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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? " Many of those don't need kissing to be transferred, simply being as close as sex generally is, would be enough. So unless you're wearing full PPE with your condomed cock out, nothing is ever going to be a 100% and even being in PPE isn't a gaurentee of safety. If you're worried about this, maybe swinging isn't for you. | |||
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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? Many of those don't need kissing to be transferred, simply being as close as sex generally is, would be enough. So unless you're wearing full PPE with your condomed cock out, nothing is ever going to be a 100% and even being in PPE isn't a gaurentee of safety. If you're worried about this, maybe swinging isn't for you. " many of those you would only need to be in a room to risk catching them x | |||
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"Yes. Love a nice kiss. If you are that worried then why meet at all ?" I don't think he's worried, I read it as he's just upset that no one will let him bareback them ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Love a nice kiss. If you are that worried then why meet at all ? I don't think he's worried, I read it as he's just upset that no one will let him bareback them ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Love a nice kiss. If you are that worried then why meet at all ? I don't think he's worried, I read it as he's just upset that no one will let him bareback them ![]() Yep.. this. | |||
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"Yes. Love a nice kiss. If you are that worried then why meet at all ? I don't think he's worried, I read it as he's just upset that no one will let him bareback them ![]() That's my take on it too x | |||
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"Risk tolerance in this country has gone down the pan. V irritating. How do some people cross the road without worrying about being hit by a meteorite?!" They use their smartphones to tell them whether it is safe to cross! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Risk tolerance in this country has gone down the pan. V irritating. How do some people cross the road without worrying about being hit by a meteorite?!" To be honest,I never ever worried about being hit by a meteorite whilst crossing the road,but I will now,thanks ![]() | |||
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" To be honest,I never ever worried about being hit by a meteorite whilst crossing the road,but I will now,thanks ![]() I find wearing a tin foil hat gives 100% protection from meteors. I've never been hit by one | |||
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"Did you also know sex alone can cause a heart attack " Wanking ? | |||
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"Here is some good news OP. You are mistaken. You cannot catch rabies from kissing a human. " You won't believe how relieved I am to read that. Fantastic - means I can snog without worrying I've passed it on to someone else! | |||
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"Did you also know sex alone can cause a heart attack Wanking ?" Na I'm busy ![]() | |||
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"Are you always wrapped in cotton wool? " At no point did I make any personal comment. Why did you need to make one? | |||
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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? Many of those don't need kissing to be transferred, simply being as close as sex generally is, would be enough. So unless you're wearing full PPE with your condomed cock out, nothing is ever going to be a 100% and even being in PPE isn't a gaurentee of safety. If you're worried about this, maybe swinging isn't for you. " I was not making a personal statement; why did you comment on my own position?. It is risk perception I was interested in. As I said "safe sex" people engage in kissing yet it is, if anything, more risky than bareback. | |||
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"Are you always wrapped in cotton wool? " I just found out cotton wool disease is a common fungal infection | |||
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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? Many of those don't need kissing to be transferred, simply being as close as sex generally is, would be enough. So unless you're wearing full PPE with your condomed cock out, nothing is ever going to be a 100% and even being in PPE isn't a gaurentee of safety. If you're worried about this, maybe swinging isn't for you. many of those you would only need to be in a room to risk catching them x" True, so perhaps "safe sex" is not possible? | |||
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"Yes. Love a nice kiss. If you are that worried then why meet at all ?" I did not say anything about my own position. It's a risk perception question. Is "safe sex" even possible? | |||
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"Yes. Love a nice kiss. If you are that worried then why meet at all ? I don't think he's worried, I read it as he's just upset that no one will let him bareback them ![]() Please point out where I said anything about my own position. Why did you feel the need to personalise this? It was a risk perception question not a personal one. | |||
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"Only "safer sex" is possible" Agreed. Knock off those risks you can avoid. | |||
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"Here is some good news OP. You are mistaken. You cannot catch rabies from kissing a human. You won't believe how relieved I am to read that. Fantastic - means I can snog without worrying I've passed it on to someone else!" Humans can catch rabies and if you kiss one .... But it is far more common with animals I agree. ![]() | |||
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"Only "safer sex" is possible Agreed. Knock off those risks you can avoid. " Safest sex is definitely same room sex on your own. Unless you're being bitten by malarial mosquitos and a rabid dog | |||
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"Malaria isn’t spread by kissing either. " I stand corrected. Obviously a Q-anon site I looked at. ![]() | |||
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"Only "safer sex" is possible Agreed. Knock off those risks you can avoid. Safest sex is definitely same room sex on your own. Unless you're being bitten by malarial mosquitos and a rabid dog" Are you allowed to mention animals on Fab? ![]() | |||
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" Humans can catch rabies and if you kiss one .... " "No case of human to human rabies transmission has been documented" BMJ July 2019 | |||
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"For me, kissing on a meet is very important, regardless of any risks involved. The chances of catching STI via kissing are much smaller than through bareback sex. " True; but some of the other diseases caught via exchange of bodily fluids during kissing are worse than most STIs. ![]() | |||
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" Humans can catch rabies and if you kiss one .... "No case of human to human rabies transmission has been documented" BMJ July 2019" Phew. Rabies is off the list. I would put Covid-19, most SARS infections and influenza as statistically more likely. But a quick spot of ebola, now you are talking. ![]() | |||
