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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all,

Just after a bit of advice on some events/clubs I can attend as a single man.

I am located in the East Midlands but don’t mind travelling for the right club

Thanks,

Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Townhouse in Birkenhead is a great club, a bit far from you but well worth a visit. And they have plenty of events that non member single men can attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at the club reviews. There's a section on here.

From that they have links to their websites....

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By *vor PartiesMan
over a year ago

wigan

Good afternoon, Checkout out Club Play Blackpool. The reviews say it all. Everyone welcome. Regardless

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

The Attic in Derby allow single guys on Friday and Saturday nights.

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

As long as you're polite, friendly, chatty and not pushy, every club is good for single men. Just not every single night/event is open to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, put some effort into personal hygiene and grooming. Sometimes the guy is alright then I or my partner looks at his fingernails and it's a immediate no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are quest Tuesday bi nights for single men?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Hey all,

Just after a bit of advice on some events/clubs I can attend as a single man.

I am located in the East Midlands but don’t mind travelling for the right club

Thanks,

Lee "

Try them all, I'm sure you'll find one that fits you.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

All Clubs are good for you if you make an effort, talk to people and don't become a pain by following people around, talking or touching inappropriately. You might not get what you want on the first night but you will make friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice guys!

Yeah personal hygiene is important for me and the people I play with also!

I’ll take a look at the forum on here

Lee

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm off to clean my finger nails ...

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By *ueenieHWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"How are quest Tuesday bi nights for single men?"

Haven't you heard of bisexual males

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Jaydees!

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"How are quest Tuesday bi nights for single men?

Haven't you heard of bisexual males "

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"How are quest Tuesday bi nights for single men?"

He’s not Bi, best keeping those nights for the Bi Community.

Club Play is one of my favourite clubs in Blackpool and the town also has Infusions as well. Not sure if you would be able to attend on the weekend though.

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By *im and I 2021Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead, Herts


"Jaydees!"

Second that, this Friday we have a greedy girls event and you look very suited to what the lady’s are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am aware of bisexual men...it's just I don't want to swamped by men only , I wanted to know if one gets any female attention as well.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I am aware of bisexual men...it's just I don't want to swamped by men only , I wanted to know if one gets any female attention as well."

Then start your own thread rather than hijacking someone else’s.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Townhouse, club play and Cupid’s have always been good for single men when I’ve been.

Townhouse are strict on numbers so always good to plan and buy tickets ahead

I only play with single men in clubs so don’t get put off by those who knock them x

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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago

St Neots/Wisbech

Jaydees operates a single male guest list which keeps a healthy ratio on party nights. Nobody gets into a sausage fest, nobody feels overwhelmed and all the gents leave happy.

Check the reviews section for Jaydees and see if it Tickles your fancy.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Club Amigos Leicester City Centre is probably convenient for your location. It's a club we attend a fair bit (it's our local). You'd be more than welcome. There's no membership fee but you do need to apply for free membership 24hrs in advance. Entrance is also very reasonable. The club is small but very sociable and friendly. It's a spa type format.

The Attic on a club night, Derby is where my first experience as a single guy was. Its a very straightforward club to attend as a single guy and is a vary big club so lots of potential. No membership required (assuming this is still the case) and a reasonable entrance fee. So it really is just a case of turn up and go on. Loads of single guys go but it's fairly easy to distinguish yourself from the crowd if you go about things right way.

If you think a smaller, sophisticated, and more intimate environment would suit you more, try Purple Mamba Nottingham. The owner does take great care and intrest when it comes to issuing memberships. Not in anyway in a snobbish capacity, just likes to know the people gaining entry are good, respectful and decent human beings. So your really best to chat to club first before you turn up for Puple Manba.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

I’ve finally done it and booked tickets for an event at Townhouse at the end of October. Nervous as anything.....but I can’t wait. Any tips?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Hey all,

Just after a bit of advice on some events/clubs I can attend as a single man.

