over a year ago

kent

Thanks for all the feedback guys. At work so can’t really reply to each individual one but appreciate it all. I shall change a few things later.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Your profile is good even the pictures you have given some details within your bio which you enjoy which others could find interesting with having similar interests so add more pictures occasionally adding a little kink and also engaging with the forum can also strike up a connection

Good luck pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there is much wrong with it, so I wouldn’t worry about starting again.

Maybe put a bit more of your personality in the bio.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Shave that tash off....lol

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Get rid of the old pictures though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

many do start again to erase the fact they met no one so looks like theyve just started ...but it makes no sense if youve met no one and having no luck then it would be the same as people wont want to know for the same reasons,

i avoid guys on here who cant think for themselve with a basic profile asking for advice turns your profile stale like all the others that have asked come on op only you know you and what your looking for ...nobody else does

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We've had almost 2 years of Covid, so it's stopped possibilities for much of your time here.

The focus is on investing the effort that provides the biggest likelihood of others finding and seeing what they'd like to of you, in order to assess you suitably. A new profile is harder work.

Show your physique - people would have to get close to it.

Sell yourself more than what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 March, 11 June and the cute bum one are really great pics.

I'd choose those three as enough for public viewing.

I think you have lovely lips/mouth and eyes....

Not sure why you can't change your name if you want to - you are a site supporter....

If you aren't happy with your profile write up. Have another think, maybe look at some of the popular guys and it'll give you some idea. Obviously not copy, but just see how there's is wrote....

I think you are a good looking guy...

Just have a rethink about presentation, that's all...

Take care x

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Not sure what difference that'll make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder.... Plenty of Fish.... Badoo.... Maybe you're in the wrong dreamland?!!... Bit harsh?... But bit true!!!

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By *ornytoad1362Couple
over a year ago

St. Austell

Yes profile isn't too bad just need a bit of patience and of course you are on here with loads of other single guys too try and stand out from "the crowd "

i & j

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get verified. If you go to Silverleighs...you should be able to get someone there to verify you

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By *ent_guy_30 OP Man
over a year ago

kent

Thanks for all the feedback it’s really much appreciated. I’ve read them all and am going to adjust my profile. Thanks again

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

"Tinder.... Plenty of Fish.... Badoo.... Maybe you're in the wrong dreamland?!!... Bit harsh?... But bit true!!!"

Bang on. op this is what single guys should read before joining. Poorly written spelling mistakes and rambling it's what I put on a similar post. I navigate the site in spite of these things to make it worth my while, if you cant rejoin tinder if already not on it.

When joining this site it should be obvious, as it was to me the following

1. Worst, most convoluted, shambles, un-user friendly platform ive ever seen.

2 Single straight male, bi not so much, are sending out messages daily like it pof.com. the law of averages doesn't work here

3 you will be blocked sometimes even if the banter was great, it's not personal get over it.

2. site is geared towards swingers. It has lots of other functions but you will feel like an unwanted guest at a private sauna party sometimes, accept

In order of rank, with most important first this is the pecking order of fab.com

Couples (every combination)

Women (single or otherwise)

Site admin (see above)

The reception dude that answers the phone when you call fab.com HQ

The lady that goes around fab.com HQ delivering sandwiches and tea and biscuits.

Single bi men

Dave who works nighttime security at fab.com HQ

The guy that come to empty the tampon bin and restock the tampon machine in all the ladies toilets at fab.com HQ

Then....its Single males, even thoug there's shedloads. Single guys need to focus on this.....Fab.com is a place where you can pretty much say what you want and be specific over every aspect regardless of your livng arrangements, location, sexual orientation and so on and not be judged, and have it but messaging like it's tinder and throwing toys out of pram is piss poor and comes across desperate and good luck finding desperate as a females kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it ain't my kink lol....

Nice to know tammy-man still thought about.....

But I agree totally, spot on!

Nice arm ink btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder.... Plenty of Fish.... Badoo.... Maybe you're in the wrong dreamland?!!... Bit harsh?... But bit true!!!

