FabSwingers.com forum: Desire Noobs?

By *voKid21 OP Man
over a year ago

Tiptree

Hey guys. I’m really struggling to get any attention on here, have spoken to a few people about possibilities but not really hot anywhere yet, despite being courteous in messages, respectful and polite etc, not a time waster.

Are there people/couples out there who desire noobs and like to show them the ropes etc?

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

Unverified are always a worry. Sometimes hard to tell. Turn up to meets and they arnt there, then profile disappears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its hard for almost all single guys but if you are a woman or a couple you will have contacts galore

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Is sending messages the only thing you're doing? That's not going to be sufficient, unless you have an exceptional profile or a lot of luck (or both).

Get involved in other ways. The forum and chat rooms are there for a reason. Join in. Get your name out there. Get yourself known.

And there are other ways to meet people beyond the site. There are socials, and there are clubs. Go, meet people, be the sort of person that they look forward to seeing again.

It takes time and it takes effort. There are people who will meet the new and unverified. But the best person to help you out is yourself.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

There's a social at the end of the month in London, maybe give that a try if you are free

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Hey guys. I’m really struggling to get any attention on here, have spoken to a few people about possibilities but not really hot anywhere yet, despite being courteous in messages, respectful and polite etc, not a time waster.

Are there people/couples out there who desire noobs and like to show them the ropes etc? "

I wouldn't say we 'desire noobs' but we don't automatically dismiss them and will give a new local person a chance, usually just a social to help them get somewhere, but sometimes it can be more than that.

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Are there people/couples out there who desire noobs and like to show them the ropes etc? "
your a man so will always struggle. It's possible you might never get a meet. I've had one meet from being on here for near 12 years,and that was 6 years ago. I've just about given up ever having fun again and you could be in the same boat. Or you could get lucky,time will tell,but prepare for that time to be loooooong.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I’ve met newbies

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