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By *icklixit OP   Man
over a year ago

sunderland

im gonna stick my neck out here and ask a question thats prob been asked countless time before, here goes.

HOW DOES A SINGLE OR MARRIED PLAYS ALONE GUY GET ANY ACTION ON THIS SITE ?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

is true to himself, puts himself out there, doesn't bitch if he does not appeal to someone.... is honest and behaves with dignity, humility and trust

same applies to females and couples....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

P.M. Fabio, he'll give you a few pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If hes Good looking and great in bed

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

By being polite non pushy and by treating women or couples on here with respect avoid the fancy a shag messages and play the long game you need to be patient and put lots of effort in to profile and messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

by messaging every fem in ur area code. 1 of em is bound to bite

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"by messaging every fem in ur area code. 1 of em is bound to bite "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By being polite non pushy and by treating women or couples on here with respect avoid the fancy a shag messages and play the long game you need to be patient and put lots of effort in to profile and messages"

Hmm. Well it seems to us that often single men become so paranoid about being thought of as being 'pushy' that they go to the opposite extreme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah if you go the other extreme by standing off people think you're not interested. I go on a rule of always replying to texts but not bombarding someone multiple times if they haven't replied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

easy, meet my strict demands !!! lol!

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London

Its a really REALLY awkward one... Although we're a couple, we play singly due to the Mrs working and living away from home, so I know exactly the problem you're facing. The number of times I've been blanked, blocked or accused of being a fake are many, but you've just got to hang in there and have faith. There ARE nice genuine people out there who will give you the benefit of the doubt, then its up to you to prove that you're a nice guy who 'does what it says on the tin' when you do eventually meet. I've now found a couple of nice genuine friends on here, but it really is an uphill struggle. Best of luck anyway. Rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and offer to pay for the hotel to, that helps a lot!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

For me to meet someone, they must have read my profile for a start, a nice versed message rather than the usual 'Hi, how are you, fancy a chat?' Or something to make them stand out from the crowd, that includes making an effort with their own profile, rather than just the usal few words, or the shite 'will fill this out later' and that was over a year ago!

Do you catch my drift? Not really rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

show up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not know - I do not seem to have a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be respectful,don't be pushy,make your profile as interesting as you can,and if your married be honest about both it and your situation. And attend a few socials that way folk get to know your face and can gague wether your genuine or not (and yes I am speaking from experience),it also helps that my wife plays as well,

Hope that helps,and good luck

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