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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it" Don't go to personal that could end in disaster. | |||
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it Don't go to personal that could end in disaster." It’s alre ended in disaster, I just don’t care anymore | |||
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it Don't go to personal that could end in disaster. It’s alre ended in disaster, I just don’t care anymore " Entirely upto you then just be careful x | |||
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"deep breath and start again x " That’s what I’m going to do, but at the same time I’m going to let everyone take the piss out of me because that’s what everyone on here is good at | |||
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"deep breath and start again x That’s what I’m going to do, but at the same time I’m going to let everyone take the piss out of me because that’s what everyone on here is good at" It's a skill  | |||
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"Hope you are ok OP. Please be careful what personal details you put on your profile. As someone else said, take a day or even two away and think about things. Take care and stay safe x" Honestly all I’m going to post is my Snapchat, and kik and my number, because that’s what everyone asks me for. So now everyone has all my details and can take the piss, I’m not trying to sound like a dick but when I text or message them BECAUSE that person has given me their kik (didn’t ask for it) they don’t reply BUT they say they don’t check fab and that it’s easier to use kik. Honestly I’m just sick of this whole website. All I know is that when I go to route 69 and Swindon swingers, I want no one talking to me saying how “sexy” I am and how they would love to fuck me. When they are literally on a website that allows it. But no people still want more. I’m done I’m over it. If anyone asks for anything I’m giving it them, BUT I’m going to act like a cunt. Because that’s how people treat me. Sorry not sorry for rambling and going off. I’ve had enough I made a whole new account just so I could have a fresh start. But no still treated like a mug. So might as well act like one | |||
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"Never make hasty decisions that can have maybe cause further problems.the site advise not to add personal information just like many others do, keep your chin up are some very lovely people on here to." Well I’ve already had about 20 to 30 blokes call me, I’ve had couples not message me AFTER asking if I had Snapchat and kik and WhatsApp. When I say no I don’t have those things they then act different or then say we don’t meet women who we can’t talk to on kik, but when I message them on kik, where are they No where because they were chatting out their asses | |||
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"Personally, the amount of similar posts you have started, since joining... I don't think Fab is for you, love" What do you mean by similar?? Honestly fab isn’t for me when certain people can’t even read, it’s not just the “men” you can’t read it’s the couples as well. The ones who have exactly the same bio as me when it comes their privacy. But then do the exact opposite. Honestly I’m not mad just getting slightly pissed because of the amount of bullshit, Just to add as well I haven’t been asking to meet anyone I haven’t messaged anyone. But I still get the same result | |||
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"Never make hasty decisions that can have maybe cause further problems.the site advise not to add personal information just like many others do, keep your chin up are some very lovely people on here to. Well I’ve already had about 20 to 30 blokes call me, I’ve had couples not message me AFTER asking if I had Snapchat and kik and WhatsApp. When I say no I don’t have those things they then act different or then say we don’t meet women who we can’t talk to on kik, but when I message them on kik, where are they No where because they were chatting out their asses" Never add your personal number because this is very important people can be traced via this,it isn't a wise decision, when people do add things like that it can also look like being desperate you always consider your own safety, just like the site advises I would suggest reading the FAQ at the bottom of your profile. Only share personal information with those who you are able to trust. | |||
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"Why are you giving all your details out?" Because that’s what majority of the people on fab want, so why not give it to them, I’m literally sick of being taken for a mug, and when I do the same thing I’m the bad guy I end up being shat on, so why not make it easier for everyone and just share everything about myself. EVEN THOUGH I TOLD PEOPLE NOT TO ADDME, a lot of people are calling me desperate , and that I need a break from fab. Why do you think I’m doing over time at work??? Just so I can leave the house and not deal with broken promises, people claiming I’m causing drama, people acting like they know it all. Honestly I’m not replying to anyone now bye guys it was great fun hope you all get whatever you want | |||
