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Losing Faith.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not having much luck so I'm appealing to the masses lol. What I'm really after is constructive criticism!!! Been on here a while now and made a few good friends, but when it comes to meets I'm not having much luck. I appreciate us single guys are 10 a penny but I try to be polite and friendly when I message. More often than not I'm totally ignored. I don't profess to be Brad Pitt or a Porn Star but I figured SOMEONE might have been interested lol!!! Feel free to check me out and drop me a line with your thoughts. Please don't be too harsh!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again with single men you have to be extremeley patient as you said yourself your competeing against many other men another option is to think about giving a club a try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's someone for everyone in this world,it's just waiting and looking for that someone..lots of females join this site daily,so you never know,that someone could be this week or next week or next month...your honesty shines through in your thread and thats the first hurdle...so keep your chin up and you never know what tomorrow might bring.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Is there really any need for what seems to be slating of "other single guys"

Your profile should be about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am losing faith too, many muppets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said many times youre competing against thousands of other guys and in my view to get a meet you either have to find a female who finds you extreamly attractive or one that clicks to your personality.

As someone said theres someone for everyone....they just might not be on a sex site like this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its no good just saying ur different from all the other lads ive seen about 50 profiles that seem identical to yours, and complaing about getting no meets is somthing lads do on here on a daily basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not having much luck so I'm appealing to the masses lol. What I'm really after is constructive criticism!!! Been on here a while now and made a few good friends, but when it comes to meets I'm not having much luck. I appreciate us single guys are 10 a penny but I try to be polite and friendly when I message. More often than not I'm totally ignored. I don't profess to be Brad Pitt or a Porn Star but I figured SOMEONE might have been interested lol!!! Feel free to check me out and drop me a line with your thoughts. Please don't be too harsh!!! "

This sound like a desperate bloke, whats wrong with u?? be a man, if u cant find anyone on here for a sexy meet than you have 3 options

1. Have a wank

2. You can always pay prostitute lol

3. Log on to a some kind of a dating site

You might be messagin fake profiles ( loads of these on here).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's someone for everyone in this world,it's just waiting and looking for that someone..lots of females join this site daily,so you never know,that someone could be this week or next week or next month...your honesty shines through in your thread and thats the first hurdle...so keep your chin up and you never know what tomorrow might bring."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really any need for what seems to be slating of "other single guys"

Your profile should be about you."

Agreed, not a good comment! Makes you sound bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for the comments - most constructive, some not so much!!! It's not about whinging, just asking for advice from more experienced people. I don't want to be one of the people who get it wrong and alienate the decent folks on here. I'm not so arrogant that I think I have all the answers, hence why I asked for help!!!

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF

You compare youself to others, it's about YOU, also you say you are good looking, again, that's for others to judge not you.

Also you are a single straight male, bottom of the food chain on here, it's life

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

try the chatrooms or socials i find its the best way to get to know people then its all good from there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that to be successful on this site you just need to be honest, patient and just be yourself and you will find there is someone who will be interested in you. As some of the other posters have said your profile text should be about you and what you are looking for from people you want to meet rather than comparing yourself to others. Message people you are interested in meeting being polite and eventually you will tick someone's boxes enough for them to message back....has worked for me so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And remember copy and pasting intros isnt any good either, there isnt a "one style fits all" the women on here are as different as us guys, if you read lots profiles you will notice some want you to be explicit in what you want to do, some will want you to be more romantic, some will want a lengthy intro others will just want a quick one to look whos mesaged and see what you look like, I d say read their profiles and tailor your reply to them. Good luck mate Dont give up, and also remember if you post in the forum some peoples aim in life is too ridicule and criticise, just dismiss those as most are very helpful.

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