I am located in the East Midlands but don’t mind travelling for the right club

Thanks,

Lee "

I've visited several clubs as a single guy, and can tell you that they're all pretty much the same. Some charge you a membership up front, some don't. All restrict the times/events single guys are 'allowed' in, so do check their websites to find when might suit you. The clubs reviews section in here is probably your best gauge for which clubs genuinely make single guys feel at home, as those guys leave positive reviews! Don't be afraid to message any blokes direct either, it's good to share friendly information Good luck

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By *hropsGuy69Man
over a year ago

telford

As a single male I really enjoy my evenings at Chams at Darlaston , but I think like someone else has already said , you can enjoy most clubs if you make an effort and mingle etc and be friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam looking to go to clubs but I have no transport.also can't seem to find nothing near to where I live.i live in retford notts although I live 40miles from Nottingham.and what's even more stupid I have a Doncaster post code dn22 *gq

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Iam looking to go to clubs but I have no transport.also can't seem to find nothing near to where I live.i live in retford notts although I live 40miles from Nottingham.and what's even more stupid I have a Doncaster post code dn22 *gq"

There was a thread a few weeks ago you could search for, listing clubs within walking distance of train stations

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Iam looking to go to clubs but I have no transport.also can't seem to find nothing near to where I live.i live in retford notts although I live 40miles from Nottingham.and what's even more stupid I have a Doncaster post code dn22 *gq

There was a thread a few weeks ago you could search for, listing clubs within walking distance of train stations "

Michael Portillo is doing a series of train journeys to sin ..visiting swinging clubs by train..

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"All Clubs are good for you if you make an effort, talk to people and don't become a pain by following people around, talking or touching inappropriately. You might not get what you want on the first night but you will make friends."

This ??

We notice guys just sitting in their towels, make zero effort to talk or interact in the bar area and then follow couples around and even bang in the closed doors, some almost give the impression that they are entitled to watch and join in, very creepy.

Talk to people, make a connection and you will soon know if they want to take it further.

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By *imon l SmithMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I couldn't agree more with this! I hate people that don't socialise and just act like predators, gives the single gents bad names who actually want more that just a quick shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which is the cheapest for a first time entrant ?

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"All Clubs are good for you if you make an effort, talk to people and don't become a pain by following people around, talking or touching inappropriately. You might not get what you want on the first night but you will make friends."

Very good advice

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"All Clubs are good for you if you make an effort, talk to people and don't become a pain by following people around, talking or touching inappropriately. You might not get what you want on the first night but you will make friends.

This ??

We notice guys just sitting in their towels, make zero effort to talk or interact in the bar area and then follow couples around and even bang in the closed doors, some almost give the impression that they are entitled to watch and join in, very creepy.

Talk to people, make a connection and you will soon know if they want to take it further."

Do you ever approach a guy sat on his own, if only to just say hello, and help him feel included?

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"All Clubs are good for you if you make an effort, talk to people and don't become a pain by following people around, talking or touching inappropriately. You might not get what you want on the first night but you will make friends.

This ??

We notice guys just sitting in their towels, make zero effort to talk or interact in the bar area and then follow couples around and even bang in the closed doors, some almost give the impression that they are entitled to watch and join in, very creepy.

Talk to people, make a connection and you will soon know if they want to take it further.

Do you ever approach a guy sat on his own, if only to just say hello, and help him feel included?"

No and usually it is because we are not there to meet single blokes or the guys usually give a creepy vibe.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"All Clubs are good for you if you make an effort, talk to people and don't become a pain by following people around, talking or touching inappropriately. You might not get what you want on the first night but you will make friends.

This ??

We notice guys just sitting in their towels, make zero effort to talk or interact in the bar area and then follow couples around and even bang in the closed doors, some almost give the impression that they are entitled to watch and join in, very creepy.

Talk to people, make a connection and you will soon know if they want to take it further.

Do you ever approach a guy sat on his own, if only to just say hello, and help him feel included?"

I have done before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to other single guys in a club. It's always good to be sociable.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"All Clubs are good for you if you make an effort, talk to people and don't become a pain by following people around, talking or touching inappropriately. You might not get what you want on the first night but you will make friends.

This ??

We notice guys just sitting in their towels, make zero effort to talk or interact in the bar area and then follow couples around and even bang in the closed doors, some almost give the impression that they are entitled to watch and join in, very creepy.

Talk to people, make a connection and you will soon know if they want to take it further.

Do you ever approach a guy sat on his own, if only to just say hello, and help him feel included?

I have done before"

I’m sure they appreciated that

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