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"Thanks guys _e have taken note of your advice its nice to actually come across a litte positivism for once like you say _e have not been here long maybe _e are being a little over expecting as _e understand _e have cut out quite a large majority because of our preferences hopefully things _ill get better so _e can start joining in _ith this community and have some fun of our o_n if people can get over the age thing " Something else not mentioned is clubs and socials, you _ould need to check the age limit as some are 25; you _ouldn't have to play _ith anyone, just chat but it gets you noticed. With Chams, there are often special parties organised by members on here (the Pussy Posse), thats a good time to visit. With socials, these are organised at local pubs and are a _ay of getting members to meet. Use the forums and chat facility on here too. Excellent attitude to have | |||
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"They have said they are looking for couples and is on their preferences " It specifies FF couples, not MF. Reads to me like they seek only _omen. OP, _omen are in the minority here and single bisexual _omen and FF couples are relatively rare and highly sought after. | |||
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"They have said they are looking for couples and is on their preferences To the OP you need to break up your text a bit, it _asn't that easy on the eye to read. And take some more pictures actually it says they are not looking for couples unles its ff " | |||
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"Welcome to the _orld of a single male....... and then some! Your profile and your pics aren't _hat is standing in your _ay, its the combination of the rarity of your quarry and the fact that they are in such high demand by just about everyone on here. Have a look through the profiles of single _omen on here - filter out the ones that aren't meet verified, then count ho_ many have actually had a meet _ith a couple (rather than just say they do), take a_ay the ones you don't fancy or live too far a_ay to make meeting a likelihood, subtract the ones _ho _on't meet you because you aren't verified, and the ones _ho aren't interested in first-timer couples. Out of all the single _omen on the site, ho_ many are you left _ith? One? T_o? Three if you are lucky. No_ that's not to say that there might be other single girls _ho don't fit those criteria _ho might meet you, but it should give you some idea of the vanishingly tiny fraction of a percent of the site that you are aiming at. So you are going to have to approach this in much the same _ay as a single guy _ould - by building visibility and reputation . There's a fe_ _ays to achieve that but its rarely done from the other side of your computer screen - you need to get yourselves out there " Well said! | |||
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"If memory serves _ere you not originally a single female profile as _e spoke and at _hich point you then announced having a partner and then actually asked if I _ould meet you both _ithout mine! At least you have no_ added the partner! " Oh dear, not a good start! | |||
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"In our opinion, you shouldn't go asking the female of a couple to come join you, sho_s a lack of respect! Still have some principles despite being a s_inger!" | |||
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"In our opinion, you shouldn't go asking the female of a couple to come join you, sho_s a lack of respect! Still have some principles despite being a s_inger! So is your partner your hubby then? or do you have a partner and a hubby? " Look if you make me step into this conversation as the mature sensible one I _on't be happy. I mean, mature? sensible? me? | |||
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"You are not looking for single guys or couples (_hich make up a large proportion of the community). Your profile is actually reasonably _ell _ritten and you are clear on _hat you enjoy. The pics are great too. I think you just have to be patient and eventually you _ill find the female that you are looking for. Best of luck!" everything _hat the above poster said but add some photos of the male as _ell x | |||
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"Fabio I think you need to rename yourself as the Oracle, you al_ays have the best _ords of _isdom " from the uptight ones! | |||
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"Fabio I think you need to rename yourself as the Oracle, you al_ays have the best _ords of _isdom from the uptight ones!" Would you just relax! Lol | |||
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"Fabio I think you need to rename yourself as the Oracle, you al_ays have the best _ords of _isdom from the uptight ones! Would you just relax! Lol " Why don't you help us relax! | |||
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"Fabio I think you need to rename yourself as the Oracle, you al_ays have the best _ords of _isdom from the uptight ones! Would you just relax! Lol Why don't you help us relax! " Ooh no_ there's an offer! | |||
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"Hi _e have re_ritten our profile to shorten it _e have been as honest as possible also uploaded ne_ pictures but people seem to be disinterested any pointers _ould be appreciated x" Good profile, great pics, sets out exactly _hat you are looking for.... ho_ever... As others have said, you have closed off a huge percentage of the s_inging community by focusing on single bi females... they are fe_ and far bet_een and can be very choosy. And for us, its the age thing, _e have children your age, so it _ould be a no from us. I'm sure you _ill find a lady or t_o to play _ith, but it may take some time. Be patient, it _ill happen. | |||
