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By *ornycock4pussy OP Man
over a year ago

Hartlepool

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By *ornycock4pussy OP Man
over a year ago

Hartlepool

How do I get girls/women to reply to me?

I'm trying different ways to get a response but I'm not getting any.

I'm trying hi how are you as a start like you would normally but nothing.

Is there a way that a first message can catch their eye and they respond to you.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well op

You have no pictures, women just like anyone else like to know who might be messaging, plus whilst hi, how are you,is small talk.try reading their bio and adding something interesting into the message.a reply from anyone is a bonus so try making your message interesting not just few words use your imagination

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You have no profile picture, that alone will deter a lot of women.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You could try attaching a photo to your message but there isn't a guaranteed way of getting women to reply to you I'm afraid.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You've got no pictures.....you shouldn't need anyone to tell you that.

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

It's been said quite often in the forums before that you need to make your profile stand out. Pictures are a key part of that, its one of if not the first things people tend to look at on a profile. Some people get a lot of messages and something needs to catch there eye or it will just get deleted.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"How do I get girls/women to reply to me?

I'm trying different ways to get a response but I'm not getting any.

I'm trying hi how are you as a start like you would normally but nothing.

Is there a way that a first message can catch their eye and they respond to you."

No profile picture is generally a straight delete from us. Also...think about how many messages you receive, compared to how many a couple or single woman receive? Asking "hi, how are you?" might seem polite, but imagine receiving sixty of those every day, and having to spend two minutes actually answering them. That's two hours, just on banality.

Read their profiles, find some common ground and ask/tell about something actually interesting.

But again....no pictures and you're message probably isn't going to get read even if it's the best message since Fab started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people here, once they've received a message they go check out the profile attached before opening the message.

Once they've viewed the profile, often decisions are already made.

Use your profile to sell yourself.

Express what you seek, what you can bring to the table.

Sell yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t open a message that just said hi, how are you, but you also have no pictures, and very little bio. There’s nothing for women to see/go on?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Like most have said, lack of pics will put people off I'm afraid, most of us check a profile before deciding if we will reply or not.

You need to try and stand out here and sell yourself.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If people aren't interested in you, they communicate this by keeping your inbox empier.

Ultimately, the 'you' that you sell to others is going to be more or less attractive to them, depending on how you do this, as well as what they are needing and expecting from others.

A common tactic is to read forum posts that have tips on how to do things better, including profile and meeting people tips, also including visiting clubs.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

There is nothing of any interest on your profile. No pictures and your messages sound very boring. You need to stand out from other similar profiles

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