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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys, how do you deal with people who you have sent a nice message too, read their profile etc, but they read the message, don’t reply but constantly check and look at your profile?

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By *everFullyDressedCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

We just let them get back to us at their leisure….or not. We relately send unsolicited messages….usually only after a wink or a photo fab, but if we send a message we usually don’t send another until a response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We just let them get back to us at their leisure….or not. We relately send unsolicited messages….usually only after a wink or a photo fab, but if we send a message we usually don’t send another until a response."

Yeah we don’t bother, think it is just when people constantly look at your profile it makes us think why… prob why we put few photos up x

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Frustrating,but not a lot you can (or should) do.

Obviously there's a possibility they're weighing things up, but if they're not of the ilk to send a response either way I'd be inclined to delete your sent message and simply move on. They'll either be in touch or they won't. There's also an argument to say why bother with people who don't bother with you (in the nicest possible way). For what it's worth I often get profile views from couples who state on their own profile that they're not looking for single men, but of course I don't message them, even though I'm left scratching my head as to why they bothered. Bottom line is there's no point concerning yourself with it unless they respond. Move on and enjoy!

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Initially it was frustrating as seemed like we may click so couldn't understand why. Also, we would usually reply with a thanks no thanks if a couple messaged us but we didn't feel the mutual attraction or had similar desires.

It may be that they are not a couple, or that they are nervous or that they like your pictures but maybe not on the same path. We tend not to over think it now as everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block them if its a worry to you

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd just leave them to it,especially if you only sent the message recently.

Maybe they're deciding, or ones keen but maybe not the other.

If it bothers you, block them.

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