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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all this has probably been asked a thousand times over already but here goes ha!

We are happily married. We both want to swing bit still get really nervous at the thought,we don't tend to waste anyones time so haven't had any meets as of yet. Are their any tips you'd give us to help relax or be less nervous?

Do we go for someone with loads of verifications or someone with a few? Thanks in advance ya sexy things x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

My initial thought was to suggest you go to a club, but then looked at your location & suspect your options on that score are pretty limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there no socials organised in your area?

We are lucky here in South Wales as there are an amazing couple who organise fantastic social nights as a way of meeting new people with no expectations of play just a friendly atmosphere and chat.

Basically a night out with like minded people, the one I attended 2 weeks ago had over 200 people there and was a fantastic way to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah its slim pickings here haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See this sounds like something we could get behind lol

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Find a couple in your area and then perhaps arrange a social only evening so you can get to know one another with no pressure of having to play. That way you can ask questions etc. We still do that now as it makes us feel more comfortable, but nerves are a good thing as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the reply everyone.. I think we will try something like this yeah, I'm all for playing so maybe a few alcoholic beverages could out the nerves at bay.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

It’s a shame you live in an area at a distance away from clubs , as I think you would benefit by attending one , next time you go on holiday have a look for any in your area,every body gets nervous even people who have been swinging for years , or try to find another new or friendly couple near you to start things slowly

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Would meet swingers with some experience otherwise could just end up with a nervous encounter , how about meeting in a pub and see where it leads

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By *asteregg01Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you tried posting in the Ireland forum?

They might be better placed to tell you about possible socials etc in your area.

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