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"This way of life is about fun and meeting people, it's clearly causing you distress. We'd suggest coming away from this site, sadly you have to accept people will ignore what you've written, will want to meet purely for sex, and in all honesty probably have no interest in your emotional well being. The reality is there's hundreds of guys looking for a quick fumble, and couple wanting a 3rd to use in the bedroom. Obviously there's plenty of genuine lovely people but if the stress of dealing with the rotten ones is getting to you it's better to come away from this platform. " Well I have decided to just send my number to everyone who messaged me in the last few weeks, and then disappear from the site, The only time you lot will be seeing me is when I’m at route 69 and the other one that’s in Somerset, the honest truth is that I made a new account and didn’t even activate it for weeks till I was ready. Now I’m not going to sit here and say I understand all of what you are saying but what I am saying is that when I’m at clubs and whatever else I want those people to have the same energy as they have on fab, like I will give an example I’m going to ask everyone if they have kik if they don’t then I will just walk away. Honestly I’m not worked up at all because in all honesty I had loads of women message saying I want to me you I want to do this, even went as far as setting a date. What does that tell/show you?? I’m just saying I could of added everything people have said and done. Honestly I’m not even on fab much, I can count on my hand how many people have messaged me And how many I’ve messaged myself. And just so everyone knows it’s not the men on the site BECAUSE i have them BLOCKED!! | |||
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"As others have suggested, it sounds like taking a complete break from fab might be a good idea OP. " Honestly that’s what I’m doing, just going to work and get my money then go to different clubs and if that fails then I know it’s me and not others | |||
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it" As a single lady, you can do anything you want and you will still get as many meets as you like. Personally, I think we would all like to see some profile and a few pictures. | |||
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"Personally, the amount of similar posts you have started, since joining... I don't think Fab is for you, love" This  | |||
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"Maybe just add a profile pic instead." Profile advice from a pair of raccoons fucking doggy style……fab at its finest  | |||
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"I already know what I wanted but it seems fab people can’t help so now I’m just going to do my own thing off of fab." Good luck OP, hope you find what your looking for away from fab | |||
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"Personally, the amount of similar posts you have started, since joining... I don't think Fab is for you, love" Absolutely agree with you doesn’t seem the right place for the OP at all | |||
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"Personally, the amount of similar posts you have started, since joining... I don't think Fab is for you, love Absolutely agree with you doesn’t seem the right place for the OP at all " | |||
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"Personally, the amount of similar posts you have started, since joining... I don't think Fab is for you, love What do you mean by similar?? Honestly fab isn’t for me when certain people can’t even read, it’s not just the “men” you can’t read it’s the couples as well. The ones who have exactly the same bio as me when it comes their privacy. But then do the exact opposite. Honestly I’m not mad just getting slightly pissed because of the amount of bullshit, Just to add as well I haven’t been asking to meet anyone I haven’t messaged anyone. But I still get the same result " You said it just there, fab is not suitable for you. Maybe leave your profile hidden, take a few weeks away from it and try get a clear perspective on what it is you want. I would strongly advise against putting lerao Al details out there, you posted about a bad experience. I don't think you would want anymore. Put yourself and your mental health first. | |||
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"Personally, the amount of similar posts you have started, since joining... I don't think Fab is for you, love What do you mean by similar?? Honestly fab isn’t for me when certain people can’t even read, it’s not just the “men” you can’t read it’s the couples as well. The ones who have exactly the same bio as me when it comes their privacy. But then do the exact opposite. Honestly I’m not mad just getting slightly pissed because of the amount of bullshit, Just to add as well I haven’t been asking to meet anyone I haven’t messaged anyone. But I still get the same result You said it just there, fab is not suitable for you. Maybe leave your profile hidden, take a few weeks away from it and try get a clear perspective on what it is you want. I would strongly advise against putting lerao Al details out there, you posted about a bad experience. I don't think you would want anymore. Put yourself and your mental health first. " Personal* | |||
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"deep breath and start again x That’s what I’m going to do, but at the same time I’m going to let everyone take the piss out of me because that’s what everyone on here is good at" Sadly a majority are probably guilty as charged but there are loads of diamonds to be mined here ..  | |||
