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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anybody know if its easy to get a guest past reception and to your room at the holiday inn Manchester?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anybody know if its easy to get a guest past reception and to your room at the holiday inn Manchester?

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Watching this with interest. We may be visiting Manchester in the New Year

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

I always stay at premier inn n add a name....not usually who stays mind lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always stay at premier inn n add a name....not usually who stays mind lol"

It will be us (couple) and a guest for a few hours

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Chain hotels generally don't care who's going in and out so long as they have a key card for the lifts (if needed) and there's no noise complaints. They probably won't even notice the guest is not the person you checked in with if it's been a couple of hours since check in

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton


"Chain hotels generally don't care who's going in and out so long as they have a key card for the lifts (if needed) and there's no noise complaints. They probably won't even notice the guest is not the person you checked in with if it's been a couple of hours since check in "

What they said except if they changed their mo after COVID.

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn


"I always stay at premier inn n add a name....not usually who stays mind lol

It will be us (couple) and a guest for a few hours "

Hi I’m in Manchester tomorrow evening (Thursday) if you want an extra guy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always stay at premier inn n add a name....not usually who stays mind lol

It will be us (couple) and a guest for a few hours

Hi I’m in Manchester tomorrow evening (Thursday) if you want an extra guy?

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It's in December we are staying, but thanks

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

all the hotels will have seen every trick in the book,, as long as you have paid your bill and do not trash the place they will not be bothered,,, and dont want to cause bad memories of your stay coz they will lose out on return customers,,,

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Holiday Inn no problem

Neither are village inns on fact any hotel where you don't need your key card to get through a door to enter corridors to rooms

Hotels don't really care as long as bills are paid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Holiday Inn no problem

Neither are village inns on fact any hotel where you don't need your key card to get through a door to enter corridors to rooms

Hotels don't really care as long as bills are paid "

Depends which Holiday Inn. I know of at least two in Manchester that needs a room key for the lift...

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Our usual playground is a chain hotel. In our experience they really don't care.

Just for info, whilst booked on a family occassion once my younger brother arrived from overeas to surprise the family. Being in with the 'secret' I let him change in our hotel room, in case his wife had been in his. Hopefully that makes sense?

Anyway, the hotel staff realised we had a third person in our room and came knocking at the door quoting 'fire regulations' at me.

When questioned they could not tell me what fire regulations I had breached.

As a firefighter for 29 years and a registered fire risk assessor, I can tell you that it's smoke and mirrors. The only reason they need to know is to be able to report how many people were in the building when the fire broke out, but as most hotels allow people to walk in from the street for a drink or a meal it's completely irrelevant.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Our usual playground is a chain hotel. In our experience they really don't care.

Just for info, whilst booked on a family occassion once my younger brother arrived from overeas to surprise the family. Being in with the 'secret' I let him change in our hotel room, in case his wife had been in his. Hopefully that makes sense?

Anyway, the hotel staff realised we had a third person in our room and came knocking at the door quoting 'fire regulations' at me.

When questioned they could not tell me what fire regulations I had breached.

As a firefighter for 29 years and a registered fire risk assessor, I can tell you that it's smoke and mirrors. The only reason they need to know is to be able to report how many people were in the building when the fire broke out, but as most hotels allow people to walk in from the street for a drink or a meal it's completely irrelevant."

As a hotel manager with over 40 years experience, there are variations on what you have described, especially with the emergence of Covid.

That is, local Councils can now insert their own rules with regards to room occupancy and for hotel owners or management having to know how many people are in the building, especially in bedrooms.

In my 25+ years of expertise within Night Management, I was very Security conscious, and did on occasion turn away "extra" guests attempting to access hotel bedroom areas.

Hotels are far more security aware these days, especially in city centre locations.

TIP. At checking-in, ask for 2 key cards. Keep one for yourselves and give the other to your third person. That can allow access.

As for lift access keys, not every Holiday Inn or other chain group has this requirement, even if they do have lifts on site. It's more common for lift keys, if local Police advice is to supply such access keys to lifts,,as part of the hotel's security brief.

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By *tongueMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Yes just meet then in the bar and then go up to room together. You hire the room what you do in it is up to you.

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By *harebare5Man
over a year ago

Atherton

Nobody will know or care, as long as there are no complaints you will be fine, it's your room and your space, the only thing the hotel will be concerned about is numbers in the building for fire reporting, however, they don't care about the numbers in the bar or restaurant

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They do set their lifts to be accessible by keycard holders only in the late evening at that HI, when I have stayed there, so you'd need to meet them and escort them. The main door is keycard entry needed for entrance too, later on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally have most of my meets in hotels and have never had a problem. I stay in hotels 2-3 nights a week and it’s always quite simple.

If you need a room card to access the rooms I’ll usually meet outside or in the bar for a drink first.

Never had one complaint but then I’m considerate to others in the hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anybody know if its easy to get a guest past reception and to your room at the holiday inn Manchester?

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How large is the hotel?

The one thing to remember is hotel staff see new guests every day. They will have no idea if your guest is staying in the hotel or not.

Just tell your guest the room number and let them find your room or one of you meet the guest in the bar and take them to your room.

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Just inform your guest of the room number after you check-in.

Reception don't care, your guest just stroll straight in and head to the lifts to your room with the coded knock.

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By *andt1995Couple
over a year ago

London


"Does anybody know if its easy to get a guest past reception and to your room at the holiday inn Manchester?

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Hey we’re in Manchester this week

If you bend your rules we’re very compatible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of their business but yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've staying on the holiday Inn near the Trafford Centre and our extra just walked through and came straight to our room. We all think walked out together and no one ever battered an eye.

Don't sweat it, they won't care.

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Hotel really don't care what goes ...they've seen it all before

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Hotel really don't care what goes ...they've seen it all before "

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By *oldenBalls50Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

I’ve been to number of hotels and I never had any problems, really it’s nothing to do with them and I would tell them to mind your own business and get lost

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Many times, easy. The male half nips out to meet the guest/s and we walk back in as if we all have rooms lol . The staff have never noticed and change shifts, so often haven't a clue who's in..... don't worry, just act cool

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Pretty much all chain hotels will let anybody in if they have a key card just play the game and don't be foolish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they not causing trouble or staying overnight hotels don't care.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

No one cares its not the 1970s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they not causing trouble or staying overnight hotels don't care. "

This is true. We stay in Manchester often and as long as there is a key for the lift at certain hotels there are no issues.

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By *atin savantTV/TS
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Yeah, I do this all the time. Hotels don’t really care. Plus you can always meet in the foyer and go to the room together, or have a drink in the bar and then go up!!

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Never had an issue with any chain hotels since covid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really had any problems and to make things more interesting we do get our meets to book a room at the same hotel

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By *ftereightMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

We have only had problems at a well known chain hotel at Lakeside east with staff standing outside the door listening, asking to come in, threatening to kick everyone out and just being general buttholes. Every other hotel meet we have had has been a great experience and hotels didnt care. Just keep the noise down and get that 2nd room key if your playmate is not staying in the same hotel. Oh and get a waterproof mattress topper if your playmate is a squirter haha

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