FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for first night in a club

By *panishcouple2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Hello every one , we would like to have some tips about our first night in a club , dress code etc

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

May help get more targeted info if you can share which club you are going to.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

You need to look at the club see if there is an event on. Some have fancy dress some dress smart. Some clubs are dress down in entry. Depends where you are going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been twice to a club now and not played. Think I’m still nervous

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By *aintscoupleCouple
over a year ago

st helens

Just relax,go with the flow and what you feel comfortable with.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We attended first time mid week when it was quiet, gave us the chance to get our bearings.

Didn't play until 3rd or 4th visit.

As always, do what you feel comfortable with, not what others say or do.

Sure you will have a great time.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Don't get d*unk.

A couple of drinks are fine for the ole dutch courage. But definitely don't over do it.

Been to many clubs and there are always a few that have had way to much of something.

They either make a scene or start arguments.

It screws with other people's mojos.

Also be secure in your relationship and have boundaries.

Another tell tail is when one is into it more than the other. Their is the whole doing it to please the partner bullshit.

It should be a equally shared and enjoyable experience.

Finally. Most clubs have dressed and undressed areas. Dressed is normal club/pub clothes unless it's perhaps a themed night were dressing up is encouraged.

Undressed - usually underwear or naked. You should recieve towels and lockers from the club to keep items or outfit changes etc.

Oh one last thing. Not all clubs have condoms or lube so Make sure you take your own just in case...

Relax and enjoy the experience.

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By *panishcouple2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Good tips mate , thanks for your help , really usefull

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By *panishcouple2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Well we are looking arround blackpool, so infusion club or club play , any other ideas are welcome

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"Well we are looking arround blackpool, so infusion club or club play , any other ideas are welcome "

Both are excellent clubs and a great starting point to dip into the swinging lifestyle.

Amelia x

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By *ancs married coupleCouple
over a year ago

Silverdale

Dont go with any expectations. Weve had some great times in club but have yet to meet a couple that weve hit it off with. Good luck! X

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025

"Well we are looking arround blackpool, so infusion club or club play , any other ideas are welcome "

We have a crackin party Sat night which you would be made very welcome at

Will ensure you get a tour of the club and introduced to some friendly folks in the bar area. Search forums for Flaunt for further info xx

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"Dont go with any expectations. Weve had some great times in club but have yet to meet a couple that weve hit it off with. Good luck! X "

This

if you plan to just go and explore and find out what the club is like and how things operate and with no intention of playing you won’t go far wrong. Second trip it will be familiar territory and you will understand what goes on and how.

Enjoy

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By *ilf n filfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We are going on the 12th and 13th of November. If you want to chat with us.

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