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it" No I think you should give yourself a break from it all for a bit! A bit of a detox.... I've never known a female have so much bad luck on here as much as you - and you've hand your profile hidden for ages!!! 90% of your posts are really pissed off about this place. So the most sensible thing to do, is take a break and enjoy the outside world! Here's hoping you do!  | |||
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it No I think you should give yourself a break from it all for a bit! A bit of a detox.... I've never known a female have so much bad luck on here as much as you - and you've hand your profile hidden for ages!!! 90% of your posts are really pissed off about this place. So the most sensible thing to do, is take a break and enjoy the outside world! Here's hoping you do! "Probably the best advice you will receive this year as she obviously has knowledge of your previous posts so be wise and take heed | |||
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"Personally, the amount of similar posts you have started, since joining... I don't think Fab is for you, love What do you mean by similar?? Honestly fab isn’t for me when certain people can’t even read, it’s not just the “men” you can’t read it’s the couples as well. The ones who have exactly the same bio as me when it comes their privacy. But then do the exact opposite. Honestly I’m not mad just getting slightly pissed because of the amount of bullshit, Just to add as well I haven’t been asking to meet anyone I haven’t messaged anyone. But I still get the same result " Hang in there x Your not alone with these issues honestly | |||
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"Hope you are ok OP. Please be careful what personal details you put on your profile. As someone else said, take a day or even two away and think about things. Take care and stay safe x Honestly all I’m going to post is my Snapchat, and kik and my number, because that’s what everyone asks me for. So now everyone has all my details and can take the piss, I’m not trying to sound like a dick but when I text or message them BECAUSE that person has given me their kik (didn’t ask for it) they don’t reply BUT they say they don’t check fab and that it’s easier to use kik. Honestly I’m just sick of this whole website. All I know is that when I go to route 69 and Swindon swingers, I want no one talking to me saying how “sexy” I am and how they would love to fuck me. When they are literally on a website that allows it. But no people still want more. I’m done I’m over it. If anyone asks for anything I’m giving it them, BUT I’m going to act like a cunt. Because that’s how people treat me. Sorry not sorry for rambling and going off. I’ve had enough I made a whole new account just so I could have a fresh start. But no still treated like a mug. So might as well act like one " Sorry to hear you feeling this way obviously unaware what tipped you over the edge as only your business. This place is clear as to what its about. Quite on here use kik sc etc for same thing really. Next bit is hopefully helpful and from a seasoned now whether you post your number on here or other platforms is recipe for further stress. Way I look at things like this is the children test. If say teenage daughter said mum or dad am going to use kik sc etc and put my number on it I would simply this is ideal for predators/groomers and insist and even check their accounts to ensure number not shown. Obviously you are not a child but adult. My advice is zero need to show number as to be blunt its asking for trouble further down the line. Definetly take time out from here till head is a bit clearer. Good luck. | |||
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it" And your address OP What could possibly go wrong 
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it And your address OP What could possibly go wrong
"Judging by her past experiences quite a bit could go wrong! | |||
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it" Why add details to a hidden profile? | |||
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it Why add details to a hidden profile?" It wasn't hidden when she posted this. She's since hidden it to take a break I believe. | |||
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"Your profile is hidden. Keep it that way, have 24h away then restart. Not everyone on here is an ars*hole and if people are laughing at you then they are small minded. Plenty will chat and offer advise. Stay safe x" Not everyone is, but a lot are judgmental c***s who judge the personality of someone they've never met or spoken to based on their status updates. Said in a not at all bitter tone.
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it And your address OP What could possibly go wrong
Judging by her past experiences quite a bit could go wrong!"I was been sarcastic
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"Your profile is hidden. Keep it that way, have 24h away then restart. Not everyone on here is an ars*hole and if people are laughing at you then they are small minded. Plenty will chat and offer advise. Stay safe x" hugs | |||
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"Should I just add my personal details to my profile and say fuck it And your address OP What could possibly go wrong
Judging by her past experiences quite a bit could go wrong!
I was been sarcastic
But you cleared it up !! "So was I! | |||
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