FabSwingers.com forum: help with tv/ts accounts and sexual orientation

By *kashic Crystaline Dreams OP Man
over a year ago

Near East Kilbride

if making a tv/ts profile and your a "male from birth" but you are appearing/ representing yourself as a woman.

do you set your sexual orientation by your birth gender or the gender you feel you are.

if your male at birth but feel you are female then would the following be correct:

"gay" = you only like other women

"straight" = you only like men

"bi/curious" = both men and women

or do you set it according to your birth gender so then this would then be correct:

"gay" = you only like other men

"straight" = you only like women

"bi/curious" = both men and women

any help on this would be great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh???

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By *kashic Crystaline Dreams OP Man
over a year ago

Near East Kilbride

edinguy404 i'm as confused as you with the whole thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After further reading of your op, i THINK i know what your asking now!

So, short answer, if you have a todger you put yourself down as male, but state n your profile you are a tv/ts!

Oh, and change your profile to bi!!

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

Like many other contact sites that are not primarily aimed at the t-girl community, they tend to lump together the transvestites (like me) and the transgenders under one banner because many don't understand the difference, my only advice to you is to be as honest with others as you are to yourself, ultimately I think if you asked the same question to a hundred tv/ts profiles here, you might end up with a hundred answers, take care, hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's the problem? All these things are self-definitions and can only be defined by the person concerned.

If you think that you might be interested in the person concerned, then do the obvious thing - write and ask them!!! If nothing else, it's an easy way to open a conversation....

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

You call yourself 'Akashic Crystaline Dreams' So I am assuming you comprehend the terms used and therefore there are a few things you can do.

Do a meditation and access the Akashic records and check out your past lives as both a male and a female or betwixt and between and see what insights you get.

Put a crystal under your pillow and see if you can 'dream' the answer to your questions. I am sure your guides will help. I do not know the right crystals to help dreams but I know people who do.

The list of labels you give is typical 'sorting of beads' and in my opinion stems from a degree of uncertainty and insecurity. However, in reality most people do not fit conveniently into the 'boxes' you have set out.

Accepting my female side has helped me to be a much more relaxed and free person. For me peoples' 'pluming' is not an overriding factor. It is how they are as a person which interests me. Which in the context of Fabswingers means that people whose profiles have very few details do not attract my attention.

Hope this helps.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"if making a tv/ts profile and your a "male from birth" but you are appearing/ representing yourself as a woman.

do you set your sexual orientation by your birth gender or the gender you feel you are.

if your male at birth but feel you are female then would the following be correct:

"gay" = you only like other women

"straight" = you only like men

"bi/curious" = both men and women

or do you set it according to your birth gender so then this would then be correct:

"gay" = you only like other men

"straight" = you only like women

"bi/curious" = both men and women

any help on this would be great."

My head hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You call yourself 'Akashic Crystaline Dreams' So I am assuming you comprehend the terms used and therefore there are a few things you can do.

Do a meditation and access the Akashic records and check out your past lives as both a male and a female or betwixt and between and see what insights you get.

Put a crystal under your pillow and see if you can 'dream' the answer to your questions. I am sure your guides will help. I do not know the right crystals to help dreams but I know people who do.

What !!!!

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By *r Tony.Man
over a year ago

Warrington B'ham London Lowestoft

WTF!!!

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