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By *marine OP   Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

So do I include everything in the first message? Or do I keep it simple with a picture and see if I get a reply??…

Thanks I’m advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that’s what most do pic and short message not that I’m an expert though lol

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"So do I include everything in the first message? Or do I keep it simple with a picture and see if I get a reply??…

Thanks I’m advance. "

Read their profile first. That may help you to decide.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Read the profile, refer to something in it, introduce yourself, include a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with above but also, don't be crude. No need to send a filthy first message and don't be sending a dick pic as that may put off a woman x

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

Use the forum search and look for all the advice on this topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned, first read their profile.

Then let them know what caught your eye.

A picture does help for sure.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"So do I include everything in the first message? Or do I keep it simple with a picture and see if I get a reply??…

Thanks I’m advance. "

Why break with tradition? Just send them a dick pic and a message saying Cheese, Pepperoni, Or Hawaiian?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Pay a compliment, keep it simple, show you've read the profile, include a face pic.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport


"So do I include everything in the first message? Or do I keep it simple with a picture and see if I get a reply??…

Thanks I’m advance.

Why break with tradition? Just send them a dick pic and a message saying Cheese, Pepperoni, Or Hawaiian? "

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Ask a question. Make it easy to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DON'T send a 1-liner & a dick-pic ever in a 1st msg.

About 4 sentences Max with a classy photo of yourself. If he or she is deserving of a compliment...do so. Keep it light & best of luck OP

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