FabSwingers.com forum: Big = Pain

By *olo-fun OP Man
over a year ago

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Hi all, I am in need of a bit of advice.

I have recently started to take a more passive roll when in bed with another man and I having a bit of trouble.

On one hand I love a guy with a nice average sized dick because I can take it hard, fast and I love the feeling.

On the other hand there is something psychologically thrilling about a guy with a big dick taking charge and entering me. But I just can’t seem to take a good pounding. The pain is unbearable.

Any advice please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, I am in need of a bit of advice.

I have recently started to take a more passive roll when in bed with another man and I having a bit of trouble.

On one hand I love a guy with a nice average sized dick because I can take it hard, fast and I love the feeling.

On the other hand there is something psychologically thrilling about a guy with a big dick taking charge and entering me. But I just can’t seem to take a good pounding. The pain is unbearable.

Any advice please?"

Is he too thick or too long?

If he seems too long I twist my body to one side. Seems to help him ‘around the corner’.

If he’s too thick, just take a bit longer to relax. You’ll get used to him over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what you mean, I love playing with big dicks and sucking them but find it uncomfortable during sex sometimes, although I can take bigger cocks now than I could when I was younger and less experienced so I’m sure it’ll get easier for you the more you do it. Obviously using lube really helps and it’s also easier if your partner is prepared to take time slowly stretching your ass before sex with either his fingers or toys, or you can do it yourself if he doesn’t want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty lube and more lube, relaxing, trying many different positions and of course playing with an understanding partner.

You need to be broken in gently before the full on hardcore pummelling starts; a good assertive alpha top will know what to do in opening up his bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and goes without saying, but a properly prepared arsehole, making sure it’s super clean with either carrying out a good douching or as I do an enema (always hrs before play).

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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I think you've got to face it from a practical perspective. Experiment until you work out the size you can take that is satisfying but not an issue. Then just meet partners who match that size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you've got to face it from a practical perspective. Experiment until you work out the size you can take that is satisfying but not an issue. Then just meet partners who match that size. "

I used to try to avoid men with really big dicks unless they were happy for me to just suck them but I got friendly with a guy who used to drink in my local pub and started to really like him as we had great chemistry and we did eventually end up having sex. He had told me his dick was pretty big but I didn’t know exactly how big until we were naked together for the first time, it was huge and sex with him wasn’t enjoyable at all as he was really rough with me. I saw him quite a few more times as I really liked him in every other way but it eventually became too much.

I’d definitely recommend trying to find out how big someone is before meeting or at least before getting naked together but it’s not always possible to find out exactly how big without seeing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock smacking your cervix pain is the worst !!!!

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