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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all or anyone willing to read this. I’ve spoken to a lots of guys and only a few women on this site about my own personal kink. After years of fantasying about my now ex wife having sex with other men she finally agreed to give it a go and before we found out about this site we went down the escorting route (I know this is a big no no on here but it’s what lead me to the site, so please don’t judge me). She did this for four years and we both enjoyed her doing this the rule was she had to tell me everything she got up to while out and it lead to some of the best sex we ever had after she’d seen someone.

As mentioned we separated a few years ago and I’ve dated a few women since we split and while they all enjoyed talking about doing some swinging or even phone/cam when it comes to it their anixtey will kick in and while I understand this and would never push anyone into something they wouldn’t want to do, but it inevitably ends up with the relationship ending.

So here’s my question, do I see someone about getting this kink out of my head or keep the old fingers crossed that there might be a like minded lady out there that would enjoy my kink?

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

There’s nothing wrong with your kink and nothing wrong with seeking escorts to fulfil it if that worked for both you and your wife.

There are lots of people on here who share your kink, you might even find a new partner on here that will share it with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you Miss Lovely. I know many on here don’t like it but that’s the beauty of this site and I’m not going to lie think I have a better chance of finding a likeminded person on here rather then Tinder!

It’s 1 up for to remain as I am then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope i've not misread you

Any woman may be up for it. My wife, you'd think she was the last person on earht to fuck other guys as i watched and left her alone and being watched etc but she did. She states she does it for me but the blokes tell me a different story as does her face and wet pussy and the love making we have afterwards as she is so wet.

Its a blessing to see your wife getting fucked and I've yet to meet a woman that has tried it and not liked it.

I'ts like winning the premium bonds big prize

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Not really any good if you just keep destroying relationships with someone i assume you like just for some extra kick. Head shake time i think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hope i've not misread you

Any woman may be up for it. My wife, you'd think she was the last person on earht to fuck other guys as i watched and left her alone and being watched etc but she did. She states she does it for me but the blokes tell me a different story as does her face and wet pussy and the love making we have afterwards as she is so wet.

Its a blessing to see your wife getting fucked and I've yet to meet a woman that has tried it and not liked it.

I'ts like winning the premium bonds big prize"

Thanks and not miss read my post, although I never got to see her in action only what she told me happened afterwards. To watch and not participate would be as you say like winning the premium bonds lol!

2 nil!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not really any good if you just keep destroying relationships with someone i assume you like just for some extra kick. Head shake time i think. "

Ah 2-1 and thanks for the feedback, I’m not destroying relationships (poorly worded my original post) but saw no sense carrying on we didn’t like the same things we came to swinging/sharing. Hence my question, get the thoughts of kink/deseires out of my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So she became an escort and the men were clients or she sought the services of male escorts?

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

It's how we got going on here. I don't remember how it came up, but I confessed I liked the idea of seeing her playing with another guy, either in a one on one or 3sum scenario.

Mrs also confessed she had wondered what it's like as she had only ever been with me.

And that's bought us to here, we've since had Mfm, mfmm, one on one while I watched and a mfm with two other guys while I stayed downstairs. We have a stronger sex life because of it, are closer and open up about things easier.

We only meet as a couple, she won't meet alone, the direction of the meet after that depends on the mood etc at the time.

It's doable, if both of are you are on the same wave length, communicate etc etc

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