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"Risk tolerance in this country has gone down the pan. V irritating. How do some people cross the road without worrying about being hit by a meteorite?!" This is why I never cross roads, far to dangerous! The green cross code is useless, look right, look left and look right again, no mention of looking up! Scandalous ![]() | |||
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"Kissing randomers is gross anyway hahaha ![]() Remember those carefree days when we shook hands with strangers ? | |||
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"Are you always wrapped in cotton wool? At no point did I make any personal comment. Why did you need to make one? " I didn't mean to be rude or offend you but I thought it was a strange comment to put on a sex site. Life is full of risk but I think kissing is one of the lesser risks in life, even less risky than going to the supermarket. I apologise x | |||
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"Kissing randomers is gross anyway hahaha ![]() Beautiful times | |||
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"Kissing is mandatory… if the connection is there ![]() ![]() | |||
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" As I said "safe sex" people engage in kissing yet it is, if anything, more risky than bareback. " Oh dear ![]() | |||
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"Theirs less chance from kissing if you have oral hygiene. How many even wash properly after bareback and how many have even consider washing before engaging into bareback" It's often advised not to brush teeth in close proximity to sex, due to increasing the levels risk, rather than lowering them. | |||
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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? " If someone had all of those I think I would notice ![]() | |||
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"Yes. Love a nice kiss. If you are that worried then why meet at all ? I don't think he's worried, I read it as he's just upset that no one will let him bareback them ![]() It's usually the underlying topic they're really getting it. | |||
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"Are you always wrapped in cotton wool? At no point did I make any personal comment. Why did you need to make one? I didn't mean to be rude or offend you but I thought it was a strange comment to put on a sex site. Life is full of risk but I think kissing is one of the lesser risks in life, even less risky than going to the supermarket. I apologise x" Thank you. Just a misunderstanding friend. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? " Well aren't you a bundle of joy | |||
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"Yes. Love a nice kiss. If you are that worried then why meet at all ? I don't think he's worried, I read it as he's just upset that no one will let him bareback them ![]() Nope, as stated. Risk assessment. Simples. If I want to moan about not getting bareback that is what I will do; but on this occasion I did not express my own point of view. | |||
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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? Well aren't you a bundle of joy" YES!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? If someone had all of those I think I would notice ![]() Hrm? No pulse? grey complexion? strange smell? possibly. ![]() | |||
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"Theirs less chance from kissing if you have oral hygiene. How many even wash properly after bareback and how many have even consider washing before engaging into bareback It's often advised not to brush teeth in close proximity to sex, due to increasing the levels risk, rather than lowering them. " Do you use chlorohexidine? | |||
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"Kissing is mandatory… if the connection is there ![]() Yes indeed ... but sadly not risk free. ![]() | |||
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"Cannot get intimate with someone without kissing IMO. I’ve turned down meets where a couple has said you can’t kiss her (smacks of a prostitute type of scenario).. sorry that is a deal breaker for me ![]() ![]() So worth the risks then? | |||
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"Cannot get intimate with someone without kissing IMO. I’ve turned down meets where a couple has said you can’t kiss her (smacks of a prostitute type of scenario).. sorry that is a deal breaker for me ![]() ![]() What do you think, OP? We all make our own risk assessments, and live by them. | |||
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"Are you always wrapped in cotton wool? " I'm not, wool makes me itch. | |||
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"Cannot get intimate with someone without kissing IMO. I’ve turned down meets where a couple has said you can’t kiss her (smacks of a prostitute type of scenario).. sorry that is a deal breaker for me ![]() ![]() I think each will make their own decision. It's just the apparent perception that a disease caught through sexual intercourse is far more frightening and damaging than one through kissing. ![]() | |||
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"Malaria isn’t spread by kissing either. " Tell that to the mosquito that tongued me... | |||
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"Are you always wrapped in cotton wool? I'm not, wool makes me itch." Cotton wool is cotton, not wool. It's a war of the roses thing. | |||
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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? " Op your list is incomplete. You can also catch diarreah and mad cow disease from kissing. ![]() | |||
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"Are you always wrapped in cotton wool? I'm not, wool makes me itch. Cotton wool is cotton, not wool. It's a war of the roses thing." Doh! It's still ticklish, I hate it when the dentist shoves in in my mouth. | |||
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"There is frequent debate on Fab about bareback vs condom. However it is not unusual for safe sex "condomers" to say they enjoy kissing. Kissing can transfer the following diseases; herpes virus, glandular fever, cold sores, warts, colds, influenza, mumps, covid-19, zika virus, ebola, malaria, gum disease, meningitis, syphilis, German measles, rabies and polio. So I ask the safe sexers who kiss at meets; do the risks of kissing outweigh the benefits? Op your list is incomplete. You can also catch diarreah and mad cow disease from kissing. ![]() and worst of all...BABIES, 9 months later! I heard it in the playground. | |||
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"Here is some good news OP. You are mistaken. You cannot catch rabies from kissing a human. " Ebola is probably a bit of a long shot in the UK as well. | |||
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"OP if you pose a question on the forum without stating the reason for asking or stating your own view then how is anyone to know how worrying this is to you? People kiss or don't kiss their playmates and I for one would not be that interested in someone who was not a kisser. " The reason for asking was to hear peoples response to the question which was about risk perception. ![]() | |||
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