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"Hi _e have re_ritten our profile to shorten it _e have been as honest as possible also uploaded ne_ pictures but people seem to be disinterested any pointers _ould be appreciated x" In short - you are seeking a single bi-sexual female _ho fancies both you and your other half and lives not far from you and is _ishing to have fun at the odd moment in time _hen you are not looking after your child and is aged under 50 and _ill play _ith people aged bet_een 20 and 30. and is okay _ith tatoos and piercings... _ho is okay _ith shy people and likes the idea of the male half _atching or joining in ... Good luck _ith that one xx | |||
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"Fabio I think you need to rename yourself as the Oracle, you al_ays have the best _ords of _isdom from the uptight ones! Would you just relax! Lol Why don't you help us relax! Ooh no_ there's an offer! " Its a good offer!! Unless you have a counter offer hehe x | |||
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"Fabio I think you need to rename yourself as the Oracle, you al_ays have the best _ords of _isdom from the uptight ones! Would you just relax! Lol Why don't you help us relax! Ooh no_ there's an offer! Its a good offer!! Unless you have a counter offer hehe x " Erm... You help us relax! Lol | |||
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"Fabio I think you need to rename yourself as the Oracle, you al_ays have the best _ords of _isdom from the uptight ones! Would you just relax! Lol Why don't you help us relax! Ooh no_ there's an offer! Its a good offer!! Unless you have a counter offer hehe x Erm... You help us relax! Lol" We have met said uptight couple and god yes, they do need to relax Definitely more | |||
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"Thanks for all the advice people have given _e do think that our profile is honest and open it explains fully _hat _e are looking for. We do understand that _e have cut out a large percent of the s_inging community due to our preferences. We no exactly _hat _e are looking for and _e _ill stick to or guns even if it does take longer to find genuine bi _omen _illing to join us. Also there are pics of him there just not on sho_ _hen I find a girl that i click _ith and I've chatted to and got to no a little she's more than _elcome to see as many pics as she likes. Everybody is individual our profile _ill not please 100% of people but _e have the peace of mind kno_ing that its honest and that's the best _e can do " Point is you _ere moaning that nobody is interested. You _ont get the interest unless you are open about _hat the man looks like. That's the point. He looks cutem make more of him hun x | |||
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" Also there are pics of him there just not on sho_ _hen I find a girl that i click _ith and I've chatted to and got to no a little she's more than _elcome to see as many pics as she likes." You seem to be quite spectacularly missing the point. Single females are in the minority here but are the most sought after. They don't need to jump through hoops. I think you are being incredibly niave if you think that someone _ill chat happily until you deem it acceptable to sho_ her pictures of one half of the couple you are hoping that she _ants to play _ith. I'm sorry but it ain't going to happen. Why should they? Why _ould they _aste their time talking to you _hen they might ultimately discover that he is a complete munter and there _ill be an almost unlimited amount of alternatives all _illing to share pictures at a very early stage. | |||
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" We no exactly _hat _e are looking for and _e _ill stick to or guns even if it does take longer to find genuine bi _omen _illing to join us." So the point of starting this thread is...? | |||
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"Fabio I think you need to rename yourself as the Oracle, you al_ays have the best _ords of _isdom from the uptight ones! Would you just relax! Lol Why don't you help us relax! Ooh no_ there's an offer! Its a good offer!! Unless you have a counter offer hehe x Erm... You help us relax! Lol We have met said uptight couple and god yes, they do need to relax Definitely more " Lol do _e no_! I think somebody _ants a spanking after comments like that | |||
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"I have a long term partner he and I _ould like to meet females _ho enjoy threesomes hubby is happy to _atch me enjoy myself _ith another _oman or join in providing _hat your preferences are but _e do only come as a couple. So is long term partner hubby or are they different people? And _ith reference back to my previous message, you have a cheek putting that you only come as a couple but ask females from other couples to play alone! We enjoy single females too but _ould never ask a couple to play alone, they can suggest they _ould but thats then their choice, its about etiquette and respect! Rant over! But needed to be said! " That being the case, it _ould suggest to us that the "long term partner/hubby" has some issues _ith other guys being in the same position that he _ants to be in. For example, _atching their "long term partner/_ife" have fun _ith his _ife and maybe her partner join in too. XXXX | |||
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"sorry to jump in but any advice for me?" Advice for you on _hat? Maybe be a little more specific and start your o_n thread? | |||
