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By *ot - Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Guys it really is ok to say your bi or bi curious, spoke to a few guys and they state on their profile straight but then get talking and admit they like a bit of cock fun. So this is the place to say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just updating my profile now. I was always a little bit ashamed of having bi thoughts as it's not socially acceptable in the real world. But on here I think it's best to be totally honest.

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By *ot - Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Just updating my profile now. I was always a little bit ashamed of having bi thoughts as it's not socially acceptable in the real world. But on here I think it's best to be totally honest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile says straight, but in the text body it does say, can be bi if the mood takes, think there are a lot of guys out there who wont admit to liking/wanting a bit of cock fun

Out of interest, where does 'bi-curious' finish and 'bisexual' start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile says straight, but in the text body it does say, can be bi if the mood takes, think there are a lot of guys out there who wont admit to liking/wanting a bit of cock fun

Out of interest, where does 'bi-curious' finish and 'bisexual' start?"
Most blokes dont want to commit hence curious.......its a get out of jail card!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi Guys put straight down as putting bi lessens their chances of meeting by a large amount.

And if you've got more than one veri from a man saying you were a good fuck then you're way past curious. How oftend you have to try something before you decide you like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just updating my profile now. I was always a little bit ashamed of having bi thoughts as it's not socially acceptable in the real world. But on here I think it's best to be totally honest."

well done so many lads on here i know are straight but with bi side that just wont show it , bloody shame in this day an age if you ask me when you cant be open about your sexuality .

really annoys me that society is still living in the dark ages , even my kids know about different sexualities due to me having gay straight an bi friends , so well done you be proud of the fact you are who you are an that you are open enough to changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know in the past when I had straight it was because it lessened my chances. A lot of straight women/couples don't like the idea of being with a bi guy. I think that's the _iew a lot of guys that have 'straight' on their profiles have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our profile says straight, but in the text body it does say, can be bi if the mood takes, think there are a lot of guys out there who wont admit to liking/wanting a bit of cock fun

Out of interest, where does 'bi-curious' finish and 'bisexual' start?Most blokes dont want to commit hence curious.......its a get out of jail card!"

Disagree with you on that its not a get out of jail card, I put Bi curious because I've not done it yet. When I've done it I will change to bisexual

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

always been bi in swinging.... and always honest.

In fact probably one of the first on swinging websites to be honest, what others think about it... I don't give 2 flying fucks actually, I am an equal to straight guys and don't feel in any way inferior.

all the best to all but honesty has worked for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys it really is ok to say your bi or bi curious, spoke to a few guys and they state on their profile straight but then get talking and admit they like a bit of cock fun. So this is the place to say it. "

pisses me off that does . Why hide it ? just say your either curious,bi,straight,cd,tv or whatever .

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland


"Guys it really is ok to say your bi or bi curious, spoke to a few guys and they state on their profile straight but then get talking and admit they like a bit of cock fun. So this is the place to say it.

pisses me off that does . Why hide it ? just say your either curious,bi,straight,cd,tv or whatever . "

Annoying in other ways too, when you think a profile looks nice then you notice 'Straight' and so think damn, never mind, next day he's messaging you asking how big your cock it, it sends mixed signals damnit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its amazing how many straight guys like to watch me on cam and say how they would like my cock....

The other thing I don't get is straight guys who say they would like to play bi but only in a mfm 3sum?

Is this cos they are so desperate to get a woman they are willing to do something they really dont want to? Or just they are too ashamed and think its "less gay" to play with a guy if a woman is present?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bicurious and proud of it! If a man can make me laugh and is clean and fit then why not? But always play safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of straight guys have a desire on their profile for TV/TS...erm hello, surprise in store when you meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were both still newbies with only a handful of experience. Were still learning the joys of same sex fun and finding our feet, likes and dislikes.

Im sure once weve found this well change it to bi sexual. We agree that this is the one place where you should be true to what your looking for. Loads of couples and women find bi men play very arousing.

