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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi all, i thought i had a pretty good profile, i'm verified and i have pics on my profile but i'm really struggling to get a meet. Am ideas what i'm doing wrong and how i can change this? Any advice will be greatly appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need more pics of your cock for starters.

As a single bloke, you need at least 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest reading the dozens of other threads asking the same question and take the advice that people have given them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need more pics of your cock for starters.

As a single bloke, you need at least 10 "

Bussy your friendly helpful advisor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wave and jump up and down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try writing post subjects that make sense so you don't look like an idiot.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am surprised you're not getting more interest from men. Most the single men on here complain that they get too much interest!

Also, you can't accommodate. That doesn't help really.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You could try writing post subjects that make sense so you don't look like an idiot."

Bad day so far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could try writing post subjects that make sense so you don't look like an idiot."

That's a bit mean, especially as it looks like a phone typo/autocorrect error. Anyone who posts from a phone makes those occasionally.

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"Most the single men on here complain that they get too much interest!

"

nope not at all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

was hoping to be made to feel a bit more welcome than that if i'm honest.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Most the single men on here complain that they get too much interest!

nope not at all! "

From men, not from women.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

For me, you are looking for men, women, couples etc, yet your profile concentrates too much on your relationship with men, why you like them, how you came to find this out etc. This comes across as that being what you are looking for.

Take another look at it. What you can offer couples, women etc. It tells me little about yourself, just that you enjoy cock. Great, but I don't own one of those!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most the single men on here complain that they get too much interest!

nope not at all!

From men, not from women."

PMSL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"was hoping to be made to feel a bit more welcome than that if i'm honest."

This question is asked by someone daily, usually, and often several times per day. It's difficult to reply seriously every time. The advice is nearly always the same.

There's no need for blatant rudeness, of course, but you could help yourself a bit by using the forum search as suggested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi all, i thought i had a pretty good profile, i'm verified and i have pics on my profile but i'm really struggling to get a meet. Am ideas what i'm doing wrong and how i can change this? Any advice will be greatly appreciated."

You could put a profile on fabguys as well if you are looking to explore your bi side. There's a lot of bi guys on this site, many more than may publicly admit it lol if you're patient and discreet I should imagine you will do just fine on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the genuine advice. Being new to this site i thought the best way to find out would to be ask. So thanks for those that have given some genuine advice i shall take note and look at adding to my profile if i decide to stay. Thanks again. Hope you all enjoy the site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a member for a whole 2 weeks and no meets... I'd make an official complaint straight away...

Honestly, just because it's a sex site dose not mean all you need is a cock and you're going to be shagged to death by sex starved women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally dead for us on here lately as well..no idea why!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been on here for two weeks - give it a chance its not an escort site!! Also check the other threads on this topic.

Though I am surprised you have not had some bi guys/TVS contacting you. I had to put a block on single blokes cos all the offers from them wanting to suck my cock or wanting me to stick it in their bum! Even though my profile says I am straight.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You have only been on here for two weeks - give it a chance its not an escort site!! Also check the other threads on this topic.

Though I am surprised you have not had some bi guys/TVS contacting you. I had to put a block on single blokes cos all the offers from them wanting to suck my cock or wanting me to stick it in their bum! Even though my profile says I am straight. "

Perhaps he should say he's straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"was hoping to be made to feel a bit more welcome than that if i'm honest."

Hi greedy cock hunter, no you can't have mine, but welcome to Fab!

Be patient be polite don't be pushy! it will come/cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need more pics of your cock for starters.

As a single bloke, you need at least 10 "

Tease

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"You could try writing post subjects that make sense so you don't look like an idiot."

Helpful as usual

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Bet you get alot of guy attention tho ..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have only been on here for two weeks - give it a chance its not an escort site!! Also check the other threads on this topic.

Though I am surprised you have not had some bi guys/TVS contacting you. I had to put a block on single blokes cos all the offers from them wanting to suck my cock or wanting me to stick it in their bum! Even though my profile says I am straight.

Perhaps he should say he's straight. "

LOL - true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"was hoping to be made to feel a bit more welcome than that if i'm honest."

Sorry but thats a bit like pissing in the wind Im afraid.

There are loads of single men and the ladies have their pick. If I knew the secret I wouldnt share it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"was hoping to be made to feel a bit more welcome than that if i'm honest.

Sorry but thats a bit like pissing in the wind Im afraid.

There are loads of single men and the ladies have their pick. If I knew the secret I wouldnt share it...."

It's not really a secret though, is it... I mean, anyone with the nous for it will work it out pretty quickly.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"was hoping to be made to feel a bit more welcome than that if i'm honest.

Sorry but thats a bit like pissing in the wind Im afraid.

There are loads of single men and the ladies have their pick. If I knew the secret I wouldnt share it....

It's not really a secret though, is it... I mean, anyone with the nous for it will work it out pretty quickly.

Wolf"
I dunno wolf. For about a year I was doing well and it seemed like every mail i sent got me a meet, then it all went to pot. I dont think I changed anything, but who can tell..,

Certainly, the scene in the north west is nothing like the scene in bristol and even the most otherwise reliable people seem to have no problem messing me about....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wave and jump up and down? "

I've been doing that knackered now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You leave the site

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"You leave the site "

Yep, that works every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You leave the site "

Damn, if i'd of known that was all you had to do, I'd of done it ages ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You leave the site

Damn, if i'd of known that was all you had to do, I'd of done it ages ago! "

Don't forget to reinvent yourself

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"You leave the site

Damn, if i'd of known that was all you had to do, I'd of done it ages ago!

Don't forget to reinvent yourself "

Too late he took you at your word and has gone!

Still one down another 19,999 to go ...... then maybe I'm in with a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try deleting your account and coming back as a female!!

Oops, too late!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was gonna say - wreck the forum posting by accident ............. it appeared to work for me lol

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