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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I looking to have anal fun with a strap-on with a play mate. Whats the best way to ensure I am perfecly clean in afformentioned orrifice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But...but...your straight!! How does that work then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Play mate is female, she wants to try strap on fun. so im game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if the playmate is a lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But...but...your straight!! How does that work then? "

Presumably his playmate is female, just coz he wants bum fun that doesn't make him gay lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Play mate is female, she wants to try strap on fun. so im game."

Quite right hun, don't knock it til you tried it I say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several ways

Low residue diet for a couple of days - as in very little fibre.

Keep you rfluid intake up though or you'll get constipated and that'll be o fun atall LOL

While preparing for your date ...

Soapy finger in the shower (non-perfumed soap though - simple or something like that)

or

Small enema available from chemist.

or

Anal douche

or 4-5 10ml syringes of warm water to rectum. be careful!

have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But...but...your straight!! How does that work then?

Presumably his playmate is female, just coz he wants bum fun that doesn't make him gay lol "

didn't say gay!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Go to lovehoney get enema..or go for a colonic that should clear you out for a couple of days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour! "

You don't have to be bi curious to want anal play ... you just have to be into anal play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour! "

I'd say wrong, bi curious to me means he would be curious about having sex with a male. But I don't know if I'm right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour! "

I'm curious to know if you think guys who like anal with women are secretly bi or gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour!

I'm curious to know if you think guys who like anal with women are secretly bi or gay? "

Perhaps they think a women will be gentle and not mercilessly pound that piece of penile plastic like a pile driver. If only they knew....

Wolf

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon

This is something I have never done and think I would like too And don't think it constitutes me being gay, maybe a little curious....

Any ladies wanna play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour! "
ok not sure if this helps but as a bi girl i like oral but when my fella is given me oral i don't image its a girl same the other way. so i would assume if a guy wants to be fucked in arse by lady it only becomes bi curious if he wonders what it would be like for a guy to do it (if this makes any sense ) xxx

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour! ok not sure if this helps but as a bi girl i like oral but when my fella is given me oral i don't image its a girl same the other way. so i would assume if a guy wants to be fucked in arse by lady it only becomes bi curious if he wonders what it would be like for a guy to do it (if this makes any sense ) xxx"

Makes perfect sense, I would be happy with a lady doing it, but not a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers, thanks for the correction! Apologies to the op if i offended! Was just curious, (but not in that way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In response to the original post.....a light meal the day before (or morning of, dependant upon when it will happen), and before the meeting a nice warm shower, lots of soap (simple, as pointed out before), and the use of a finger or 2. Rinse and repeat. That should help somewhat....and stay away from the curries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It never ceases to amaze me, on a supposedly liberated site like this, the ignorance of so many re sexuality.

Homo/gay/lesbian, is sex with the same gender. Bi is sex with both/either gender.

So a guy having a female put a finger, dildo, strap-on or whatever in his rear-end, doesn't make him gay, or even bi!! Now if it was a another guy doing it............!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love female fingers, female tongues and females to use toys up my bum, but I would be horrified if a bloke tried to do the same. I once used a toy on my bum in front of a woman who was most keen to watch what I did. It was great fun, and the look on her face when I gave the toy a "blow job" afterwards I will never forget. When she asked me if I would do the same to a real penis the suggestion was disgusting to me. I was more than happy to meet a male/female couple on here who had bought a strapon, but he had chickened out. The lady could not stop laughing as she tried to work out how to use it on me, but I would not have bent over for him to use his real one on me. Fun is fun, you do not have to put a label on it.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough


"Several ways

Low residue diet for a couple of days - as in very little fibre.

Keep you rfluid intake up though or you'll get constipated and that'll be o fun atall LOL

While preparing for your date ...

Soapy finger in the shower (non-perfumed soap though - simple or something like that)

or

Small enema available from chemist.

or

Anal douche

or 4-5 10ml syringes of warm water to rectum. be careful!

have fun!"

Or a glycerine suppository an hour before hand. 30 mins later be near a loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour! "

A chatroom on another well known swinging site is for 'straight men who like sucking cock".

