FabSwingers.com forum: Am I doing something wrong??

By *JBezant OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I would love it if one you lovely forum foragers could do me a solid.

So I’ve been on here for a while, I recently relocated up north and cannot seem to strike up a conversation for the life of me. I’m not one for immediate dirty talk and do speak in quite an ‘educated’ way which may alienate some.

I fear I’m making a silly mistake which is causing people to see the dreaded red flag!

Any feedback would be greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks decent to me, not sure why you’re not getting any responses.

Women are overwhelmed on here with messages, I barely even read mine anymore.

Good luck

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By *JBezant OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Your profile looks decent to me, not sure why you’re not getting any responses.

Women are overwhelmed on here with messages, I barely even read mine anymore.

Good luck

Thank you! Just gotta be perseverant I guess.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Other than that self proclaimed pretentious "professional" nonsense your profile if better than most.

Maybe drop it and see how that goes?

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"I would love it if one you lovely forum foragers could do me a solid.

I fear I’m making a silly mistake which is causing people to see the dreaded red flag!

Any feedback would be greatly appreciated "

Your profile is much better than 90% of those we've seen here over many years. That does not alter the reality that there are far more guys here than females/couples so you just have to plug away. Be selective in whom you approach, read their profiles properly and respond accordingly. Winks and one liners are easy but don't work well because our inboxes are full of them. Good luck!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Maybe it's because you're a southern shandy drinking shite (said in jest, I am too)?

Think your profile pictures are great, I need get a guitar!

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don’t worry it’s the lockdown blues !! People have gone back too work and now don’t have as much time

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yours is a very nice profile, man with a guitar what's not to like, we are surprised you even have to try.

Like others said, girls here are so innundated with messages, they probably don't get enough time to browse properly.

That said, we often get girls reaching out so there is hope.

We are no way experts but if we can offer a suggestion, get rid of old photos, add some new ones and get active in forums and socials. We think you will be popular.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

You're straight so Id get rid of the picture dated 3rd October.....think thats going to only attract gay or bi men and not women which is your target audience

I'm a bloke so could be wrong in fairness

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By *onybloMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I have been wondering the same thing.

I don't send that many messages but several that I have sent aren't even read and from what I can see the recipients font look at my profile either so is it my profile picture or my Age?

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Don't jump into the dirty talk straight away I'd say we prefer just normal conversation absolutely love dortty talk but at least have a bit of a connection before we get there

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I'm thinking the same ! Messages always clean chat,Maybe abit flirty after a while. Not sure if women would like you to get right down to the filthy talk..

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"You're straight so Id get rid of the picture dated 3rd October.....think thats going to only attract gay or bi men and not women which is your target audience

I'm a bloke so could be wrong in fairness "

2nd that. Lovely profile, great bio. Most people meet weekends I'd guess and like to plan. We're clubs, socials, parties and use fab to connect tbf,but maybe that's just us

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By *JBezant OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Blown away by the kind words guys thank you! Such a good community on here. With regard to the bum pics, I like anal play but perhaps it is giving off the wrong vibes. Like anything I suppose it’s a waiting game and taste in subjective.

Hope your all having a lovely evening!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be the small dick, only a suggestion

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Could be the small dick, only a suggestion

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No you didn't

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Could be the small dick, only a suggestion

No you didn't

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By *JBezant OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Could be the small dick, only a suggestion

Wow and immediately I’m faced with the worst of fab. Glad you took the time to post that mate.

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