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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people wink accept your invites say there intrested the delete you and block you? very strange LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people wink accept your invites say there intrested the delete you and block you? very strange LOL"

Are you sending people Friend Invitations just because they've winked you...? Very foolish in our humble opinion.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have any public photos only private which is your prerogative

you will find that others will be curious to see what your 8 private photos are so will send a friend request look at the pics and then once they have seen what they want they block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I messaged a single lady the other day, sent what I thought was a nice message, nothing crude, she deleted it without reading and blocked us lol. Totally confused as to why!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not the only one who gets confussed LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I messaged a single lady the other day, sent what I thought was a nice message, nothing crude, she deleted it without reading and blocked us lol. Totally confused as to why!"

Why? Who knows the secrets of the Black Magic box???? Let's put it this way:- single guys are not the only single people on here with an attitude problem the size of Birmingham....

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By *ane and JonnyCouple
over a year ago

Clwyd

We tend to block if people have been on over a year, no public pics and no verifications x not always a perfect recipe but its our preference x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tend to block if people have been on over a year, no public pics and no verifications x not always a perfect recipe but its our preference x"

See, I can totally understand that.

I was quite offended about being blocked though lol

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By *ane and JonnyCouple
over a year ago

Clwyd

Not nice being blocked without good cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God knows why she blocked you as you look very yummy indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you know what most of the single guys feel like on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tend to block if people have been on over a year, no public pics and no verifications x not always a perfect recipe but its our preference x

See, I can totally understand that.

I was quite offended about being blocked though lol"

Maybe couples werent her thing?

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By *f3_ladyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some people seem to be proud of how large their blocked list is and add people for even the slightest reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have been but her profile said looking for couples. I suppose some people don't always fill in their profile accurately though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tend to block if people have been on over a year, no public pics and no verifications x not always a perfect recipe but its our preference x

See, I can totally understand that.

I was quite offended about being blocked though lol"

Probably nothing personal. I suspect she wasn't interested in playing with you. By blocking she ensures you don't waste your time in the future, contacting someone who isn't interested.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I regularly block people that I know I have no intrest in for a variety of reasons. If I dont find them attractive or they have messaged me with a stupid email. They may hace something in their profile that I dislike. They may have sent a random friend request whuch I dislike or just not read my profile.

It stops them messaging me again and wasting their time and mine. It works for me x

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By *lexaWoman
over a year ago

southampton


"We tend to block if people have been on over a year, no public pics and no verifications x not always a perfect recipe but its our preference x

See, I can totally understand that.

I was quite offended about being blocked though lol

Probably nothing personal. I suspect she wasn't interested in playing with you. By blocking she ensures you don't waste your time in the future, contacting someone who isn't interested."

I agree with this. I meet a guy regularly who is absolutely gorgeous. His policy is to block women who don't read his messages or have deleted him. He doesn't mean to offend anyone. He's more concerned about coming over as being a pest to them so blocking them enables him to know that he's contacted them before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a blocker! I do it if I dont find somebody attractive because I've found that even a very polite "sorry I'm not interested" doesn't stop them from messaging. Why get offended by it, we cant all find each other interesting and attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fair enough. I suppose every time you send a message you can never be sure if your what they are looking for, even if you think you fit there profile.

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Why do people wink accept your invites say there intrested the delete you and block you? very strange LOL"

If only I knew the answer to this one, some bloody strange people out there and some strange ways, I've never understood it.

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

very true , weve chatted to couples , then when you go back to chat they have blocked you for no apparent reason

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I regularly block people that I know I have no intrest in for a variety of reasons. If I dont find them attractive or they have messaged me with a stupid email. They may hace something in their profile that I dislike. They may have sent a random friend request whuch I dislike or just not read my profile.

It stops them messaging me again and wasting their time and mine. It works for me x"

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By *njamesMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"very true , weve chatted to couples , then when you go back to chat they have blocked you for no apparent reason "

Glad it's not just me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a straight man it kills me to Quote SATC but 'he/she is just not into you'

that is all it boils down to..accept it and move on

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"I messaged a single lady the other day, sent what I thought was a nice message, nothing crude, she deleted it without reading and blocked us lol. Totally confused as to why!"

That is like a daily breakfast for us single guys on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we operate like an MOT station, we block 10% of single men each day, even if they havn't made contact. In fact that's exactly why we do it lol!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I honestly find it baffling the energy people expend over people NOT interested in them.

Are people really that arrogant that they can't believe someone has the audacity to block them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not arrogant at all, we reply to every message even if it's a no and certainly haven't had cause to block anyone yet. Maybe that will change in due course. Maybe it was our mistake to expect the same kind of courtesy. Each to their own I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not arrogant at all, we reply to every message even if it's a no and certainly haven't had cause to block anyone yet. Maybe that will change in due course. Maybe it was our mistake to expect the same kind of courtesy. Each to their own I suppose."

The courtesy of not wanting you to waste further time messaging someone who isn't interested?

Don't mistake discourtesy for just not doing things the way you want them done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not arrogant at all, we reply to every message even if it's a no and certainly haven't had cause to block anyone yet. Maybe that will change in due course. Maybe it was our mistake to expect the same kind of courtesy. Each to their own I suppose.

The courtesy of not wanting you to waste further time messaging someone who isn't interested?

Don't mistake discourtesy for just not doing things the way you want them done."

Like we said each to their own. Certainly don't want to debate with anyone over it. It's open to each individuals interpretation. We will continue to reply and others will simply block and delete. Having read other threads last night, it appears as though the question is raised regularly. Anyway, hope you all continue having fun!!!!

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

To the curtious people above do you ring all the pizza delivery dfs window cleaners diy men and all the other leaflets asking for your aytention....do you ring them all up to say no thanks or do you just chuck them in the bin knowing they are no intetest to you x

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