FabSwingers.com forum: Worth the risk

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So im quite new to the seen. Getting the odd meet now and then happy not wanting to sleep with the full site just enjoy my time here. I have a bit of a list of things i want to try on my profile 1 of witch is dogging. So i have a couple that have shared messages with to organise one. I have sent a face pic and im verified. They have sent me some pics of the F no face pics been on the site for 12 months no verifications and no green tick. They send me directions and screen shots of google maps to show me where it is they want to meet. I have checked the messages today and the screen shots have gone. Its basically in the middle of no where 40mins drive away. I have been during the day to find the place and its well secluded no one would know you where there but then i get the thoughts. They have been on the site over a year no verifications no green tick no face pics no phone number nothing. Basically do you think i give this a miss or do i go and see if its genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Load of shit. Wouldn’t bother myself. Did you say you’d driven there in the day? I don’t drive 40 mins for anyone on this site. Had way too many times people have messed me about, and just can’t be bothered anymore.

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

The likelihood of them turning up is very small unless you can talk to them on the phone or something beforehand they probably just get their kicks from the lead on

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By *lancmangecplCouple
over a year ago

farnborough

I’d be wanting a social first. Gives you an idea of whether there’s an attraction and to confirm they’re serious about going ahead with another meet. Either that or meeting for a social and heading off together from there for your dogging fun if they want same day action

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd not go because it sounds like too high a chance that it won't be successful. I'd certainly want to speak with them before confirming the details, partly to ensure it's both of them to be at the meet and also that you're compatible, to a greater extent than text comms can do.

I'd probably meet them closer first, in an exposed place.

first too.

It's a long distance journey, so beware of wasting fuel.

Ensure it's not just them who call the shots.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I think you know the answer to this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you have to even ask, no no no, middle of nowhere with god knows who

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By *ad_Bod_ToddMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"The fact you have to even ask, no no no, middle of nowhere with god knows who

@Elle69xx has this nailed. You're doubting yourself. Trust your instincts. This is why socials exist.

Also the lack of information and veris would make me think twice.

Personally I've driven over an hour to meet a lady for a social only. We had messaged a lot and exchanged several face photos beforehand which gave us BOTH the confidence that it was going to be worth it and that the other one was going to turn up.

Social first, in a public place, always!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys mind made up. Will hive that one a miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid. Block.

I know it could be totally harmless and you might all end up having a great time, but lack of site commitment and zero verifications gets a big red flag.

I've met with several ladies and couples in the past that didn't show face pics, or any pics at all in one case (which turned out to be a very good meet), also thier messages seemed sketchy (poor grammar and no detail), but they were always site supporters and had decent well written verifications. That's all that matters imo.

If it's too good to be true don't do it. Worst case scenario you turn up and get mugged, literally. Would be a long walk home.

If you do decide to do it, for the love of god have a chaperone system set up with a buddy whereby if you've made no contact by such a time that the police get involved. But do you really want to go to all that trouble? I think you can do better.

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By *hire ManMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

I’d be very weary of any couples or females that have been on for over a year with no verifications. Especially ones that say they want to meet single guys.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I’d be very weary of any couples or females that have been on for over a year with no verifications. Especially ones that say they want to meet single guys. "

Really?

We're still dealing with a pandemic and some are still not sure about meeting.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Safety first, always. If something feels off always go with your gut instinct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person who claims to want sex with you cannot even talk on a cell phone beforehand to arrange meeting just block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not met in a year sounds fake. Sadly there are plenty here

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

its just another time waster messing about to get a few kicks and laughs,,, for me everyone should be photo verified before they are allowed to use the site,,,

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