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By *ontana31 OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

wot do i rite on messages?i kno every 1 is different but any help advice would b helpfull getting no joy on site wouldnt say i was that bad

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

everyone's different in what they like but for me I'd say try writing in full English rather than text speak. As for content I like it when a guy starts of by saying who they are and asking if we'll check their profile, a nice comment on someones pictures helps too. It's also a good idea to read through their profile and try and tailor your message to what that says.

Good luck

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By *ontana31 OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

cheers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

that's ok. I also notice that you have nothing at all in your profile, maybe write a little bit about yourself, doesn't have to be an essay just who you are, what you like that sort of thing. And you're right.... what will be will be

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By *ontana31 OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

thank you again

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

The only thing on your profile is a (meaningless) warning. How is someone supposed to know if there will be anything in common with you? Your profile is there to tell everyone about you, your likes & dislikes. It's how you sell yourself.

Currrently, if I received a message from you, I would just delete regardless of what you looked like as there is nothing giving me any clue about what you are like as a person.

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By *ontana31 OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

cheers im on it so far i had arranged 2 meet a stunning girl from my area we had sent bout 50 messages to each other then the next day she deleted her profile lol jst my luck!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

well you're upbeat about it which is a huge positive.....nothing more off putting than a guy who winges

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By *ontana31 OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

lol life to short for moaning,unless its good moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That hot woman you messaged was probably a man. As said before your profile consists of that meaningless legal warning, get rid of that then put on something about you and what your looking for. Keep it positive, nothing worse than a profile that starts negatively. If you message someone make sure you fit their requirements, ie, single man, age etc and show in the message that you've read their profile, good luck

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By *ontana31 OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

lol knowing my luck

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By *ontana31 OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

just changed my profile cheers for advice folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cheers im on it so far i had arranged 2 meet a stunning girl from my area we had sent bout 50 messages to each other then the next day she deleted her profile lol jst my luck!!"

Hmmmm..... that says 'fake' to me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just changed my profile cheers for advice folks "

With respect (!!), I think you need to have a look at profiles from guys in your age group and see what others do... I can imagine the comments you are going to get from the regular forum ladies on your profile....

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By *ontana31 OP   Man
over a year ago

renfrew

lol so its still shit,i will have a look others cheers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would say that you have showed in this thread that you have a sense of humour and can interact with people without getting stroppy so why not say that you have a sense of humour and are easy to get along with in your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just changed my profile cheers for advice folks

With respect (!!), I think you need to have a look at profiles from guys in your age group and see what others do... I can imagine the comments you are going to get from the regular forum ladies on your profile....

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Plus, get rid of text speak in your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I would say that you have showed in this thread that you have a sense of humour and can interact with people without getting stroppy so why not say that you have a sense of humour and are easy to get along with in your profile."

+1 to that - humour and being slightly self-effacing always got me meets when I was on the scene as a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just changed my profile cheers for advice folks

With respect (!!), I think you need to have a look at profiles from guys in your age group and see what others do... I can imagine the comments you are going to get from the regular forum ladies on your profile....

Plus, get rid of text speak in your profile "

Definitely +1 to that!!!

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

changed your profile but still says "hey, dont really know wot to write" and a couple of lines which are meaningless. Do a bit of work on it - and try to make your messages stand out

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