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By *winging In The RainMan
over a year ago

St Helens / Liverpool

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By *winging In The RainMan
over a year ago

St Helens / Liverpool

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By *winging In The RainMan
over a year ago

St Helens / Liverpool

I'm bi and a SouthLinksSteve having a woman play with him down there isn't bi / gay behaviour at all really. Try a prostage massage and come back, you won't be saying it's bi / gay then. Don't knock it until you try it.

(Sorry about the triple post as well, my laptop went a bit crazy).

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Do we need labels, if it feels good do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GAY= ONLY LIKING SAME SEX,

BISEXUAL = LIKES MEN AND WOMEN,

BUT GIVING A GUY ANAL WITH A STRAP ON,ONE WRONG MOVE N ITS A SH*T BAG OR COLOSTOMY BAG TILL THE END,COLON RIPS EASY.IE A GUY IN USA WAS RAPING BY 12 MEN, ROUGHLY, THEY RIPPED HIS COLON COZING HIM TO BLEED INTRNALY,HE DIED OF TOXIC POSIONING,SO LADIES IF YOR ROUGH N THINGS GO WRONG, YA FOOKED,OR THE GUY IS,, EX CARE WORKER, ANAL PROBING DONE VERY GENTLE AS MEN SPUNKIN ABOVE THIER HEADS LO N SHAKING LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try a prostage massage and come back, you won't be saying it's bi / gay then. Don't knock it until you try it.

"

sounds yummy to me - it's on the wishlist :P

Wolf

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By *winging In The RainMan
over a year ago

St Helens / Liverpool


"Try a prostage massage and come back, you won't be saying it's bi / gay then. Don't knock it until you try it.

sounds yummy to me - it's on the wishlist :P

Wolf

"

You'll come like you've never come before Wolf haha. Clear the room and put a sheet down, it will shoot very hard and far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour! "

At best I think this is an ignorant thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour!

At best I think this is an ignorant thing to say"

And if you bothered to read my other post, you would have seen i was just curious (not ignorant) and i apologised to the op if i caused any offence to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour!

At best I think this is an ignorant thing to say

And if you bothered to read my other post, you would have seen i was just curious (not ignorant) and i apologised to the op if i caused any offence to him! "

Yes you apologised in your fourth post! Apologies to you if it wasn't ignorance on your part, it must have been just a lack of understanding I guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm, correct me if i'm wrong here! Doesn't matter if its male or female giving him a rodgering! Said rodgering constitutes bi or at the least bi-curiousity behaviour! ok not sure if this helps but as a bi girl i like oral but when my fella is given me oral i don't image its a girl same the other way. so i would assume if a guy wants to be fucked in arse by lady it only becomes bi curious if he wonders what it would be like for a guy to do it (if this makes any sense ) xxx

Makes perfect sense, I would be happy with a lady doing it, but not a guy "

ahhh you havent met the last domme i used to meet , ouch !

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By *hawy06Man
over a year ago

warrington

My fb uses a strapless 1 on me an wow it's incredible

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone forr the advice, very helpful. And no offence taken lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a swingers site!

I always thought swingers were open minded!

The OP has asked a simple question.

Nothing to do with what his preferences are!

Still it seems that Bi-curious/bi men are not fully accepted plus people are too quick in judging others!

Shame that this topic was more about the question if the OP was bi/gay than actually answer his question!

My opinion that is!

Like it or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how can engaging in sexual activities with a woman be gay? surely being gay involves having feeling for someone of the same sex?

gay men have anal and oral sex with other men... so by ur logic, having anal and oral sex with a woman makes you gay too?

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


" You don't have to be bi curious to want anal play ... you just have to be into anal play. "

This

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


" Presumably his playmate is female, just coz he wants bum fun that doesn't make him gay lol "

I'll take any label going if it means I can have fun with you.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Some men whether gay/bi/straight like anal, some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only gay if whilst during anal you're thinking about how the duvet cover clashes with the colour of the curtains

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