FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why so many time wasters arrange meets cancel last minute or profile goes. Has anyone else had this issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly it is parr for the course on here - just get used to it - you will find lots of people seem to enjoy messing you around - but there are the genuine let downs through no fault - it happens

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"why so many time wasters arrange meets cancel last minute or profile goes. Has anyone else had this issue "

Define “time waster”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your selection process needs adjusting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how do you mean please explain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i did people who arrange meet cancel or do not turn up and hide account

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks i have meet some nice people TBH

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By *untime40Man
over a year ago

"why so many time wasters arrange meets cancel last minute or profile goes. Has anyone else had this issue "

You mean the ones that want to meet you drive all the way there then they go offline and you relise you have wasted your day

Yep i dont get it if people say they want a meet then meet

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Maybe your selection process needs adjusting "

See… that’s an option

If the same thing keeps happening again and again.. sometimes you have to look at what the common denominator is

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"why so many time wasters arrange meets cancel last minute or profile goes. Has anyone else had this issue "

Ha. in our 8 years or so here, yes many, many. Some do that, others keep us hanging on for months for nothing. One couple gave us a false address, many go quiet just before a meet and no address given either. One wouldn't answer the front door, one didn't show... the list goes on. We've almost given up several times.

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By *axine500Woman
over a year ago

Dawlish

Ha! tell me about it! Drives me crazy but then what can you do to avoid them. Tried loads of ideas but the reality is after spending an age making myself ready and standing in the cold they don't even text you to apologise, they just don't turn up Aarh!!!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

It’s a tiresome bore and annoying but it’s all part of many highs and lows of fab

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

In my opinion since going into lockdown it's a some kind of strange effect on the human race but same time i Can never understand why people act the way they do.it'll be one of those unexplained mysteries in time to come....

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

The one thing I've found about this site that it is full of time wasters which is a shame as it spoils the fun for people who actually meet

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

"why so many time wasters arrange meets cancel last minute or profile goes. Has anyone else had this issue

Define “time waster”"

Why wind them up ?

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

Sadly it does seem to happen quite a lot and probably more so since the pandemic started which dove a lot of new users to the site that where only here to look so when it comes to meeting they get cold feet and vanish

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

All the time! It's very frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly it's par for the course...no matter how careful or selective you are about the people you chat with it happens to everyone,

You just have to except it and not let it get you down

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

Ever had one you have met before then they rejoined the site met again! Leave you a verification after you verified them, Then they delete their account again within a few hours after meeting it happened to me yesterday. Some odd people in the world hahahaha life goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do I start I have a list of let downs and timewasters. Op youre not far

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Unfortunately I never had that happened to me before. But yes it can be extremely tiresome

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By *avina64TV/TS
over a year ago

Grimsby

Yes have a few do both of them vanish and no response to message

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By *ockape82Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Had the exact same thing happen too many times gets frustrating but kinda goes with the territory lol

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"why so many time wasters arrange meets cancel last minute or profile goes. Has anyone else had this issue "

Exactly the same OP 3 this week alone.

So infuriating especially when you take the day off work

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

Sadly it’s just a fact of life on Fab, I never expect a meet until the person is in my door lol. I don’t get bitter though and just move on, saying that I’ve met some lovely genuine people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yepp. So annoying, all I want is a regular fuck hahaha

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By *aisyandCarlosCouple
over a year ago

fareham

Tend to only look at people who have veris from meeting and not cam.

Lots of ghosts on here

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

One thing it was never as bad as most have been experiencing since I joined it's only gradually increased to beyond and the site isn't responsible for this so never rush be smart

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

I’m just hoping that my afternoon social isn’t a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of fantasists about me thinks

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I’ve never been stood up

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By *ndyrTV/TS
over a year ago

southport

I suppose it’s happened to a lot of people. Myself included. Maybe sometimes it’s something unavoidable. Particularly in a cross dressers situation. Maybe their wife has found out. Maybe they got cold feet. I know it’s not a good situation but at least I haven’t minced up to someone’s front door in wig, makeup and sexy underwear...to find I have been time wasted. Xxx

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Chatted to people for ages (months) and been blocked. Turned up to some meets only to be verbally abused. Door slammed in face and told to F...K off

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

We always get a phone number and check in an hour before the meet. People off some sites are better than others we’ve found.

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

"I’m just hoping that my afternoon social isn’t a time waster."

Happy to say she wasn’t!

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By *artwivahartTV/TS
over a year ago

Biggin Hill

So I spend time hair removing most places then shower thoroughly and clean inside and out. Then begin a make up application and then get into sexy lingerie maybe a corset and breast plate...the whole process can take between 2 to 3 hours....for him to cancel or disappear last minute......makes my blood boil....no wonder I drink....

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Most of the time wasters here are either single guys posing as couples or just pretending they want to meet in order to get pictures or indulge in dirty chat. Either way they will never meet because that wouldgive their game away.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"So I spend time hair removing most places then shower thoroughly and clean inside and out. Then begin a make up application and then get into sexy lingerie maybe a corset and breast plate...the whole process can take between 2 to 3 hours....for him to cancel or disappear last minute......makes my blood boil....no wonder I drink...."

Yes, understand this fully.

Then other guys get arsey with you when you tell them you only meet in clubs now.

To actually transform from a man into looking like a woman can take hours. So sorry if the time waster ruins it for the ‘genuine guys’ once is too often for me.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Have came across a whole new level of time waster. Arranging a meet then they go quiet only to pop up an hour or so later to say they've just met me. They certainly didn't meet me but claim a car pulled up when they came to meet me, driver gave my fab name so off they went to fuck.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Sadly it happens but it’s all par for the course

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Meet at a pub then at least if they don’t show you can still have a drink

Their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it gets as far as arranging a meet, try having a video chat beforehand. I find that helps. If they flatly refuse to have a video chat then there is a good chance you'll be stood up.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If someone has decent veris then it is pretty rare (in my experience) that they will back out as they are likely to be genuine.

No veris then I will assume that they are either fake or fantasists and are likely to not meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As if it’s even possible to waste someone’s time….. I'm not even given the decency of a reply to a message so to have a chance of meeting is a proving to be just an unattainable dream.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"If it gets as far as arranging a meet, try having a video chat beforehand. I find that helps. If they flatly refuse to have a video chat then there is a good chance you'll be stood up."

I always refuse to do a video call because I look crap on them but I still turn up

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"If it gets as far as arranging a meet, try having a video chat beforehand. I find that helps. If they flatly refuse to have a video chat then there is a good chance you'll be stood up.

I always refuse to do a video call because I look crap on them but I still turn up

Me too, I’d never do a video call with anyone. Always a social meet for me firstly, so if they do bail, my time isn’t wasted as I can still have a coffee or drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it gets as far as arranging a meet, try having a video chat beforehand. I find that helps. If they flatly refuse to have a video chat then there is a good chance you'll be stood up.

I always refuse to do a video call because I look crap on them but I still turn up

I couldn't imagine you would look crap at any time of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do a video call. It’s mainly to make sure they look like their photos

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I mainly do clubs now

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