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By *rcadian110 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Hi guys. Just wanted a little advice from all you wonderful people. We changed our profile not long ago and since then our views and messages have almost completely stopped. We don't know if the site has been slow or if our profile is now a turn off. Any advice and feedback would be greatfully taken. You helped us sort it before but it's just strange that everything stopped the day we changed it. Aggggggh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you still have your horror pic (I don’t know if you have more than one; I stopped looking the minute I saw the first one.)

I was going to try to read your profile but saw how long it was and gave that amiss too.

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By *rcadian110 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Well you still have your horror pic (I don’t know if you have more than one; I stopped looking the minute I saw the first one.)

I was going to try to read your profile but saw how long it was and gave that amiss too. "

We decided to keep the horror pic as so many people messaged to say they liked it as it was so different. Guess it might be time to take it down.

We try to give as clear a summary of who we are as we can. We can be complicated lol. Will try to work out how to shorten it and still say as much. Thanks again for the advice and good to see you smiling. Your one of the good ones on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you still have your horror pic (I don’t know if you have more than one; I stopped looking the minute I saw the first one.)

I was going to try to read your profile but saw how long it was and gave that amiss too.

We decided to keep the horror pic as so many people messaged to say they liked it as it was so different. Guess it might be time to take it down.

We try to give as clear a summary of who we are as we can. We can be complicated lol. Will try to work out how to shorten it and still say as much. Thanks again for the advice and good to see you smiling. Your one of the good ones on here "
thank you for the compliment.

I worry my profile has got a bit too long tbh.

If the horror pic works for you, keep it. I’m just saying it stops me in my tracks and a bail out when I see it. I’m a sensitive soul though

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By *rcadian110 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Well you still have your horror pic (I don’t know if you have more than one; I stopped looking the minute I saw the first one.)

I was going to try to read your profile but saw how long it was and gave that amiss too.

We decided to keep the horror pic as so many people messaged to say they liked it as it was so different. Guess it might be time to take it down.

We try to give as clear a summary of who we are as we can. We can be complicated lol. Will try to work out how to shorten it and still say as much. Thanks again for the advice and good to see you smiling. Your one of the good ones on here thank you for the compliment.

I worry my profile has got a bit too long tbh.

If the horror pic works for you, keep it. I’m just saying it stops me in my tracks and a bail out when I see it. I’m a sensitive soul though "

You have always been nice to us and never steered us wrong so made it a private pic. Still have to work out how to shorten the bio tho.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Things like this

Put your favourite movie in your message header to show you actually care about who you meet rather than a quick fuck.

Whilst your bio is long, long Can also be great when it is interesting to continue reading

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By *rcadian110 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Things like this

Put your favourite movie in your message header to show you actually care about who you meet rather than a quick fuck.

Whilst your bio is long, long Can also be great when it is interesting to continue reading

"

Thanks for that. It's been surprising that of everyone we have talked to that messaged us only 3 couples have actually put the movie in their header or at all. Shows how few actually do read it. Thanks for taking the time to check it out for us though

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Things like this

Put your favourite movie in your message header to show you actually care about who you meet rather than a quick fuck.

Whilst your bio is long, long Can also be great when it is interesting to continue reading

Thanks for that. It's been surprising that of everyone we have talked to that messaged us only 3 couples have actually put the movie in their header or at all. Shows how few actually do read it. Thanks for taking the time to check it out for us though "

The world is full of surprises . And you're very welcome, I've also noticed that like me you intend on repeating yourself I understand that you wrote near the top only ever played together then again at the bottom.

Personality is the most important thing. We love to laugh, together and with others.

This is slightly repeated at the top so cutting this and adding also with others to the top part helps also shorten

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

Intrigued to know what the horror pic was now

Lexi

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Profile text is to long for probably most on here , and being told to put some word when message to prove you have read your profile is a wind up to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh could u rate my profile - what could i add/change. What sort of pics do i need? Happy to receive messages privately. And as they say im big enough and ugly enough to take any criticism- it will help in long run

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Oooh could u rate my profile - what could i add/change. What sort of pics do i need? Happy to receive messages privately. And as they say im big enough and ugly enough to take any criticism- it will help in long run "

Don't hijack someone else's thread....start your own.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Hi guys. Just wanted a little advice from all you wonderful people. We changed our profile not long ago and since then our views and messages have almost completely stopped. We don't know if the site has been slow or if our profile is now a turn off. Any advice and feedback would be greatfully taken. You helped us sort it before but it's just strange that everything stopped the day we changed it. Aggggggh "

Do you block single men from messaging? We look for couples and females and single guys but we get almost no messages from couples or females.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi guys. Just wanted a little advice from all you wonderful people. We changed our profile not long ago and since then our views and messages have almost completely stopped. We don't know if the site has been slow or if our profile is now a turn off. Any advice and feedback would be greatfully taken. "

Could you change your profile back to how it was originally if it was working well ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have mentioned, it is quite a lengthy profile and is repetitive in some areas.

I found it informative and your pics are good.

As half of a fully bisexual couple what would put me off is this; The female is described as bisexual but is only interested in soft play with other females. The male is Bi curious but “Definitely prefers females” That would be a red flag for us, suggesting that any meet could end up in traditional M/F play.

Apologies if I’m wrong but that’s how it reads to me.

V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys. Just wanted a little advice from all you wonderful people. We changed our profile not long ago and since then our views and messages have almost completely stopped. We don't know if the site has been slow or if our profile is now a turn off. Any advice and feedback would be greatfully taken. You helped us sort it before but it's just strange that everything stopped the day we changed it. Aggggggh "

Not just change it back no ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Things like this

Put your favourite movie in your message header to show you actually care about who you meet rather than a quick fuck.

Whilst your bio is long, long Can also be great when it is interesting to continue reading

Thanks for that. It's been surprising that of everyone we have talked to that messaged us only 3 couples have actually put the movie in their header or at all. Shows how few actually do read it. Thanks for taking the time to check it out for us though "

I never bother with the 'put x in the title', they annoy me tbh...perhaps that the bratty sub in me. I do read profiles though. Can't see much wrong with yours

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By *entalg93Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Morning everybody. I’ve been on here for around 2 weeks now and I’m just having no luck whatsoever. I’ve managed one cam session with another member but that is it.

Could someone take a look at my profile and see where I could be going wrong? I’ve been extremely respectful and polite in any messages I’ve sent out too. Clearly just unwanted ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning everybody. I’ve been on here for around 2 weeks now and I’m just having no luck whatsoever. I’ve managed one cam session with another member but that is it.

Could someone take a look at my profile and see where I could be going wrong? I’ve been extremely respectful and polite in any messages I’ve sent out too. Clearly just unwanted ????"

This is called thread hijacking.

It’s better to start your own thread.

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By *entalg93Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Okay, so sorry didn’t realise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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