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"Hi. We've had several people and it has been mostly single men and occasionally MF couples. We've chatted for a while and arranged to meet in a few days time and exchanged numbers. Then things have gone silent and there has been no meet and they have clearly blocked us as they no longer have been reading our mail. So recently we were arranging with a man to meet on Monday afternoon for a social and he gave us his number. This was agreed on the preceeding Friday. We sent him a message to say we would be in touch. He did not apparently read this message else marked it as unread by 10AM on the Monday morning when we wrote another message asking if he was going to be meeting. We had no response until we got back around 11PM on Monday night and we had missed him by less than an hour. His first said that he was busy with his children all weekend which was of no consequence to the meeting and with work on the Monday and we wondered why he bothered to agree to meet if he was at work. His next which we received at the same time asked why we did not phone or text. We responded asking why he had not responded to our earlier message of Monday and Friday. The conversation has since halted. We felt that his approach to open up with questions as to why we had not called following what seemed to be an excuse was not worth the energy. So the question is this: Does this count as being stood up or as a user failing to keep a meet and if so or not should we report this kind of behaviour or is it us being over sensitive? TIA r&K" He should have let you know and it's pretty poor behaviour. Not sure what, if any, action admin would take if you reported him though. His word against yours? Did you ever see him on camera and did any of your chats with him get dirty? Some guys just want that then post fake/old pics and promise to meet in order to get their wank material for as long as they can. They then suddenly disappear just before meeting. The same applies to some 'couples' accounts which are actually being run by single guys or men whose partner doesn't know anything about it. These people disappear as soon as you ask to either speak to or see both of them on cam. There's not much you can do about people not turning up except resolving to have an enjoyable evening whether or not they do. That's how we've done things for a long time now. We assume the worse and if the guy shows up and is what he claimed, then that's a nice bonus. | |||
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"Hi. We've had several people and it has been mostly single men and occasionally MF couples. We've chatted for a while and arranged to meet in a few days time and exchanged numbers. Then things have gone silent and there has been no meet and they have clearly blocked us as they no longer have been reading our mail. So recently we were arranging with a man to meet on Monday afternoon for a social and he gave us his number. This was agreed on the preceeding Friday. We sent him a message to say we would be in touch. He did not apparently read this message else marked it as unread by 10AM on the Monday morning when we wrote another message asking if he was going to be meeting. We had no response until we got back around 11PM on Monday night and we had missed him by less than an hour. His first said that he was busy with his children all weekend which was of no consequence to the meeting and with work on the Monday and we wondered why he bothered to agree to meet if he was at work. His next which we received at the same time asked why we did not phone or text. We responded asking why he had not responded to our earlier message of Monday and Friday. The conversation has since halted. We felt that his approach to open up with questions as to why we had not called following what seemed to be an excuse was not worth the energy. So the question is this: Does this count as being stood up or as a user failing to keep a meet and if so or not should we report this kind of behaviour or is it us being over sensitive? TIA r&K He should have let you know and it's pretty poor behaviour. Not sure what, if any, action admin would take if you reported him though. His word against yours? Did you ever see him on camera and did any of your chats with him get dirty? Some guys just want that then post fake/old pics and promise to meet in order to get their wank material for as long as they can. They then suddenly disappear just before meeting. The same applies to some 'couples' accounts which are actually being run by single guys or men whose partner doesn't know anything about it. These people disappear as soon as you ask to either speak to or see both of them on cam. There's not much you can do about people not turning up except resolving to have an enjoyable evening whether or not they do. That's how we've done things for a long time now. We assume the worse and if the guy shows up and is what he claimed, then that's a nice bonus. " We're a couple but often at different ends of the country during the week so sadly can't always get on video calls together BUT our verifications speak for themselves that we are a GENUINE couple. | |||
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"Hi. We've had several people and it has been mostly single men and occasionally MF couples. We've chatted for a while and arranged to meet in a few days time and exchanged numbers. Then things have gone silent and there has been no meet and they have clearly blocked us as they no longer have been reading our mail. So recently we were arranging with a man to meet on Monday afternoon for a social and he gave us his number. This was agreed on the preceeding Friday. We sent him a message to say we would be in touch. He did not apparently read this message else marked it as unread by 10AM on the Monday morning when we wrote another message asking if he was going to be meeting. We had no response until we got back around 11PM on Monday night and we had missed him by less than an hour. His first said that he was busy with his children all weekend which was of no consequence to the meeting and with work on the Monday and we wondered why he bothered to agree to meet if he was at work. His next which we received at the same time asked why we did not phone or text. We responded asking why he had not responded to our earlier message of Monday and Friday. The conversation has since halted. We felt that his approach to open up with questions as to why we had not called following what seemed to be an excuse was not worth the energy. So the question is this: Does this count as being stood up or as a user failing to keep a meet and if so or not should we report this kind of behaviour or is it us being over sensitive? TIA r&K" Maybe his bottle went? even if it had he could have just quick messaged to say he couldn't make the meet, don't worry too much about him though. | |||
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"To be honest you can't rely on Fab messaging when you are meeting someone. We've had it happen a few times where someone we were meeting tried to message us but there was no phone signal in the pub we were waiting at and Fab was banned by the pub wifi." Use a VPN then filters on wifi don't matter. | |||
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"To be honest you can't rely on Fab messaging when you are meeting someone. We've had it happen a few times where someone we were meeting tried to message us but there was no phone signal in the pub we were waiting at and Fab was banned by the pub wifi. Use a VPN then filters on wifi don't matter. " It's a lot easier to just use WA | |||
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