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"Personally if I were meeting as a single woman I wouldn't meet a man at his home or in a hotel. I'd choose a club where we could go to a private room but still have people around. " Or do a social in a public place first | |||
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"Hi, hubby and I are trying out the new hotwife lifestyle. Opportunities have recently come up where I can meet a man alone at their home. I just wondered what measures people are taking when meeting alone to ensure safety. I just want to try and avoid meeting Dexter and walking into a serial killers home!" I meet ladies alone. Assuming they dont want to meet my mrs to verify my legitimacy, I'll meet in a public place for a social and follow their rules. I would assume my veris speak for me as well but only the lady can decide how shes comfy proceeding. | |||
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" Or do a social in a public place first " this is what we always do for any sex, apart from the safety side, it give you all time to know each other, after all people are different in the flesh,gives all parties a way to back out if needed | |||
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"Hi, hubby and I are trying out the new hotwife lifestyle. Opportunities have recently come up where I can meet a man alone at their home. I just wondered what measures people are taking when meeting alone to ensure safety. I just want to try and avoid meeting Dexter and walking into a serial killers home!" I think OP you have the opportunity and wanted to grab, however with caveat of safety. 1. Ask him to meet in public place your hubby takes pic with him. 2. Drops you at his home wait outside/pub and picks you post business 3. Set code to send signals to your hubby 4. Take hubby with you and let him wait in living room untill your meeting is over. | |||
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"Hi, hubby and I are trying out the new hotwife lifestyle. Opportunities have recently come up where I can meet a man alone at their home. I just wondered what measures people are taking when meeting alone to ensure safety. I just want to try and avoid meeting Dexter and walking into a serial killers home! I think OP you have the opportunity and wanted to grab, however with caveat of safety. 1. Ask him to meet in public place your hubby takes pic with him. 2. Drops you at his home wait outside/pub and picks you post business 3. Set code to send signals to your hubby 4. Take hubby with you and let him wait in living room untill your meeting is over. " This is all good advice. Make sure your hubby knows the name and address (and ideally phone number) of the guy too, and agree to check in with him that you’re OK. Maybe even agree a finishing time and tell hubby if you’ve not called within 10-15 mins of it to say you’re done then he should come and get you. Make sure your phone is charged and you have a portable charging pack just in case. | |||
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"Personally if I were meeting as a single woman I wouldn't meet a man at his home or in a hotel. I'd choose a club where we could go to a private room but still have people around. " 100% this. | |||
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"It’s all about communication OP, over a decent length of time too. You may want to develop that on a 3 way WhatsApp or kik chat , do a phone call or maybe a coffee. Speak to there verifications, I’m always happy for people to speak to mine. Get to know someone properly before you do the meet. I don’t think you will have any issues then " Definitely go with this | |||
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"If I am meeting someone alone in my home I insist on them having someone to call when they arrive and again when they leave. I also supply my phone number. I also do the same I have a friend who I can call. This is for my safety as much as theirs. Personally I prefer to meet both partners at a pub so we both know and understand boundaries and establish trust" Great idea! | |||
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"Personally if I were meeting as a single woman I wouldn't meet a man at his home or in a hotel. I'd choose a club where we could go to a private room but still have people around. " this for me...so can't really help the OP | |||
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"Take a picture of his reg plate and send it to someone you trust.. This is something I always do. " Tbh if your having to do things like this then you haven’t got to know the guy well enough before embarking on a meeting | |||
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"Take a picture of his reg plate and send it to someone you trust.. This is something I always do. Tbh if your having to do things like this then you haven’t got to know the guy well enough before embarking on a meeting " After all the years of being on the Internet meeting scene.. I've come to know... No matter how much you speak with someone... Sometimes these 'nice' guys, can turn out to be not so nice. | |||
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"Personally if I were meeting as a single woman I wouldn't meet a man at his home or in a hotel. I'd choose a club where we could go to a private room but still have people around. Or do a social in a public place first " Could still be a serial killer when they get behind closed doors | |||
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"Take a picture of his reg plate and send it to someone you trust.. This is something I always do. Tbh if your having to do things like this then you haven’t got to know the guy well enough before embarking on a meeting After all the years of being on the Internet meeting scene.. I've come to know... No matter how much you speak with someone... Sometimes these 'nice' guys, can turn out to be not so nice. " You know I can relate to that tbh. I’ve had an encounter this year with a complete psycho. So maybe I’m not seeing this properly from a woman’s perspective | |||
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"Take a picture of his reg plate and send it to someone you trust.. This is something I always do. Tbh if your having to do things like this then you haven’t got to know the guy well enough before embarking on a meeting After all the years of being on the Internet meeting scene.. I've come to know... No matter how much you speak with someone... Sometimes these 'nice' guys, can turn out to be not so nice. You know I can relate to that tbh. I’ve had an encounter this year with a complete psycho. So maybe I’m not seeing this properly from a woman’s perspective " If a guy gets funny with me doing something like that, then I'll walk away.. My safety is paramount. | |||
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"Full riot gear and a baton with spikes on just in case they get a bit lairy " If nothing goes wrong, it can be used in BSDM | |||
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