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out at a club tonight bit shy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi im going to a club tonight a bit nervous any advice? . Im a bit shy

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

just relax, be polite, chat to people, dont expect to play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont know why im so nervous silly I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which club you going to?? Pm me if you prefer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at the meets to see who else is going, message them to say hi, maybe see you later. Least you got some faces to look out for then.

Oh and if you are meeting anyone there make sure u have seen facepics so you know who to look for!

The staff are normally very welcoming and will show you round etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile don't leer, normal rules of social etiquette apply. Don't be put off if someone politely declines.

Have a great time.

Oh and if it's a couple you always complement the woman on how lovely she looks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh thank u all some really nice people on this site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh thank u all some really nice people on this site x"

Grrrr!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh thank u all some really nice people on this site x

Grrrr!! "

d'oh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never assume you can play, always wait to be invited. Don't pressure anyone, initially behave as if you would in a normal social situation. Be friendly, polite, humorous, complimentary. But overall, just relax!

Once you are there, you will find that is very relaxed, people are friendly and approachable.

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