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By *rLateNight OP   Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Hey!

Seem’s to be a beg of a post but I’m clueless!

I’ve been apart of Fabs for a while now but I haven’t found much luck. I’ve chatted to quite a lot of people but they usually end up dropping off, not logging back on for months at end.

Is it my profile? I’d like to say I’m good at holding conversation so I wouldn’t say it’s that!

Would be nice just to get some advice to better improve my experience on here x

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I'm afraid you're not going to find here that many women under 30. Also, seriously??? Your post on here is longer than your entire profile!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

You're not exactly selling yourself on your profile. What is it you're offering and why should someone choose you?

Don't just rely on fab, get to clubs and socials too.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You've only got one lime on your profile. Make it more interesting.

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By *rLateNight OP   Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Got you, more meat on there! Cheers gang

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hey!

Seem’s to be a beg of a post but I’m clueless!

I’ve been apart of Fabs for a while now but I haven’t found much luck. I’ve chatted to quite a lot of people but they usually end up dropping off, not logging back on for months at end.

Is it my profile? I’d like to say I’m good at holding conversation so I wouldn’t say it’s that!

Would be nice just to get some advice to better improve my experience on here x"

Like you've said op good at holding a conversation use that energy to spice up your bio.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Got you, more meat on there! Cheers gang"

Is that your new version?

Hate to have seen it before! !

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

If you got conversation going, then logically it can't be your profile.

If the conversation dried up, then logically.... it must have been her. Them. All of them. Everybody.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"You've only got one lime on your profile. Make it more interesting."

Add a kumquat, maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP

Reading the posts here I thought, the usual over critical stuff. So I had a look.

No oofence, but resign and come back as if anyone has seen this profile, they won't want to know you or waste their time

Come back with better pics and some of your cock if its at least average and profile text your qualities, what you do and what you are hoing for

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your photos are very limited and your newest, in my opinion, doesn't give you the best chance to sell yourself. It doesn't show you particularly well, when prospective partners will want to feel confident that they physically fancy you and would like your body to be next to their body. Have a selection that gives us the best chance to decide that we'd like to explore more.

If you can get over the hurdle of them viewing your profile and messaging on, it's reasonable to assume that as most people are not compatible, a reasonable number of them will not continue on to meeting. Having realistic expectations will help to ensure you stay grounded.

Part of that is to know that it's not easy for single men here and that it could take lots of effort for months, to feel like you're making much progress.

Keep improving your tactics, including your profile. You are the one person here who can sell you. Your profile text has to do this.

If you find most people you chat with disappear, analyse and learn what the patterns are. But do expect that you will not meet most people because only a minority will have equally matched attraction, interests etc.

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By *rLateNight OP   Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Sweet, cheers everyone.

I’ll look at updating it sometime this week!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"You've only got one lime on your profile. Make it more interesting.

Add a kumquat, maybe?"

Or a couple of grapes!

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

It's always going to be a struggle you just have to hang on an someone genuine will eventually appear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont understand why single men keep joining this site, and asking for women under 35, its nt instashag, or a dating site, do you even know what swinging is, try googling, and come back if you fit the bill, anyway your profile says nothing about you, what do you have to offer? but in reality, im not sure this is the place for you, if you think it is, get along to a social or club, make some contacts and see how it goes from there

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

You need better pictures, a better bio and you are limiting a lot by only wanting women under 35.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

You've already had a couple of pointers which you totally ignored and ended up being blocked on B's single profile

You actually have to take advice and use it for it to work matey!!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"i dont understand why single men keep joining this site, and asking for women under 35, its nt instashag, or a dating site, do you even know what swinging is, try googling, and come back if you fit the bill, anyway your profile says nothing about you, what do you have to offer? but in reality, im not sure this is the place for you, if you think it is, get along to a social or club, make some contacts and see how it goes from there"

Why cant they look for that age group? Why, just as he would like to meet a women under 35, are you saying he thinks its insta shag or a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont understand why single men keep joining this site, and asking for women under 35, its nt instashag, or a dating site, do you even know what swinging is, try googling, and come back if you fit the bill, anyway your profile says nothing about you, what do you have to offer? but in reality, im not sure this is the place for you, if you think it is, get along to a social or club, make some contacts and see how it goes from there"

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By *rLateNight OP   Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Think this post is growing arms and legs here.

Everyone joins this site for their own reasons, your views and opinions are entirely personal.

I kindly asked for advice. I’ve got that and I’m thankful.

For the few that are being far more opinionated and veering off the sole purpose of this post I kindly ask you to take your comments elsewhere.

Lastly, I’m happy with the advice I’ve been given, no more comments need to be made.

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