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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

Joined about a month ago I think but wanting some advice on how best portray myself on my profile. Mainly, I’m getting men message me which I’m grateful for I guess lol but I’m into women.

I’m someone who loves feedback so if you have any that’s would be great x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well I've noticed that you have pointed out about not in to guys further down your bio and I'm not sure if anyone else read this or just ignored so if this was at the top of the bio hopefully stop you receiving unwanted messages pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I've noticed that you have pointed out about not in to guys further down your bio and I'm not sure if anyone else read this or just ignored so if this was at the top of the bio hopefully stop you receiving unwanted messages pal "

Ahh brilliant will amend straight away

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

And your bio seems ok but like many the part at the bottom the disclaimer is pointless just like many sites moment you join you give all consent some which you are still able to control which would be in the filters re search engine which you have control over to turn off/on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And your bio seems ok but like many the part at the bottom the disclaimer is pointless just like many sites moment you join you give all consent some which you are still able to control which would be in the filters re search engine which you have control over to turn off/on"

Fair enough - I seen a few people post that so thought it was a thing.

On a second question what’s the best way you send a message I get that everyone’s different but have any tips?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"And your bio seems ok but like many the part at the bottom the disclaimer is pointless just like many sites moment you join you give all consent some which you are still able to control which would be in the filters re search engine which you have control over to turn off/on

Fair enough - I seen a few people post that so thought it was a thing.

On a second question what’s the best way you send a message I get that everyone’s different but have any tips? "

I did it to at the beginning but you learn later on its pointless, as for a message read their bio if you find similar interests it's a good start but also complimenting on their photos is another way just treat others same way you'd expect to be treated humour is another way sometimes the keys

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

And as for your pictures. not every woman likes loads of cock pictures, as it does say much about the person, as you can be smartly dressed as I see few more of those and some a bit fetish like pin up kink use the imagination

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By *otsolittlesecretWoman
over a year ago

prestatyn


"And as for your pictures. not every woman likes loads of cock pictures, as it does say much about the person, as you can be smartly dressed as I see few more of those and some a bit fetish like pin up kink use the imagination"

I agree. Clothed teasing photos get more attention than dick shots. Obviously there are women that like them, but it also puts some off.

If you dont want men messaging then set your message filters to stop them. It won't stop the ones you have already responded too but set your filters right and it ill stop the others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And as for your pictures. not every woman likes loads of cock pictures, as it does say much about the person, as you can be smartly dressed as I see few more of those and some a bit fetish like pin up kink use the imagination"

Uploaded another suit pic - thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And as for your pictures. not every woman likes loads of cock pictures, as it does say much about the person, as you can be smartly dressed as I see few more of those and some a bit fetish like pin up kink use the imagination

I agree. Clothed teasing photos get more attention than dick shots. Obviously there are women that like them, but it also puts some off.

If you dont want men messaging then set your message filters to stop them. It won't stop the ones you have already responded too but set your filters right and it ill stop the others"

Ahh will amend straight away - thanks for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo less cock pics. One or two is enough

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Still too much cock pictures you only I'd say need one as you only have one at a good angle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Deffo less cock pics. One or two is enough "

Ahh thank you will improve x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still too much cock pictures you only I'd say need one as you only have one at a good angle "

Just updating now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a great post .. ive also been sceptical about my profile and its content

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I actually really like your profile OP.

It won't be to everyone's taste, but should appeal to those with the same sense of humour.

I would add some more photos when you get chance and try a club or 2. Friendly, fun, non-pushy men tend to do well in clubs.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"This is a great post .. ive also been sceptical about my profile and its content"

Then I believe you should also make a post and see what feedback you receive

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