Any experienced same sex players especially females and couples wanna show us the way .... PM us

D & V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well and truly bi but as it says on my profile, I don't have to be so straight couples can rest assured I wont go mad and turn into some sex fiend just because I see another cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys it really is ok to say your bi or bi curious, spoke to a few guys and they state on their profile straight but then get talking and admit they like a bit of cock fun. So this is the place to say it. "

it depends what you're looking for really...we tend not to meet men who have straight on their profile as the bi dynamic is what we're here for...if we did a search and saw your profile we wouldn't even bother reading it...

if you're looking for predominantly straight encounters...a lot of straight couples won't meet guys who are bi...the reasons for that have been "discussed" here ad nauseum and is a matter of personal choice...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi males will always have a stigma, they shouldn't but I personally as a bi guy think people think it's a health risk. But this lifestyle is risky full stop . You'd think swingers would be open minded . I can't tell you how many straight couples have contacted me. To me this is about fun and honesty but my friends don't know I'm bi but I've no issues with the swinging community knowing

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Yeah I'm bi and proud on here but would be mortified if friends and family found out. How fucked up is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine for a lot of guys that they never really thought about it until they started swinging and being in that environment opens your mind a little and you feel less hung up about things.

For some they haven't made thier mind up yet.

For some they've thought about it but haven't come to terms with thier own thought themselves and one day that might just happen ... and it might happen while talking to one person and not another or all of a sudden a momentary decision at a meet or whatever.

There's no rules ...

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By *ot - Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Bi males will always have a stigma, they shouldn't but I personally as a bi guy think people think it's a health risk. But this lifestyle is risky full stop . You'd think swingers would be open minded . I can't tell you how many straight couples have contacted me. To me this is about fun and honesty but my friends don't know I'm bi but I've no issues with the swinging community knowing "
We think that if someone has this idea that Bi guys are a health risk then its them that need to be educated. Everyone that has sex has a health risk, bi, str8, gay or lesbian its all about protection and GUM clinic check ups.

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By *ot - Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Guys it really is ok to say your bi or bi curious, spoke to a few guys and they state on their profile straight but then get talking and admit they like a bit of cock fun. So this is the place to say it.

pisses me off that does . Why hide it ? just say your either curious,bi,straight,cd,tv or whatever .

Annoying in other ways too, when you think a profile looks nice then you notice 'Straight' and so think damn, never mind, next day he's messaging you asking how big your cock it, it sends mixed signals damnit!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they hide it the onus of burden is dutifly theres.

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By *odjamMan
over a year ago

woodford

I have no problem putting that I am bi on my profile as I think you should be truthful with your sexuality so that who ever you meet are aware and are happy with what will happen particularly the male partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a party a few weeks ago, 1 lady and around 20 guys.

One of the guys had brought a male friend with him and it wasn't until we were 20 or 30 mins into a chat in the kitchen that the friend realised he was the only straight guy in the whole place.

He went white as a sheet and looked like he was off out of the window. I'm guessing he'd just found his mate was bi and he was going to witness a few new things.

Anyway, he lasted about 5 minutes with the lady giving him some newby (to the swinging scene) attention.

20 mins later he was in the room watching guys with the lady and guys with guys, he was getting hard and turned to me and said "I'm not bi, but I'm sure as hell enjoying watching the guys"

Someone realising that sex isn't just based on gender but physiological arousal as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Someone realising that sex isn't just based on gender but physiological arousal as well "

This is what it's all about!

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys it really is ok to say your bi or bi curious, spoke to a few guys and they state on their profile straight but then get talking and admit they like a bit of cock fun. So this is the place to say it. "

Well I have bitten the bullit and changed my profile from Straight to Bi-curious...

That does not mean I wish to be inundated by offers as I still prefer my ladies!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"spoke to a few guys and they state on their profile straight but then get talking and admit they like a bit of cock fun"

Hummmm, we've come across those guys as well, seems "some" only admit their preference when after a bit of cock

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By *ot - Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Guys it really is ok to say your bi or bi curious, spoke to a few guys and they state on their profile straight but then get talking and admit they like a bit of cock fun. So this is the place to say it.

Well I have bitten the bullit and changed my profile from Straight to Bi-curious...

That does not mean I wish to be inundated by offers as I still prefer my ladies! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think that if someone has this idea that Bi guys are a health risk then its them that need to be educated. Everyone that has sex has a health risk, bi, str8, gay or lesbian its all about protection and GUM clinic check ups."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys it really is ok to say your bi or bi curious, spoke to a few guys and they state on their profile straight but then get talking and admit they like a bit of cock fun. So this is the place to say it.

Well I have bitten the bullit and changed my profile from Straight to Bi-curious...

That does not mean I wish to be inundated by offers as I still prefer my ladies! "

Hope you only bite the bullet!

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