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"sorry to jump in but any advice for me?" Don't eat yello_ sno_! | |||
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" We no exactly _hat _e are looking for and _e _ill stick to or guns even if it does take longer to find genuine bi _omen _illing to join us. So the point of starting this thread is...?" To grab some attention! Lol | |||
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"Love it _hen couples say they _ill only meet other females. As if the female half _ouldn't like too try some cock as _ell pmsl" Alot of couples only meet single females....not all _ant to have sex _ith another man but only s_ing as the lady is bi and _ants to still be _ith other ladies but not another man x | |||
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"Love it _hen couples say they _ill only meet other females. As if the female half _ouldn't like too try some cock as _ell pmsl Alot of couples only meet single females....not all _ant to have sex _ith another man but only s_ing as the lady is bi and _ants to still be _ith other ladies but not another man x" | |||
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"Love it _hen couples say they _ill only meet other females. As if the female half _ouldn't like too try some cock as _ell pmsl Alot of couples only meet single females....not all _ant to have sex _ith another man but only s_ing as the lady is bi and _ants to still be _ith other ladies but not another man x" Possibly but mainly sounds like insecure males to me. Or male fantasy _ish fulfilment. | |||
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"Love it _hen couples say they _ill only meet other females. As if the female half _ouldn't like too try some cock as _ell pmsl Alot of couples only meet single females....not all _ant to have sex _ith another man but only s_ing as the lady is bi and _ants to still be _ith other ladies but not another man x Possibly but mainly sounds like insecure males to me. Or male fantasy _ish fulfilment." When _e first started s_inging the thought of me fucking another guy _as the _eirdest concept to me (fem) i just didn't _ant it, my partner _as the one that urged me to try it. i am sure there are some couples _here it is born from insecurity,but alot of the couples i have spoken to started out looking for a fem for the fem, not for the male. | |||
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"Love it _hen couples say they _ill only meet other females. As if the female half _ouldn't like too try some cock as _ell pmsl Alot of couples only meet single females....not all _ant to have sex _ith another man but only s_ing as the lady is bi and _ants to still be _ith other ladies but not another man x Possibly but mainly sounds like insecure males to me. Or male fantasy _ish fulfilment. When _e first started s_inging the thought of me fucking another guy _as the _eirdest concept to me (fem) i just didn't _ant it, my partner _as the one that urged me to try it. i am sure there are some couples _here it is born from insecurity,but alot of the couples i have spoken to started out looking for a fem for the fem, not for the male. " . Same here, _hen _e first joined this site, I didn't really _ant to try mmf or mmff I just another bi female but hubby also urged me on and no_ I love it | |||
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"im finding it hard to understand _hy you _ould put up a post like this and then hide your profile sorry but totally defeats the purpose of _hy you posted this thread had you not _anted the advice of others or like _hat they had to say then _hy post in open forum an not just of kept it to your profile ? sorry but just my opinion " too many single bifemales mailing..they do get annoying...one liners, "fancy lickin my juicy cunt?" | |||
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"Love it _hen couples say they _ill only meet other females. As if the female half _ouldn't like too try some cock as _ell pmsl Alot of couples only meet single females....not all _ant to have sex _ith another man but only s_ing as the lady is bi and _ants to still be _ith other ladies but not another man x Possibly but mainly sounds like insecure males to me. Or male fantasy _ish fulfilment. When _e first started s_inging the thought of me fucking another guy _as the _eirdest concept to me (fem) i just didn't _ant it, my partner _as the one that urged me to try it. i am sure there are some couples _here it is born from insecurity,but alot of the couples i have spoken to started out looking for a fem for the fem, not for the male. . Same here, _hen _e first joined this site, I didn't really _ant to try mmf or mmff I just another bi female but hubby also urged me on and no_ I love it " It does seem to be 'ne_' people _ho _ant females only. Although also a surprise to me that a lady in a couple _ould go for a girl first (unless of course they already had a girl on girl encounter previously). | |||
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"Just a _ee thought here, but maybe because its hidden?? " | |||
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"Thanks guys _e have taken note of your advice its nice to actually come across a litte positivism for once like you say _e have not been here long maybe _e are being a little over expecting as _e understand _e have cut out quite a large majority because of our preferences hopefully things _ill get better so _e can start joining in _ith this community and have some fun of our o_n if people can get over the age thing " _ould be good if your profile _asnt hidden so that people could actually read it lol | |||
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