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By *ustfortheforums OP Woman
over a year ago

Last question, would you ignore someone’s request, like if they said don’t send me a friend request till we have met, would you ignore that request

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I don't really understand the question

Are you asking would I ignore someone if they didn't read and comply with my profile requests?

If yes then yes most likely I would ignore them, I find it a good way of filtering people out, to lazy to read a profile they'll likely be a lazy fuck too therefore not worth wasting my time on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I wouldn't. But then I only accept people I know onto my friends list. Otherwise what's the point of friends only section

So I wouldn't expect them to accept a random request either.

There's no limit to questions.

Every day is a learning day and that spawns questions

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

We only accept people that we’ve been chatting to and are likely to meet!

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By *ustfortheforums OP Woman
over a year ago

"We only accept people that we’ve been chatting to and are likely to meet!"

(Because you are in the same location as me that’s why I’m replying)

Say for example you haven’t met the person yet would you send them a friend request

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I never send a request never have but once we have got to the point of getting to know each other it's always been them and I've appreciated the kind gesture as many are aware it's about feeling comfortable and it's lovely when the lady is...

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

If you send a friend request when they’ve already said not to, you risk being blocked. Why would you disrespect them?

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By *ustfortheforums OP Woman
over a year ago

"If you send a friend request when they’ve already said not to, you risk being blocked. Why would you disrespect them? "

I don’t know ask them

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If somebody sends us a friends request and we are interested they will get a message back saying we will only accept the request if we meet first. We then leave it up to them to make the next move.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"If you send a friend request when they’ve already said not to, you risk being blocked. Why would you disrespect them?

I don’t know ask them"

Firstly you are a woman and would only accept or send when you feel comfortable but if a person has said not to send one then that would be a answer not to

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By *ustfortheforums OP Woman
over a year ago

"If somebody sends us a friends request and we are interested they will get a message back saying we will only accept the request if we meet first. We then leave it up to them to make the next move."

That was my plan but some people can’t read. Unless I write something they don’t like then I’m shat on so I can’t win ether way

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Last question, would you ignore someone’s request, like if they said don’t send me a friend request till we have met, would you ignore that request "

But your question isn't clearly put example if you or they sent so how is anyone suppose to answer or give you the answer you need

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By *ustfortheforums OP Woman
over a year ago

"Last question, would you ignore someone’s request, like if they said don’t send me a friend request till we have met, would you ignore that request "

Basically, my question is this, let’s say on your profile (you) have put “please don’t send me a friend request till (i ) (you) have met me.

And they still send one (friend request) what are your thoughts??

I don’t know how to word it so it makes sense

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Last question, would you ignore someone’s request, like if they said don’t send me a friend request till we have met, would you ignore that request

Basically, my question is this, let’s say on your profile (you) have put “please don’t send me a friend request till (i ) (you) have met me.

And they still send one (friend request) what are your thoughts??

I don’t know how to word it so it makes sense "

Automatic block

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

As it's like being pushy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd block

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I would completely ignore their friend request & quite probably block them. If they can't be bothered to read my profile profile, or they read it but cannot respect what it says, then they don't deserve my time or attention.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I wouldn't stress over it. If they have failed to read your profile and you aren't happy about it just block and move on.

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

Green arrow

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

"We only accept people that we’ve been chatting to and are likely to meet!

(Because you are in the same location as me that’s why I’m replying)

Say for example you haven’t met the person yet would you send them a friend request "

Only if we’d chatted and asked beforehand.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No. It would be counterproductive and likely to negatively impact on the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last question, would you ignore someone’s request, like if they said don’t send me a friend request till we have met, would you ignore that request

Basically, my question is this, let’s say on your profile (you) have put “please don’t send me a friend request till (i ) (you) have met me.

And they still send one (friend request) what are your thoughts??

I don’t know how to word it so it makes sense "

I used to have "don't send me friends requests" on my profile. Any friends requests I got/get just get deleted. I don't do random friends.

So...if you have received an unwanted friend's request you have 3 main choices.

1) delete and block profile if member doesn't interest you

2) simply delete the request

3) leave the request in the friends requests, so they can't send another one.

You need to get quite ruthless on here. It's your profile, your rules..if others don't like that then it's their problem not yours.

On a footnote .. you are free to ask however many questions you want to on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would completely ignore their friend request & quite probably block them. If they can't be bothered to read my profile profile, or they read it but cannot respect what it says, then they don't deserve my time or attention. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last question, would you ignore someone’s request, like if they said don’t send me a friend request till we have met, would you ignore that request "

No I wouldn't ignore their request.

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

If they have said they won't accept till after they have met thats there choice and we would respect that, if you are getting on well in chat then maybe ask them if you can send them a request as opposed to just requesting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just respect what others have on profile and hope others respect yours

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Last question, would you ignore someone’s request, like if they said don’t send me a friend request till we have met, would you ignore that request

Basically, my question is this, let’s say on your profile (you) have put “please don’t send me a friend request till (i ) (you) have met me.

And they still send one (friend request) what are your thoughts??

I don’t know how to word it so it makes sense "

Does your profile say not to send a friends request?

And if they do, why can't you just simply ignore it?

Or even better, get a sneak peak at their private pics when they are offline then defriend them

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