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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, anyone whom contacts a Bi fem (Ladies/Couples/Men) do you ever struggle (even when you've read there profile) to write your introduction of yourself?

We NEVER know what to say, so it normally just ends up being ' Hi, just checked out your profile, like what we read and/or saw, if you get the chance to check us out, and like what you see, it'd be great to hear back from you'.

OK we have often had replies back, leading to meets, but other times its just ignored. How on earth do you know what to say to someone, and make it something that they want to hear, lol?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Ooohhh, you cut & paster....

Seriously, all you can do is be yourself/selves and keep reminding yourself that you have to throw a lot of balls before you win a coconut!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooohhh, you cut & paster....

Seriously, all you can do is be yourself/selves and keep reminding yourself that you have to throw a lot of balls before you win a coconut!"

LOL, No must admit the opening line can differ slightly to the above, but I'm slowly running out of idea's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single bi fem its nice to hear a bit about the both of you, normal things, not necessarily anything rude. Also something amusing that makes me giggle, it can be anything but I think just a good light hearted friendly message does it for me. One that isnt one or two sentences but not one that is an epic either! Hope this helps x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

It's not for me to tell you how to chat up women - I'm fairly sure you're better and more experienced at it than I am - but as an exercise I looked at your profile to see what 'angle' I'd use (if it wasn't for the 'no single men' part).

Then I noticed - there's a fair bit of flesh on show, but no sign of any tattoos - where are they - the back of your neck???? So something about that would have been my personalised starting point with you.

The other thing you could do that others have previously mentioned is have a couple of pics of the male - assuming you expect the aforesaid bifem to behave in a bi manner?

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not for me to tell you how to chat up women - I'm fairly sure you're better and more experienced at it than I am - but as an exercise I looked at your profile to see what 'angle' I'd use (if it wasn't for the 'no single men' part).

Then I noticed - there's a fair bit of flesh on show, but no sign of any tattoos - where are they - the back of your neck???? So something about that would have been my personalised starting point with you.

The other thing you could do that others have previously mentioned is have a couple of pics of the male - assuming you expect the aforesaid bifem to behave in a bi manner?

Good luck!"

Tattoo's on arms (part's of them can be seen on pictures)

I am yet to take picture's of male, so have got that one in mind

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Oh yes, spotted it now. The benefits of zooming in!

Black and white seems to suit you - makes you seem very Bacall-like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually say summat like, Hi, I liked your pics and would relish the chance to enjoy you (or your burd depending on who reads this), can we arrange a meet.

or...

Hi Sexy, saw your profile and would love to be one of the lucky few to eat you out.

Not managed a meet yet but have got some naughty messages, but some people don't really have the imagination for naughty messages and think fuck off ya prick is naughty, I ignore them, if they have no imagination to talk dirty I bet they're crap in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi yeah short, straight to the point and polite are good, its the ones i get that say is so and so too far for u to travel that can be annoying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I tend to respond to is messages that make me giggle.Some reference to something in profile that got your attention (not in a fishing for compliments way lol ).It does not have to be a reference to the pics,could be something in the text that made you smile maybe? This tells me that you have read my profile.

I like messages where the personality comes through as opposed to generic sounding ones.

Humour is a great one for me , make me giggle and you've got me !

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all, interesting to hear what other's want to hear x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting topic

always be yourself - try to be articulate

I always point to my verifys - as a single guy everyone thinks you are an oddball - at least verifications show that you are normal

i am always after intelligence so more than just sex - i need intensity that only comes with some kind of conversational link

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By *im and His slutCouple
over a year ago

mongolia

i rarely memo anyone on a whim ... though i did feel the need to memo Mr O about his bum ... and when he removed it lol .... was never intending to chat him up

the ones i reply to are usually the ones who mention something i've said in my profile or on forum, and make me laugh ... a good giggle is much more likely to get into my knickers.

even one liners, if they're funny, always get a response.

make it personal to the person you're mailing, and show that you have actually read the profile, not just looked at the pics

xx

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"I usually say summat like, Hi, I liked your pics and would relish the chance to enjoy you (or your burd depending on who reads this), can we arrange a meet.

or...

Hi Sexy, saw your profile and would love to be one of the lucky few to eat you out.

Not managed a meet yet but have got some naughty messages, but some people don't really have the imagination for naughty messages and think fuck off ya prick is naughty, I ignore them, if they have no imagination to talk dirty I bet they're crap in bed. "
once tryed if ya dont meet us we will blow ya basid hoose up the iggy gits didnt even reply and moved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually say summat like, Hi, I liked your pics and would relish the chance to enjoy you (or your burd depending on who reads this), can we arrange a meet.

or...

Hi Sexy, saw your profile and would love to be one of the lucky few to eat you out.

Not managed a meet yet but have got some naughty messages, but some people don't really have the imagination for naughty messages and think fuck off ya prick is naughty, I ignore them, if they have no imagination to talk dirty I bet they're crap in bed. once tryed if ya dont meet us we will blow ya basid hoose up the iggy gits didnt even reply and moved "
bllody hell they must have been really scared of meeting you lol or maybe its the bit about the basid house lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hey worm wanna wiggle" always works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""hey worm wanna wiggle" always works for us "

You learn something new every day - I had to google peladophobia

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