FabSwingers.com forum: How to get replies

By *lliot the monk OP Man
over a year ago

Essex and Cambridge

Feel like any and every thing I say I don’t get a reply, or is it that there’s too much competition

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By *ired_upMan
over a year ago

ashton

"Feel like any and every thing I say I don’t get a reply, or is it that there’s too much competition "

Welcome to the life of the single male. Go to socials,go to clubs. You can work from there.

Or go to gangbangs, you would be surprised how few turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have more of a chance getting a fuck by meeting some married woman in a supermarket than here. I say that judging by the contacts we get every time we ad a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feel like any and every thing I say I don’t get a reply, or is it that there’s too much competition "

You are 20 years old!

Go out socialise and date girls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feel like any and every thing I say I don’t get a reply, or is it that there’s too much competition "
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What are you saying in your opening mail? I like a few lines, not a “how are you” or “hello” or “weather talk”

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

"Feel like any and every thing I say I don’t get a reply, or is it that there’s too much competition "

Write a decent profile.

Post some decent photos.

Looking at how you present yourself, there far far better profiles than yours.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it has to be in what you are writing and who you approach. I myself have within the last 10mins recieved 2 replies from the same couple that have a meet they are looking to organise one day next week. I responded, made sure I would meet their set out criteria, worded my message to the best of my ability and explained why I believed I would be a good potential playmate for the aforementioned meet. So it is possible to get replies, yes even for us single guys. Just make sure you are what they are looking for, tell them about yourself and what you could bring to a meet, don't be brash or brag and read your message 3 times before sending to check it over.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

"Well it has to be in what you are writing and who you approach. I myself have within the last 10mins recieved 2 replies from the same couple that have a meet they are looking to organise one day next week. I responded, made sure I would meet their set out criteria, worded my message to the best of my ability and explained why I believed I would be a good potential playmate for the aforementioned meet. So it is possible to get replies, yes even for us single guys. Just make sure you are what they are looking for, tell them about yourself and what you could bring to a meet, don't be brash or brag and read your message 3 times before sending to check it over.

dont be so mean, why should he put effort in, after all he joined up, wrote a very quick profile, people should be queing up to shag him.

being serious, what i said above kind ove is the truth, you get out of this site what you put in, get out there, dont just be a name behind a keboard, go to socials etc, meet people, things will happen, however you might find its easyer to meet people away from this site, try local night life etc, anyway good luck

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I've had a look at your profile and it reads as "I want, I want, I want".

Rather than saying you want someone who is intelligent, maybe rephrase it and talk about your ability to have interesting conversations.

You want someone that is clean? talk about your own hygiene.

The fact someone not verified would have to confirm who they were, made me laugh as you are not verified yourself.

Your profile reads like a shopping list of what you want. It is fine to say what you are looking for, but in order to get replies, that lead onto meets, it is better to concentrate on what you offer. Why should ladies meet you, rather than the other 30 messaged they received that morning.

You are young and there aren't a huge amount of younger ladies or people looking for sex with younger gents. You would benefit from explaining your knowledge of Swinging or past experiences or skills, to show that you are not needing someone to have to teach you techniques etc.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

You have blocked couples on a swinging website. So that will reduce your replies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you take time to observe you will see that this is how it works.

You see someone who you would like to send a message to and you send a message as they appear online. A minute after you have sent the message you check again and they have mysteriously gone off-line.

I wonder why that is? The system is just switching them off and leading you on even more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feel like any and every thing I say I don’t get a reply, or is it that there’s too much competition

Welcome to the life of the single male. Go to socials,go to clubs. You can work from there.

Or go to gangbangs, you would be surprised how few turn up. "

This advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feel like any and every thing I say I don’t get a reply, or is it that there’s too much competition "

It's been mentioned quite a few times by single guys, that it's easier on other media platforms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother continually battering your head against a brick wall and sending inane messages to people on here many of whom probably don’t even exist in reality? Is it some form of mental illness? I think it is. If you just want to get laid then get yourself out there and have a social life, get yourself on a rail dating website, or if you want to guarantee a that you will get laid then go to the other site and get your money out

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

Regularly update your status and add new photos every week or so and let the people that are interested in you message or wink you first. Or reply to other peoples statuses and meet requests.

There may be loads of men on here but there are also a hell of a lot of women on here as well. They all have their own unique type of guy they meet. No matter what you say to 99% of them you won’t be their type. It’s just so much easier waiting for the messages rather than sending.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Damn I just missed OP's age range by one year ..*cries*

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