FabSwingers.com forum: Buddy up?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thoughts on finding a fwb for club virgins ect...? Anyone ever tried this with any luck??

By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Thoughts on finding a fwb for club virgins ect...? Anyone ever tried this with any luck??"

If you want an fwb to go to clubs with, the best way to find one is to go to a club. Become a regular, meet lots of people, make friends, and maybe you'll find someone you really click with. That's worked for me.

By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Not many people are willing to risk their membership by taking a total newbie to a club.

You have a few options, OP:

1) find someone you already know/have met to go with you to a club, then you can join as a couple or as singles but at least you'd have someone you know to talk to

2) go to the club on your own, maybe arrange to meet someone there?

Last but not least, as the 3rd option, you can always go on your own, and just mingle?

By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Unless you have friends who are regulars, meaning people you have played with more than once, go solo. You’ll make a better first impression that way. There’s nothing more offputting than someone whose never met me asking me to go to a club with them.

The single men set the tone of the clubs. They’re most often the ones who reach out most to fresh meat, who make people feel welcome, who make people feel comfortable and often make more than a few fantasies come true. They’re pretty amazing, and the good chaps often end up welcome pretty much everywhere

Obviously, some just sit in the corners wanking their keys and making people feel uncomfortable, but, well, don’t do that.