FabSwingers.com forum: Does this have to be physically sexual for all parties

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appreciate that this may be a weird question to ask and some may think I should not be here.

I come from a kink background and initially came here to explore some things sexually. However bdsm and my exploration on here are rarely sexual for me. I enjoy pleasing and giving others sexual pleasure but rarely get physical sexual pleasure myself. This could be down to concentrating on pleasing others or not knowing what pleases me.

Reading erotica can but doing it may not and yes I know there is a difference between fantasy and reality.

Maybe the act of pleasing kicks in my sub side and that's enough pleasure for me.

By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

There's lots of kinky folk on here, and for some scenarios it's not always about sex. But it's all still about pleasure.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's lots of kinky folk on here, and for some scenarios it's not always about sex. But it's all still about pleasure."

Couldn't agree more