FabSwingers.com forum: Advice please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Struggling a bit

Love this life

But no one to talk to about it

No one will understand

Partner and I very happy

But still wish I had a mate I could chat to about it

Am I being a div? (Won’t be offended if you tell me I am, promise)

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

Chat away, you’ve come to the right place

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

I will chat to you .in fact anyone . I'm all alone with no friends

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

All likeminded people on here. Chat away

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you go to a club or organised social you will find plenty of likeminded people to chat to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you go to a club or organised social you will find plenty of likeminded people to chat to"

Haha was just gonna say, start up a local social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Struggling a bit

Love this life

But no one to talk to about it

No one will understand

Partner and I very happy

But still wish I had a mate I could chat to about it

Am I being a div? (Won’t be offended if you tell me I am, promise)

I don’t think so - I wish I could talk to some of my girl mates too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have zero people I can talk to about this life either! I just moved out to Peterborough so I don’t know anyone here, always happy to chat!!

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

"I have zero people I can talk to about this life either! I just moved out to Peterborough so I don’t know anyone here, always happy to chat!!

… adds to hotlist

Occasionally I let bits slip out at work, but since the nearest person to me on here’s more than 300 miles away I’m guessing it’s not their thing

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I have zero people I can talk to about this life either! I just moved out to Peterborough so I don’t know anyone here, always happy to chat!!

Come visit me while Bry's at work and chat away!

(Char)

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

None of my friends know about Fab. Fortunately I’ve got a lot of Fab friends who I can talk to.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It can be surreal at times and we all need to talk to someone.

Fab is a great place for finding like-minded friendships, where you can't talk to people in your everyday life.

We really value our Fab friends and fortunately we have each other and both have a RL friend we can be open with.

I hope you find yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat away OP....we listen x

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You are not been a div at all. We all need people to talk to. I’m very lucky in that I can talk to my sister and best friend about this side of my life, it’s also nice not feeling like I have to hide or skirt around things x

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Just putting this out there. For anyone who needs an ear, that means male, female and all those in-between, please know that my inbox is open.

I don't judge and I'm happy to chat about anything and everything.

Having read and replied to this thread I will be starting a new one to let people know I'm available if needed. I hope the OP is ok with that.

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I have zero people I can talk to about this life either! I just moved out to Peterborough so I don’t know anyone here, always happy to chat!!

Happily chat to you also beautiful lady indeed

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Struggling a bit

Love this life

But no one to talk to about it

No one will understand

Partner and I very happy

But still wish I had a mate I could chat to about it

Am I being a div? (Won’t be offended if you tell me I am, promise)

What are you struggling with? Being on Fab for most people means having a secret life that the majority of vanilla folks won’t understand. That’s part of the excitement, like being in an elite group. Make some fab friends at your local club if that’s what you need. Good luck

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

always happy to chat, have a couple profile aswell, blackchair48, or message me here, we all have questions and the swinging lifestile can be daunting, so go for it

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