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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey, looking for a little bit of help. I barely get any replies and I’ve tried all sorts of conversation starters. Is my profile off putting or am I doing something wrong? I always send a face pic when I message. Any pointers would be appreciated!

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Hey, looking for a little bit of help. I barely get any replies and I’ve tried all sorts of conversation starters. Is my profile off putting or am I doing something wrong? I always send a face pic when I message. Any pointers would be appreciated!

Your profile isn't the worse seen, but it isn't above average from what we have seen of the other single guy profiles on here.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Your profile and pictures don't make me want to engage.

I want to know what you're looking for and most importantly what you can offer me. Along with some pictures show you in a good light.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You haven't even got a profile picture so shy would anyone respond???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have private photos and like I said, I send a face pic with every message

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"I have private photos and like I said, I send a face pic with every message

Why not just use one of your public pictures?

The first thing people look at when browsing is your profile pic so I don't think the default picture is going to catch anyone's eye.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Single men always struggle to get established here and have to invest tons of effort to do this.

If your profile reflects you you are always respectful and target your contact to those who appear to be watching someone like you, it rests with you exploring the fine tuning of your approach.

I'd review the advice given to others on how to get a profile used to greatest effect. Likewise, the types of photos people expect.

If I'm going to have a guy naked with me, I want to know how he looks, as fully as possible. Great, clear photos are ideal, that would allow others to understand how much they find that prospect attractive. Physique shots, not using colour effects that make it harder to grasp your appeal, all help.

If in doubt, they move on to the next person who may give them what they need.in order to decide if you're right for them.

Using clubs is a good way to get to know others toom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have private photos and like I said, I send a face pic with every message

Doesn't really matter as in the sea of messages most women get, you won't stand out in their inbox being just a silhouette.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I can’t find anything in your profile to ask you a question about to get a conversation going.

Also, the blurb about not wanting a relationship is putting me off - even when I am looking for hookups, I want a bit of commitment, like turning up on time.

Q? What about trying a club some time?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Also you may want to get rid of that self proclaimed "professional" nonsense.

Being a swinger isn't a profession.

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Your a bloke mate .....lots of women and couples on here are timewasters . Go ta a club mate . Expensive but fun to be had. I've given up with this lot .!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I wouldn't say sending your picture with a message would do much as it's about the actual message then if they requested one needs to be some kind of connection chemistry,attraction is something else which is also important your profile seems ok but like others have said professional means not much because unless it's sexually like a porn star and up their at the top in the swinging scene a career as a professional is just that some may like this some may like to learn this themselves should their be a social if discussed.

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By *ola81Woman
over a year ago

pond

Find fab parties for newbies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You bio sounds negative so that would mean a no plus no pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably not in the best place to give advice mate as I'm in similar position to you. I wouldn't always believe everything you're advised in the forums as well!

1) Some guys have no bio but loads of dick pics and get loads of meets.

2) Some people have no bio and no pics of any sort but again seem to get meets (I can only assume they send a pic with private message and look like Brad Pitt/Rach Riley etc or have a huge wanger

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3) Some people act like complete knobs on Fab yet still have multiple veris.

I think what I'm trying to say is I have no feckin clue why people struggle on here as I've read lots of advice but lots of "successful" profiles seem to go against that!

I might try a club myself (after a dabble in the cam rooms) but in all honesty I'm not a swinger, merely looking for a local FWB so not sure a club is the best place for me.

I've given up trying to work the site out. If it works then happy days, if not then I ain't gonna take it personally as I know I'm a decent fella so won't beat myself up about it.

Oh and I think the other word to mention is "ratios"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS. I don't think your bio is negative at all (unless you've changed it since the comment above!

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"PS. I don't think your bio is negative at all (unless you've changed it since the comment above!

Yes, it has changed

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Also you may want to get rid of that self proclaimed "professional" nonsense.

Being a swinger isn't a profession."

We see a lot of this.

Some people think being 'professional' makes them somehow more appealing.

What a lot of bombastic pretentious bollocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn’t got that far but ok.

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

I'm a professional ....professional pussy eater !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a professional ....professional pussy eater !"

And they say it’s us younger ones that are immature

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"I'm a professional ....professional pussy eater !

And they say it’s us younger ones that are immature

You have a very valid point there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with the increase of men on here daily it will onlu get harder for all for men because there will be so many of you and for couples and women with the ever expanding mail box

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