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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im,looking for advice on how i can make my profile more appealing , any suggestions gratefully received !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is shit as well, but, regarding yours, i'd maybe point out why i couldn't accommodate as it might put off a lot of gals, (they may think your playing away from home)!!

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

You need to spend a little time rewiting your profile it is really non existant - take a peek at a few on here but don't copy and try and take a pic that doesnt make you look so gloomy - messages are also important try to make them stand out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh well i guess nobody wants to give advice ? How do ppl get to know what to say on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best bit of advice is simply read lots of other profiles and see what people are putting down in words. Some are long some not so, but it is about how you can sell yourself to your prospective meets.

What do you like not like. I agree regarding the photo's but you know we ain't all David Bailey sadly. Try and get some shots of you in a good light ie:- Smiling etc.

Hope this helps a little.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Your profile is bland, and doesn't really make me want to know anymore about you.

Your pictures, whilst it's great to see a face picture, make you look a right miserable sod! If that is an accurate representation of yourself, then keep them. If not, take some new ones.

Tidy it up a little bit, it's quite difficult to read with comma's and stuff everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the points above it is bland and quite generic. I loose count of how many times a day I read the basic phases "single guy for NSA" and love "giving n receiving oral" and the ever so poplar "clean, discreet, respectful n genuine) yes that says wot u enjoy n are looking for but so are a lot of guys so it's nothing new to draw someone into wanting to get to know you n possibly meet you. It doesn't have to be an essay, but it does need to give people a flavour of who you are n intrigue them into finding out more.

Where your pics are concerned one clear cock shot is more than enough n although it's good to see a face pic you do look very miserable on them, n let's face it on a man or woman there nothing better than a warm inviting sexy smile.

Finally, now I'm not saying this doesn't happen as ther are couples on here with vast age differences, but I doubt most 18 year olds would be lookin for a man Of your age. I'm only 27 n I personally don't look for anyone over the age of 35, as my dad is in his 40's so it creeps me out a little. Theo only time i ten to venture outside my age range is when playin in a club if the look young enough, which leads to Another good tip. Join a local club, I'd reccomend la chambre in Sheffield, but I realise this may not be your idea of fun as it isn't everyone's.

When messaging people try to avoid the one liners such as "hi how are you?" and wot most view as the most disrespectful "fancy a fuck" ( yes this is a swingers site but no need to be blunt n rude). Try to read profiles fully and Taylor the message to them personally, by this I mean look for shared interests to help you find a common ground or compliment a particular feature that attracted you to the profile in the first place etc. Try to avoid the over use of text speak, so the message still reads in some formation of the English language!

Finally, remember that patience is key. Unfortunately as a single male, you are a very small fish in a very big pond

Hope this is helpful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your comments will take time and do a new profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im,looking for advice on how i can make my profile more appealing , any suggestions gratefully received ! "

hun theres nothing wrong with your file all looks cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im,looking for advice on how i can make my profile more appealing , any suggestions gratefully received ! "

but put something more about ya self xxx apart from that its cool xx

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