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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With soo many men messaging women constantly, what stands out to you or what would you like to hear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone whose face I like and who doesn't come across as a prick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok noted lol (hopefully not aimed at me lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it clear you've read a profile.

There's a link to a comprehensive post I made about first messages at the bottom of my bio.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could you send me that link?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/1049695#last

Basically just don't be a creep

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just read it, its a very good read and makes alot of sense. I do believe Fab could help itself by having another way to chat to people you find interesting but then again it's been soo long I guess they are stuck like this

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

Initial message.

Make sure its obviously cut and paste.

Fancy a f**k seems to work quite well..

If all else fails offer some money.

Judging by the messages we get that happens a lot !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something witty

Something that shows you’ve read their profile including requests for face pics etc

And nothing creepy as previously stated

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

A well written message that shows you've read my profile and haven't just copied and pasted the same message to 30 other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be you and send recent face pic xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't talk in text speak. Use proper sentences and show you've read my profile.

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