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By *os19 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Would you contact someone who you are out of their age range on Fabs by 3 years so you can’t contact them but has left their kik details on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you contact someone who you are out of their age range on Fabs by 3 years so you can’t contact them but has left their kik details on their profile."

No.

Lady Astor.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

No we wouldn’t

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

No because you clearly aren't what they are interested in and to message them would be misleading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Think that's a resounding victory for the "no" vote.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly, depending on what the attraction is. If they don’t want contacted by a certain age range, then they shouldn’t leave Kik details on for anyone to see.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Nope

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not .

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

If is incredibly poor form to send unsolicited messages on Kik ... people used to guess my kik name from my previous username on here and that was a guaranteed block.

Add not being within their preferences to the mix, well...

Just don’t.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No

Assume that people know themselves well enough to be able to state what they want and for a good reason. It likely expressly includes for them to reduce the inappropriate contact from others.

Search for appropriate people and don't trouble others

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No,

If you're not what they're after, why waste your time.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

No. There are too many people who ignore profiles and it's highly annoying.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

No, I wouldn't even try to contact them on here if I was pout of their age range but I was still able to message.

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By *incs ImpMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

No, why would you?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Would you contact someone who you are out of their age range on Fabs by 3 years so you can’t contact them but has left their kik details on their profile."

No. What's the point in contacting someone who has made it clear they are not looking for you.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Would you contact someone who you are out of their age range on Fabs by 3 years so you can’t contact them but has left their kik details on their profile."

Why not, what have you got to lose? If they publish their kik addy for all to see, they open themselves to all sorts of messages

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Why not, what have you got to lose? If they publish their kik addy for all to see, they open themselves to all sorts of messages "

I agree

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Would you contact someone who you are out of their age range on Fabs by 3 years so you can’t contact them but has left their kik details on their profile."

We wouldn’t but age ranges are so arbitrary. Some people are 45 and look 35. Some are 35 and look 45. Most people seem to have a vision in their head of what a particular age is like which is a generalisation.

OP just do what everyone else seems to do and lower or raise your age. Unless you’ve already taken that approach to the limit. Lol

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

If their profile say an age only. Then NO!

If it was jus a number didnt say only send message and ask if its no movable if so RESPECT it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo no. I’ve had a few guys change their age to message me, one guy by nearly 10 years, not impressed lol. Leave them alone.

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester

No age ranges are there for a reason, by ignoring them it's the same as ignoring a red light at a junction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I would say it was up to if they wanted to be flexible with their preferred age ranges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you looked like me, you'd be doing them a disservice if you didn't. But not many people look like me, so it's best you just leave them alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you contact someone who you are out of their age range on Fabs by 3 years so you can’t contact them but has left their kik details on their profile."

No. If I am out of their age range I am out of their age range.

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By *azielMan
over a year ago

Midlands

As frustrating as it is, and despite every temptation best not to. Best you can hope for is you hit off in a chat if your lucky. They set the boundaries but that's what's they are. Boundaries.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was that a rhetorical question as I think you know the answer and the majority agree with me here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn’t.

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill

No, as you don’t fit the criteria they’re looking for, even though no doubt you’re the exception to the rule… your wasting your time, and not respecting boundaries which wouldn’t bode well for any potential meet.

We get a lot of winks and messages from single guys. We assume it’s because they haven’t read our profile as if they had they would know they are not what we are looking for. We just delete / ignore.

Of course, on kik it might be different but I’d be expecting a similar result once your age is known.

Why not concentrate your time and efforts on those whose criteria you match and have a profile you like?

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

No and if someone chose to ignore our clearly stated preferences and message us it would very likely result in an instant block.

K

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