FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on my profile appreciated..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m kind, considerate, read profiles and respect women on here as no point being rude or arrogant if they are not interested. But I don’t seem to be getting any views or replies to messages. Am I overthinking this or do most of the men who are the opposite to me ruin for the genuine gents on here.. Thanks..

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Whatever you do, it won't guarantee replies.

However, knowing what you're looking for and what you can offer will help.

Your profile says that you're looking for like minded people, but we have no way of knowing what that is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for looking and responding..

"Whatever you do, it won't guarantee replies.

However, knowing what you're looking for and what you can offer will help.

Your profile says that you're looking for like minded people, but we have no way of knowing what that is."

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Some of your photos are pretty old?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good point and I’ll get some newer ones up.. Thanks..

"Some of your photos are pretty old?"

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Other people do not ruin it for you. If other men send rude messages, dick pics etc, then it will make yours appear far better. I don't understand that way of thinking.

Don't be put off that you get no views. Most women view profiles using a clever privacy trick that means you cannot see when they view profiles. So you have no idea how many are actually looking.

Think about what age range you are interested in. The fact you are happy to meet people in college and people in their 90s, shows you are either not that bothered, as you didn't take the time to adjust the age range, or you are really desperate!

Your profile is very similar to hundreds of others. You need to add something unusual, humorous or think of a way of it appealing to the ladies that you are hoping will correspond with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks I have changed it to be more realistic..

"Other people do not ruin it for you. If other men send rude messages, dick pics etc, then it will make yours appear far better. I don't understand that way of thinking.

Don't be put off that you get no views. Most women view profiles using a clever privacy trick that means you cannot see when they view profiles. So you have no idea how many are actually looking.

Your profile is very similar to hundreds of others. You need to add something unusual, humorous or think of a way of it appealing to the ladies that you are hoping will correspond with you.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I personally find it hard to meet anyone from the site. Club nights have been a lot better. Might be a consideration?

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By *inka-liciousWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

"Other people do not ruin it for you. If other men send rude messages, dick pics etc, then it will make yours appear far better. I don't understand that way of thinking.

Don't be put off that you get no views. Most women view profiles using a clever privacy trick that means you cannot see when they view profiles. So you have no idea how many are actually looking.

Your profile is very similar to hundreds of others. You need to add something unusual, humorous or think of a way of it appealing to the ladies that you are hoping will correspond with you.

This is very true.

What are you looking for as you say like minded, but what is like minded?

Punctuation and paragraphs to make a profile easy to read.

Show different sides of you in your photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really find 34 year old women so much less attractive than those who are 99 that you exclude the former from your preference but not the latter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been before but & might have to give it go again..

"I personally find it hard to meet anyone from the site. Club nights have been a lot better. Might be a consideration? "

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By *ustcurious1000Couple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

The average guy comment , woman like confidence consider putting nice friendly chap etc

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Doesn't matter what your profiles like. Your chances of getting a meet are almost impossible. Almost but not totally,so you may as well keep looking for that one chance in a million

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Maybe give us some idea of the messages you're sending. At least half the messages we receive get deleted without us looking at a profile....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey

It's actually appears to be a nice, genuine profile but missing cock pics what me, well most of us cucks lookout for along with the obvious stuff.

Sadly, you are not for us but in your favour you appear to be genuine, have pics of yourself and can accommodate which really helps.

Remain polite its easy if u r like that IRL that helps a lot.

Good luck, fella.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I tend not to get many views but got to be honest and say I'm beyond it being an issue. Crack on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I put that as a joke to be honest, as most of the time I find women are looking for an Adonis lol

"The average guy comment , woman like confidence consider putting nice friendly chap etc "

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I put that as a joke to be honest, as most of the time I find women are looking for an Adonis"

Unfortunately it's comments like that that people will see when they do the "green arrow check".

For a start, without getting views or replies, how can you know that the reason you're not getting them us due to your looks? And we (as a couple) don't look for "Adonis". Granted we prefer the guy to be at least comparable to us, but the best looking guys can still get binned if they're rude, presumptive or just out to shag as quickly as they can.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"I put that as a joke to be honest, as most of the time I find women are looking for an Adonis lol

The average guy comment , woman like confidence consider putting nice friendly chap etc "

Most of the men that I know who do well on here are as close to being an Adonis as cheese burgers are to health food

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Advice given but it doesn’t look like you took any of it. Still looking for that 99 year old ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought I had changed it but corrected now.. Thanks for reminding me..

"Advice given but it doesn’t look like you took any of it. Still looking for that 99 year old ? "

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