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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it wise to say you have a nice personality on your profile or message or would that come across as big headed ? women i meet say i have got a nice personality but would it be better to show it through messages rather than just say it or both ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see anything wrong with putting it on profile

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Is it wise to say you have a nice personality on your profile or message or would that come across as big headed ? women i meet say i have got a nice personality but would it be better to show it through messages rather than just say it or both ? "

If you have to put it on your profile, say something like "people seems to like my personality - but that is for you to judge"... Blowing your trumpet but being self deprecating in the same sentence.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont see anything wrong with putting it on profile "
thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it wise to say you have a nice personality on your profile or message or would that come across as big headed ? women i meet say i have got a nice personality but would it be better to show it through messages rather than just say it or both ?

If you have to put it on your profile, say something like "people seems to like my personality - but that is for you to judge"... Blowing your trumpet but being self deprecating in the same sentence."
yeah good advice thanks

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"Is it wise to say you have a nice personality on your profile or message or would that come across as big headed ? women i meet say i have got a nice personality but would it be better to show it through messages rather than just say it or both ? "

I don't think its bigheaded - I think its boring.

Anyone can say they have a great personality, sense of humour, or whatever, so statements like that on your profile or in your messages just come across as bland and samey.

It's the people who are capable of actually DEMONSTRATING that they possess those qualities who really stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wise to say you have a nice personality on your profile or message or would that come across as big headed ? women i meet say i have got a nice personality but would it be better to show it through messages rather than just say it or both ? "

You can say it but it doesn't seem to actually mean very much...its too much of a meaningless blanket term...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a personality is hard to see via messages and here but i have saw it through words before now and made me want to meet them!

big headed not at all but people see differently and not all black and white

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it this way - would you rather read that someone thinks they have a good personality - or that they're a self confessed grumpy twunt?

Veri's will often give you an indication if others agree!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

say it with confidence, not arrogance.

good luck

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