When joining this site it should be obvious, as it was to me the following

1. Worst, most convoluted, shambles, un-user friendly platform ive ever seen.

2 Single straight male, bi not so much, are sending out messages daily like it pof.com. the law of averages doesn't work here

3 you will be blocked sometimes even if the banter was great, it's not personal get over it.

2. site is geared towards swingers. It has lots of other functions but you will feel like an unwanted guest at a private sauna party sometimes, accept

In order of rank, with most important first this is the pecking order of fab.com

Couples (every combination)

Women (single or otherwise)

Site admin (see above)

The reception dude that answers the phone when you call fab.com HQ

The lady that goes around fab.com HQ delivering sandwiches and tea and biscuits.

Single bi men

Dave who works nighttime security at fab.com HQ

The guy that come to empty the tampon bin and restock the tampon machine in all the ladies toilets at fab.com HQ

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?

Keep it. Add a line to say you joined at the start of covid and that's why you haven't met anyone yet.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive "

This

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive "

And they prefer men to boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive

And they prefer men to boys"

Yep

Other than that, it’s a reasonable profile.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive

And they prefer men to boys

Yep

Other than that, it’s a reasonable profile. "

Just join pof.com where copy and paste messages, sending as many as you physical can without reading profiles and law of averages on there will mean you will get lucky in whatever your looking for.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive

And they prefer men to boys"

OP is 30 so hardly a boy ?

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By *ouise73Woman
over a year ago

Crawley

Pictures are great. Finally I have read a profile and looked at pictures and no cock on show

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive

And they prefer men to boys

OP is 30 so hardly a boy ? "

Im hoping he's sent from a rival website, to start a failure chain in fab.com cause a massive rift between single straight men and the others, they feel oppressed by lack of success on here and marginalised and the constant whining drives the swingers etc to another site that doesn't allow single men. All that's left in fab.com is men, gets taken over by grindr who saw opportunity in one fell swoop to get huge number of paying members..and once the fab.com single straight guys realise they can have sex (albeit not with women) by simply sending a message that says 'I want to fuck' the approach they adopted on fab.com

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Hyderabad India

"Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?

Nice profile - explain why you can’t accommodate and what your alternative hosting arrangements are

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There seems little point in opening a new profile when you can just change the one you already have OP. Seriously, what do you think you can write on a new profile that you can't write on this one?

From a personal perspective, if we notic local guys closing and opening profiles we tend to think they are just here for the thrill of the chase and are not serious about meeting. This may not be the case of course, but some people open a new profile every few days and never seem to get anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive

And they prefer men to boys

OP is 30 so hardly a boy ? "

His profile name says he’s a shy boy.

It’s all there if you read it

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By *aisyandCarlosCouple
over a year ago

fareham

I don't know how you approach people, but if it is along the lines of "hey" "how are you?" Or wanna fuck, you can pretty much guarantee no success.

Read profiles and see if people are looking for someone like you and if they are, wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi people. Just another guy wanting some feedback (good or bad) on my profile. I have been on and off here for over a year now and am at the point of thinking maybe I should delete and start again.?

I’m curious why do you think the outcome would be any different !

Change your name new pics and see how that goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive

And they prefer men to boys

OP is 30 so hardly a boy ?

There you go again, with that vivid imagination

you must be into role play

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

"Change your profile name OP on the whole mist women find confidence in a man attractive

And they prefer men to boys

OP is 30 so hardly a boy ?

There you go again, with that vivid imagination

you must be into role play

Ha the opposite, I'm not good at role play, a horror show

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By *unning LinguistMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No. U should get yourself to a night club and ask a girl for a dance...

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

"No. U should get yourself to a night club and ask a girl for a dance...

Old school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. U should get yourself to a night club and ask a girl for a dance...

Old school "

But don’t drop the hand your a gentleman apparently

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

You are small fish in a sea of sharks think you're the best way forward is a swingers club.

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